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posted July 01, 2013 11:15 PM            

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Hi everyone,

I hope someone can help. This is not so much about my synastry chart,seven555 helped a lot. Whether you are a man or a woman you are a sweet soul. (Still working on it tho).

It concerns a man that I met about 6 years ago through my place of employment. The attraction and sexual energy is incredible to say the very least! VENUS SEXTILE VENUS AND VENUS SEXTILE MARS in our synastry. For about two years there was a lot of flirting and he paid a lot of attention to me. The he started to avoid me even though he was still very nice when we did meet. He's a cancer. That's a trait I think. Every once in awhile he would start acting flirty towards me again. There would always be hugs and a few times he held my hand then avoidance again.
I will try to not make this long winded. The feelings I have for this man are intense. I have pluto that is conjunct his venus and mars in his fith house in synastry. Yes I am obsessed.
I have actually decided to take a years' sabatical from work and then return in September hoping things will cool down a bit.When I said goodbye to him I said I have medical issues to take care off. He gave me a VERY strong embrace and I noticed a tear in his eye. September is in two months and I am very nervous. WHY??? he is married!!! I ALWAYS THOUGHT cancers were the type to be very loyal and never cheat. Is it poosible for us to be just friends?

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posted July 02, 2013 04:08 AM            

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just friends? i dont think so lets be real now hahah with feelings like that for him? pluto makes it so you guys can never be just "friends" its just too intense you'll want to be all over him no matter what..

i know because a guy im obsessed with now his pluto conjuncts my venus and vice versa...impossible i tell ya to ever be just friends we just want each other too bad

just because his married doesn't mean his feelings get turned off but you should respect his marriage and if he wants to break it then thats fine, but don't be the one to initiate anything...its his choice don't be a homebreaker

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posted July 02, 2013 11:09 AM            

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Thanks foxxyoo
Did I get your name right? You may be right about this. I have decided to teach at another school. Even though he is a cancer he is still a man. I am going to post a new topic - are married cancer men really that faithful just out of curiosity.

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