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Topic: Have you Found Love Yet ?
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beckylee Knowflake Posts: 112 From: japan Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 02, 2013 01:58 PM
And what is your Sun and venus signs ? So, are you with someone who you can say that you are really in love with ? Do you believe in Love ? I'm a Scorpio sun and Libra venus, and I have a bf, but I'm afraid he is not the one. I know because I have had 2 bfs I was crazy about and I don't feel passionate enough now to call it love. I envy those who are together with someone they are completely in love with !!! IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2577 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 02, 2013 02:03 PM
It doesn't necessarily mean that you're not in love if you don't feel the butterflies or whatever.Some people, particularly young women and Plutonian and Martian types, don't think they're in love unless there's drama, love/hate feelings and uncertainty. Love can be quiet and drama-free, too. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1622 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 02, 2013 02:07 PM
I don't believe passion is entirely responsible for being in love. to truly be in love in my opinion, is when you are able to put their needs before yours in certain situations. Being a best friend & lover. love doesn't equate to jealousy and possessiveness. it is always wanting the best for them even when it doesn't include you. I am crazy in love with my SO and we have a certain kind of comfort with each other. there are days we can sit quietly with each other and not say a word to each other. sometimes we get into deep debates about philosophy and other current events. sometimes we feel indifferent to each other. sometimes we are all over each other but nonetheless we love each other to pieces. my sun is capricorn with moon in venus & aquarius venus. neptune is in my 7th house IP: Logged |
beckylee Knowflake Posts: 112 From: japan Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 02, 2013 02:20 PM
aquacheeky & cappy- I'm sure the kind of love you are experiencing is true love.I didn't mean having drama everyday, I just think that you know it when you meet someone a little more special. The bond feels much stronger. With my current bf, we get along perfectly. We love each other. But I know something is missing. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2577 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 02, 2013 02:55 PM
How's your synasry?Maybe it's Saturn, to give your relationship purpose. IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 725 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 02, 2013 03:20 PM
Nope. Never had a bf actually & I am starting to get frustrated & impatient. Part of it is my shyness with guys & people in general & also it's because I am attracted to guys I can't have (the outgoing Leo types). I'm attracted to guys who have something I don't have. My Sun & Venus is in Sag. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4172 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 02, 2013 04:07 PM
((( Milly )))Don't worry, you'll find someone to share love with, soon. I'm sure about that. I haven't found love and to be honest I'm not sure I even believe in "love". I mean the whole concept is tricky and I don't know where I stand exactly.
At this point I'd just like to find someone I can like, admire, and appreciate on a personality level, and hopefully be attracted to. The crazy butterflies and passion don't seem to be in the stars for me. I don't know man, feels lonely sometimes but then when I look at other people and their relationships, I wonder what's best: being single but not having your mind messed with, or being with someone but going through all kinds of highs and lows. IP: Logged |
starrystratosphere Knowflake Posts: 99 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted July 02, 2013 04:15 PM
i some how feel like i have lost that place in me which looks for love. i feel there is nothing to look for anymore. it is neither bitter or sweet. i am content with that some how.sun gemini , venus taurus IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: Mälmo, Sweden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 02, 2013 07:41 PM
Yes I found love definitely but I am not with this person right now, I really want us to be though. I really truly hope that the universe allows us to be together in a good relationship sometime soon. There is something that tells me that we need each other.I definitely can say I have found love, I know what it is...that is for sure. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 700 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 02, 2013 07:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by starrystratosphere: i some how feel like i have lost that place in me which looks for love. i feel there is nothing to look for anymore. it is neither bitter or sweet. i am content with that some how.sun gemini , venus taurus
Oh wow i have been feeling the same way lately. I feel like something inside me died. I just dont care for it anymore. I am also Gemini sun, Taurus venus
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MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 156 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 02, 2013 07:51 PM
^^Maybe Saturn opposite your Venus sign and inconjunct your Sun sign? I'm sorry you two IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 700 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 02, 2013 08:12 PM
My boyfriend honestly im done with him. Ready to move on. Im tired of his old grumpy ways.Im ready to have fun and it definitely wont be with scrooge anymore. I just want to be away from romance for a good while. I am just dead when it comes to love.
Maybe i should just be a nun. IP: Logged |
starrystratosphere Knowflake Posts: 99 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted July 02, 2013 09:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: Oh wow i have been feeling the same way lately.I feel like something inside me died. I just dont care for it anymore. I am also Gemini sun, Taurus venus
well that is interesting. maybe our combo is indeed going through something. for me, it is something i understand rather than dont. this discribes it better for me, i write sometimes and i think what i feel with this is something like this... wandering in my unknown where the earth is still and the sky silent my angst is thristy in its own ocean as it flows endlessly with parallels of that which does not seem to exsist of what is understood, all the stars will justify it is as day and night go side by side wishing you the best IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1022 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 02, 2013 10:28 PM
I'm a Capricorn sun with Venus in Pisces.I've fell in love with two Pisces moons and a 12th house Libra moon. Pisces... ------------------ http://virgingoat.tumblr.com IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 183 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 02:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Some people, particularly young women and Plutonian and Martian types, don't think they're in love unless there's drama, love/hate feelings and uncertainty.Love can be quiet and drama-free, too.
i agree. some people think that that is what it means to have a passionate relationship. IP: Logged |
Lunae Knowflake Posts: 1028 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 03:07 AM
I've had a lot of crushes but I never felt what it's like to have my feelings reciprocated. Scorpio sun, Libra venus. IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze Knowflake Posts: 333 From: One World Registered: Nov 2009
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posted July 03, 2013 03:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Love can be quiet and drama-free, too.
^ | | Love can also be quietly passionate, those shared suggestive looks and subtle touches. One of the best things about being in a relationship (sometimes love) is knowing that you two have your own secret little world that no one else is a part of. You touch each other in ways normal relationships wouldn't. For example you can ask for help with a look, get things going with a different look, ask for a hug or cuddle with a simple touch, hold or touch their hand in a certain way, tell someone you love them with a simple touch, say caress their cheek. How many friends of yours or family members would you caress their cheek to show them you loved them? Love, and relationships, let you build a much deeper rapport and level of communication with someone. Maybe a lot of us here have had bad experiences, probably some people are not nearly as tactile as I am. People express themselves in different ways. What makes love so attractive? We know how we feel and what we think, but we will never know 100% truthfully how they feel and what they are thinking. Which is probably why, "what are you thinking about?" is one of the favourite questions that is asked amongst couples. I found someone I loved, but it didn't work out. ------------------ Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 2794 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 03:55 AM
No.... I've pretty much dated a small village too..Sun & Venus in Gemini, IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3045 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 06:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: No.... I've pretty much dated a small village too..Sun & Venus in Gemini,
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peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3045 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 06:58 AM
i'm in love leo sun, venus gemini IP: Logged |
libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 870 From: past, present, and future Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 12:24 PM
Yes I found love, it took me awhile but it was worth waiting for. Married a firey Leo man, with a zest for life. Libra Sun, Cancer Moon, Virgo VenusIP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4172 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2013 12:30 PM
I'm in love with food. I love it unconditionally.Does that count? IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2577 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 03:23 PM
Well, I think I've found love.Only time will tell, though. To me, love isn't real unless it's stood the test of time. I'm Aqua sun and Venus and he's Cappy sun and Venus. IP: Logged |
Aries Eagle Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Mars & Moon Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 03, 2013 04:35 PM
Of course I believe in Love duh all Pisces Venus should do. But i'm not in a hurry for it. Typical Taurus Mars I think true love will come to you in the right moment no need to rush about it.Aries Sun Pisces Venus takecare IP: Logged |
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 127 From: Washington, DC Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 03, 2013 07:37 PM
I believe in love, but I've never been in love, personally. I'm not even sure if it's something for which I'd be well suited.Aries Sun Pisces Venus ------------------ Sun -> Aries Moon -> Sagittarius Ascendant -> Virgo IP: Logged |