posted June 27, 2013 11:21 PM            

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Pluto is quincunx your partner's Venus?

There are romantic urges and deep desires that you are keeping hidden from yourself rather than admitting. Your romantic partner stimulates these urges and desires, much to your discomfort.

If your romantic partner has Pluto quincunx your Venus:

Your connection will have a powerful effect upon him/her as you trigger feelings and passions your partner has suppressed and feared to face.
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I have my Venus exactly quincunx a potential partner's Pluto at 0°00 and am wondering if any of you beautiful people have experienced this in a relationship? How did it play itself out, in your opinion?

When I read this description, I was blown away because I have never had such "dark" desires toward another. I am not a very dark person myself and am quite innocent when it comes to most sexual situations but whenever my thoughts stray sexually about him, they turn really dark and I like it. Furthermore, it always plays out in my head with him being the perpetrator and with me being the instigator. It kind of makes sense that I would stimulate this dark desire in the other person because I'm openly desiring it from them...

Has anyone experienced the same thing or at least something similar and could you share your story please?

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Oh I was just trying to figure out this aspect description and I think it comes from Bernadette Brady's meaning for the quincunx/inconjunct, which is:

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The Quincunx or Inconjunct (150 °) Key Principle: moving into a new situation; change; release, letting go.

The quincunx causes change and separation in its mode as a traveler. It walks on stage and stops the play, changes the plot, or moves everybody to a new theater. Change and separation can be expressed in many ways, starting with the ultimate separation of death, traveling, illness, moving house and home, or maybe just isolating yourself because you are studying. From changing an opinion to breaking up a relationship, the quincunx wants to move you into a new situation whether you are ready for it or not. Sometimes this is very stressful; at other times it may be joyful. The Sun-Saturn quincunx is a statement about the releasing or letting go of a set of responsibilities; leaving a very structured situation. A prisoner being released from prison is experiencing a Sun-Saturn quincunx type event. It could indicate a person retiring from work, someone stepping down from a position of authority; a mother may have this aspect as a child leaves home, and so on. The Venus-Uranus example would be talking about the ending of a socializing time, the ending of an affair, the completion of a time of high social activity, the end of a vacation, or going back to work or school.

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posted June 27, 2013 11:59 PM            

I was always drawn to him ( I swear I have a knack for picking up on plutonian vibes since thats ALL I'm attracted to and befriend). He just had this dark/mysterious/sexy vibe to him (which my scorpy mars loves ) even though he'd wear these my little pony shirts lol. He'd always try and help me and he loved my curly fro and would make little innocent compliments on how I dressed. BUT he's taken now and has been since around september ...

I do agree about the dark thoughts, my mind kinda wanders that way in general when I think of sex but with him? I'd definitely and willingly explore a few... Or alot of things on the bdsm side p: lol

I just recently saw him at a graduation party (with his girlfriend ) & I just felt so awkward lol, he kept glancing at me and making comments but I basically ignored him because he's SO attractive and I felt like if I payed any attention everyone would just know I'm flirting and extra attracted to him. I forgot to ask what college he's going to but who knows if I'll see him again. He made sure he touched my hair before he left that day too lol.... His girlfriend is so lucky

posted June 28, 2013 02:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
even though he'd wear these my little pony shirts lol.

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HAHA! Yes, that is a disturbing interest a lot of people have taken. From what I've been told, it's a t.v. show that is so rainbow cute but based on sex. I have no idea if this is correct or not. haha

Thank you so much for replying but I wonder why you didn't go after him sweety? He seemed like he was into you. With my Pluto in Scorpio 7th House style of relating, I would have been all bing bang boom on what I want!

Yes, I definitely think that it's an attraction aspect. I just wonder if it would scare him off when I read the interp. I think I'd be worried about someone digging around my hidden desire nature, who knows what I've got locked up in there!

posted June 28, 2013 05:27 AM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
HAHA! Yes, that is a disturbing interest a lot of people have taken. From what I've been told, it's a t.v. show that is so rainbow cute but based on sex. I have no idea if this is correct or not. haha

Thank you so much for replying but I wonder why you didn't go after him sweety? He seemed like he was into you. With my Pluto in Scorpio 7th House style of relating, I would have been all bing bang boom on what I want!

Yes, I definitely think that it's an attraction aspect. I just wonder if it would scare him off when I read the interp. I think I'd be worried about someone digging around my hidden desire nature, who knows what I've got locked up in there!

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My fiance has his Pluto quincunx my Venus by 1 degree and I can totally understand where you're coming from. I'm a fairly airy, light-hearted person, but when it comes to him and I let my mind wander... the things it comes up with can be downright disturbing to other people. My brother witnessed a little slice of it first-hand when we started dating and asked that we "not behave that way" in front of him. I like him being dominant over me... a lot.

Part of it is because I trust him with myself mind/body/spirit completely and I know that he would never hurt me.

I think that with this aspect, if allowed time to play out, there can be a wondrous trust and bond between two people and create an atmosphere where there is no hesitance to share things that might be considered taboo by others.

posted June 28, 2013 05:43 AM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
Just my experience

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*sigh of relief*

You really hit the nail on the head with the way you feel completely comfortable around your fiance, body/mind/spirit and the desire for dominance from him. That is EXACTLY how this person makes me feel.

You made me blush! haha Thank you so much!

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Originally posted by LionFish:
I think that with this aspect, if allowed time to play out, there can be a wondrous trust and bond between two people and create an atmosphere where there is no hesitance to share things that might be considered taboo by others.

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posted June 28, 2013 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
HAHA! Yes, that is a disturbing interest a lot of people have taken. From what I've been told, it's a t.v. show that is so rainbow cute but based on sex. I have no idea if this is correct or not. haha

Thank you so much for replying but I wonder why you didn't go after him sweety? He seemed like he was into you. With my Pluto in Scorpio 7th House style of relating, I would have been all bing bang boom on what I want!

Yes, I definitely think that it's an attraction aspect. I just wonder if it would scare him off when I read the interp. I think I'd be worried about someone digging around my hidden desire nature, who knows what I've got locked up in there!

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O.o I had no idea about that lol

And I didn't approach him because he had a girlfriend (and I'm not into breaking people up) and I'm kinda sorta a crushslut as in I crush ALOT lol, it was actually a guy in the same class that I had liked since the year before and was "trying" to approach but failed miserably until we almost graduated (I later talked to him though and realized he was NOT for me), so thats why I didn't approach.

posted June 29, 2013 02:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:

I'm kinda sorta a crushslut as in I crush ALOT lol,

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http://youtu.be/ra9Uh5J_X-U?t=20s

posted October 04, 2013 05:39 AM            

I miss you and you've probably abandoned this forum without giving me your email -_-...
anyways good luck with this guy.