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Topic: scorpio games
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leowoman2
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posted June 25, 2013 03:11 PM
  
Please help me understand scorpion man. We dated for 3 months untill I ended it, because he was not over his ex gf. But I need to be the one and only for my man. He told me honestly about the situation after I found it out from a third party and he got angry if I replyed that I want nothing to do with him anymore and I want to cut off all communication. He started to accuse me for actually wanting to call it off with him, because I have some other man. I told him not to manipulate and not to contact me anymore. He replyed that he is tyred of it and does not want to contact me anymore either. So, we did not have any contact for several months. I heard that he found a new gf very fast.
Two weeks ago I met him at a party. We both were polite and friendly to each other. So, I thought that what is past is past and I do not hold any grudge. But last week, when we met again at a small gathering, he acted strange. As I am not in relationship, I flirt and there was one guy I specially gave my attention to. Then he suddenly made a bad comment about that guy, insulting his masculinity. I quickly reacted by smoothly defending the guy. He understood, what he had done and also tried to smooth things. Later on, when people started to leave for home, he commented on my clothing and told me I looked very beautiful with a flirty smile. Second later, he said that he could give me a lift home if I wanted. Just for a fraction of a second he lost his cool and could not control his appearance and I saw that he was actually very nervous about asking me that. Everybody heard it, including the guy I was flirting with the whole night. I politely declined his offer by saying that I had to stop by another place. So, what should I expect from this scorpio man now? I have heard that they are very revengeful and play a lot of games. How can I smooth things over with him? I do not want to be afraid of what he might say or do and feel comfortable, when in company.
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Doux Rêve
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posted June 25, 2013 03:26 PM
Scorpio guys usually want what they can't have (that could be said of lots of people but it's especially true in their case, imo).Maybe he was trying to see if he still has an impact on you.
He's probably attracted to you still, otherwise I doubt he would have invited you. But where do *you* stand?
What do you want from him?
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leowoman2
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posted June 25, 2013 04:01 PM
Well, I do not want him back and I am actually interested in that guy who I was flirting with that night. I do not flirt with just anybody, I really like the guy.
But, I also still care about the scorpio. It has crossed my mind that he might have feelings for me. But how should I know if he has feelings for me or not? I would be more considerate for sure.
I just want to smooth things over with him, As it seems, we run into each other. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 25, 2013 04:06 PM
Oh, I see.How about asking him? Scorps are usually quite honest people when it comes to feelings. That way you'll be able to see his reaction - will he be calm? nervous? will he answer straight away or take time? and so on. But it takes guts. IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 110
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 25, 2013 04:28 PM
Well of course he likes you !  I'm a scorpio girl and I started seeing another guy before I actually broke up with my boyfriend. I just couldn't break up with my boyfriend because although the attraction was fading, I still loved him and needed him.In fact, I was in love with the second guy. I was crazy about him. When he found out I was still seeing my bf, he ended it. I felt awful but I couldn't do anything. It's very hard for scorpios to break up with someone. Even when they fall in love with someone new. And scorpios don't fall in love that often. Maybe only once every 10 years :P He may be still in love with you. IP: Logged |
leowoman2
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posted June 26, 2013 02:00 PM
Beckylee, are you kidding me? You did not think about, what he will feel if he finds out? You did not think that he will lose any respect and trust for you that he had?IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted June 26, 2013 02:09 PM
Run. Do not engage. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.The *only* man to actually break my heart and completely destroy me (and I've been through physical abuse and cheating) was a Scorpio. That Scorpio man mind-f***ed me soooo hard! Those mind games are viscous. He was so horrible to me and when he actually expressed real feelings, I had moved on (13 months later!!) and since he couldn't have me, he stalked me, called me all kinds of disgusting names and sent mean texts and e-mails...it was horrible. It was so stupid because he was the ONE man I fully gave my love and trust to and he pooped all over it. He didn't want it when he could have it (and I was patient and waited a long time for him) but when I finally let go, he tried to reel me back in. He's a jerk -- and I will never take him back -- but the sad thing is that I still love & care for him as a human being and I only wish that he could understand my heart was genuine. It hurts me that he doesn't believe I really loved him because I had never loved anyone more. ------------------
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Geeky
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posted June 26, 2013 02:11 PM
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Originally posted by leowoman2:
Please help me understand scorpion man.
Oh dear... they won't allow that. Us understand them? Nope. They'll never let those walls down. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted June 26, 2013 02:49 PM
How about just forget about it and move on with your life and the guy you are currently interested in? If you're already over the Scorp, why waste time trying to understand his behavior? It shouldn't matter anymore. IP: Logged |
leowoman2
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posted June 26, 2013 03:21 PM
He is a friend of my relative and that is why I can not cut him out. Also, I do not love him, but I do care.
I do not want to ask him, if he still has feelings or not, because he should tell me himself if he does. I do not like guessing games.
Anyway, I think, I will just keep being politely friendly and see how it goes. IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 110
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 27, 2013 02:53 AM
Well I did tell the second guy I was in the break up stage. And I asked for a break from my bf, but he only agreed to leave me alone for a while. I would never do such a thing but I just fell in love with the second guy. He lives in another country. He thought we could have a long distance relationship, or that he could move here. I was so in love that these promises made me feel even worse- what if I started believing them and he would just leave ? So I told him I was probably gonna get back with my bf. I don't know whether I was being a coward or a realist. In your case, I think you should somehow let him know you guys are never going to get back together and you only see him as a friend. You are a bold leo, you can do it !! IP: Logged |
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