posted June 26, 2013 07:20 PM
Hello Everyone,Hoping someone could give me advice on a cancer guy.
It's a long story but I'll try to keep it short.
I've known him for just over a year and it start as a very sexual thing (very out of character for me) and it was wrong from the start. The first time he was meant to come round he stood me up, he was a total player and after about 6 months of being messed around, I still fell for him hook, line and sinker!
So being a typical Gemini I called told him how I felt he said he didn't see me that way/wasn't looking for a relationship. We didn't talk for about 6 months.
He got back in touch with me and we spoke for a bit and it felt different, he seemed more interested in me etc. I ended up going to his place and of course we slept together but I felt so used afterwards, the situation hadn't changed but I had and just knew I didn't want to be someones bit on the side, to be picked up when they felt like it.
I sent him a message saying that I wasn't interested in being his hook up but It would be good if we could stay friends. He didn't respond.
Also I left something really important at his house, so after I moved a few weeks later I sent a message with my new address and ask him to send it over, he simply replied with cool, I'll do it on Friday. I sent one final message saying that I didn't mean to be hurtful with the last message I was just being honest and that I'll miss him. No response.
I was hoping that we could stay friends, we did get on well, Yes he is a player, I just thought that maybe there was more of a friendship there.
Is there anyway I can move things back to just a friendship or is he gone for good now he knows he can't get what he wants?
PS - There were times when I did think he was really interested, he offered me a place to live for a bit and was always affectionate, but it just didn't ever seem real.
Thank you for reading, any advice would be muchly appreciated x