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Topic: How do you know when you're close to these Moon / Venus signs?
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hannaramaa
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posted June 30, 2013 06:28 AM
  
Moon in Sagittarius, (Mercury in Sagittarius, for good measure), Venus in AquariusThese are social signs, but not really bonding ones. How do you know when they've let you in, or that they feel close to you? IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted June 30, 2013 03:17 PM
My SO has these placements. I don't really know exactly what to say that would explain us being close exactly. We talk like best friends, hang out like best friends. He asks my opinion on certain things and he values it. We talk about various subjects pertaining to things that would confuse others. We sort of have a "secret language" and it baffles people...lol. He trusts me implicitly with things in his life. That's just a few things besides them actually telling you, which they do when they are comfortable enough to do so. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 30, 2013 06:36 PM
 I think I must be on the right track then. I'm always very honest with my observations and thoughts with this person. With the exception of admitting I like them, but I don't think that makes much difference anyway. Are they very private people, or would these placements be an open book for anyone?IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted June 30, 2013 06:39 PM
Lol don't be too honest. They like the thrill of the chase & the mystery. You have to take the whole chart into a account as well. As for being an open book or private, I'm gonna say private even when they act like an open book with you. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 30, 2013 06:47 PM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Lol don't be too honest. They like the thrill of the chase & the mystery. You have to take the whole chart into a account as well. As for being an open book or private, I'm gonna say private even when they act like an open book with you.
Oh... I have Sun and Mercury and Venus in Aries. I can't help it! *stomps feet.* I want a do-over! Sun is in Capricorn, Mercury is in Sag and Mars is in Taurus. So I'm thinking they definitely move slow if they actually like someone vs. just liking the sex someone is giving them. His Jupiter is in Leo, Saturn in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted June 30, 2013 06:58 PM
Holy crap, another clone of mine  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Textbook
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posted June 30, 2013 07:03 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Moon in Sagittarius, (Mercury in Sagittarius, for good measure), Venus in AquariusThese are social signs, but not really bonding ones. How do you know when they've let you in, or that they feel close to you?
Sag you won't know until they hit you over the head with it and then you're totally confused because you thought they hated you all that time lmao. IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted June 30, 2013 08:06 PM
Lol my SO has sadge moon Aquarius mercury & venus & Taurus Mars. The mars makes them deliberate which seems like forever to some people lolIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 30, 2013 08:45 PM
So with all those placements, Mars in Taurus especially, it's safe to say a person would move slow when pursuing a love interest? Like they would definitely be friends first and then decide? IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted June 30, 2013 08:51 PM
Slow would be an understatement. I think molasses pours faster. Lol. They will play the friends card forever until they decide. Until then, just be cool. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 30, 2013 09:05 PM
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Slow would be an understatement. I think molasses pours faster. Lol. They will play the friends card forever until they decide. Until then, just be cool.
Lol my dad is an Aquarius sun with a Cancer moon (which is kind of like having a Capricorn moon I guess? Just better?) in any case he always tells me that 'cause I worry so much. Ugh I just have so many questions about his behavior but this should either get moved to Sweet Peas or Personal Readings before I ask or explain anything. In short, I didn't want to drive home drunk one night so I stayed in the spare bed of one of our mutual friends, but the Capricorn guy saw. He basically came in the room without knocking and laughed, like he thought something was going to go down with us and he was excited and then he waved "'night" and went to his own room. With his "buddy." If he has a "buddy," then why does he care where I'm sleeping or who I'm sleeping with - if anybody? IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted June 30, 2013 09:10 PM
My SO does similar things too but not exactly to that extent. He tells me all the time that he wouldn't mind me having another husband besides him. That if I choose to be with someone else, I can as long as I'm honest. I think it's all a set up. Sagittarius rules morals. I don't fall for none of it lol IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 01, 2013 01:43 AM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
My SO does similar things too but not exactly to that extent. He tells me all the time that he wouldn't mind me having another husband besides him. That if I choose to be with someone else, I can as long as I'm honest. I think it's all a set up. Sagittarius rules morals. I don't fall for none of it lol
I kind of feel this way too. A week ago me, his "buddy" and him were talking and I asked if their co-worker was single. He looked like he'd seen a ghost when I asked that and then made up some excuse like "Oh he is as far as we know...but he hangs out with our secretary and has two kids from two different baby mamas." Like, okay... He is also complimenting me a lot and telling me how pretty I am. He seems shy and insecure and then comes out with a whole argument about why he thinks I like him and has obviously analyzed the death out of me. Why waste so much energy on someone if you're involved with someone else.. I don't get it. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted July 01, 2013 03:16 AM
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don't be too honest. They like the thrill of the chase & the mystery.
I've said this on a different thread - and pasting it here :
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The kind of guy who would ONLY like you if you play hard to get - is also the kind of guy who will drop you like a hot potato once he does get you!So what is the point in being with this kind of guy... or in playing hard to get at all? AVOID emotionally immature people.
AVOID. AVOID. AVOID. And the exact same thing goes for a woman who is only after the challenge of men who are hard to get...
Once they get the guy - what happens?
She gets bored. AVOID!
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Odette
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posted July 01, 2013 03:18 AM
So in my opinion - always be honest and be yourself.
If they are the kind of person who is only interested in the thrill of the chase - then .. what gives?
Because then they just chase you... and like - what happens next? lol
Unless you want them to endlessly chase you *shrug*I'm not 15 anymore IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted July 01, 2013 01:21 PM
I get what you are saying odette but I feel that withholding some things is healthier. Don't be so quick to lay it all out on the line during the first few weeks or so. More or less, play it cool. It can come across as being over eager & to them that's not an attractive trait. If he's asks her if she likes him, then yes tell him you like him but don't overly gush afterwards about he's the most perfect person for her etc etc. some people have a tendency to do that & to a non attached type of person, that can be a turn off I kind of follow the dont ask, don't tell protocal when it comes to relating to the opposite sex IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 01, 2013 04:14 PM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
I get what you are saying odette but I feel that withholding some things is healthier. Don't be so quick to lay it all out on the line during the first few weeks or so. More or less, play it cool. It can come across as being over eager & to them that's not an attractive trait. If he's asks her if she likes him, then yes tell him you like him but don't overly gush afterwards about he's the most perfect person for her etc etc. some people have a tendency to do that & to a non attached type of person, that can be a turn off I kind of follow the dont ask, don't tell protocal when it comes to relating to the opposite sex
Oh I'd never gush, so that's good. I have a lot of pride and Pluto in the 5th so I am about having the upper hand constantly (yes, I know that's not always healthy etc.) He didn't ask if I liked him, he just assumed I did because I "could hardly look at him," when he tried talking to me and he perceived me as treating him differently than I did our other regulars (and explained as much too) I never admitted or denied I liked him though, but clearly he likes me if he's putting that much thought into my behavior? IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted July 01, 2013 04:37 PM
I'm with Odette on this one.My husband and I even had a, "Here's all my crazy," conversation/date relatively early on.
It worked for us. It was also fairly obvious that we both liked each other, and neither of us is the most subtle person emotionally (Aqua Moon for me, Saggie Moon for him). Perhaps things would be different for a Scorpio Moon, Capricorn Moon couple. Edited to add: We were also in our late 20s/early 30s at that point and were both playing for keeps.
Laying it all out might be odd for casual daters. ------------------
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mockingbird
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posted July 01, 2013 04:42 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Why waste so much energy on someone if you're involved with someone else.. I don't get it.[/B]
Emotional immaturity?
Being bored with what one already "has" with a constant eye towards new horizons? ------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted July 01, 2013 04:52 PM
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Originally posted by mockingbird:
Emotional immaturity?
Being bored with what one already "has" with a constant eye towards new horizons?
I agree with emotional immaturity. He just started up the deal with his "buddy." though, after it was clear it'd take effort to sleep with me. Hmm. Ugh, we just get along well and I'm attracted by the fact he doesn't back off when an argument approaches. IP: Logged |
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