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Ami Anne
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posted July 02, 2013 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to hear what your opinions and experience on this.

Thank you

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Ami Anne
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posted July 02, 2013 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please add orbs,houses and signs if you want to.
If not, just orbs and the aspects will be great.

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I'm so cappy
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posted July 02, 2013 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Chiron in Cancer (11th) square Libra Moon (2nd), orb 5.

I don't have a good relationship with my mother but I'm totally used to it.

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Ami Anne
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posted July 02, 2013 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, I'm so Cappy

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Venusian Moon
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posted July 02, 2013 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Chiron conjunct moon in the 11th.


Cant stand her 6 days out of the week.

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posted July 02, 2013 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Chiron in ARies in 4th sextile Moon in Aquarius in 2nd.

(just thought I`d post a positive aspect for a change. ).

Though my relationship with my mum is sometimes complicated (they usually are, and my Mum is a Scorpio with Virgo Moon and Cancer ASC. lol), we are very close.
I think any problems we have stem from caring too much, which might sound strange. But actually I managed to hurt her, even being just a child, because I wouldn`t stay on her arms but wanting to stand on my own feet (Moon in Aquarius).
I find this quite typical.

However it really is, the problems we have stem from her worrying too much and sometimes having problems to permit a different perspective (Her Mercury is in Scorpio, too).
Well, us children are probably a challenge to her, my Mercury being in Sag, my brother`s Mercury being in Aquarius.

But anyway true to the harmonious sextile, I am one of the very lucky ones to know that I can always rely on the love and support of my parents. And yes I know how precious that is.

If anything I`d say, I am sometimes too close to my mom, and the whole family; makes it difficult to be an own person (though I have always worked on that).


Oh and almost forgot to mention, but I am very proud of my parents.
After talking to friends, I realized, that this is not a given in most families. But I wouldn´t respect and appreciate my parents even if they were total strangers.

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LiesLilithsaidtouranus
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posted July 02, 2013 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LiesLilithsaidtouranus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have a hard aspect between Chiron and the moon. In fact they are trine by 1 degree. The moon is in the 2nd house in the sign Gemini, while my Chiron is in the Libra in the 6th house.
I have a difficult relationship with my mother. Her sun is opposite my Chiron and Vertex by 6-7 degrees. She makes my blood boil at times and then there are other times I love her to death. She has moon trine Chiron and is very happy with her own mom, the trine is loose at 10 degrees.

I think Chiron in aspect to the mother, also entitles other planets aspecting the moon negatively. I don't think Chiron and moon square opposition or square is enough. I think an afflicted moon can also cause greater hardship with mom.

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posted July 02, 2013 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon conjunct Chiron - 6°.
I know some people wouldn't count it, but I can feel it.

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posted July 02, 2013 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsPrism     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Chiron exactly inconjunct my Moon at 26 degrees of Gemini and Capricorn respectively.

I had a bad relationship with my mother when I was young. The kind of thing where you bend over backwards to try to get love from her but she disregards most attempts.

As an adult, she has changed a lot and I have no problems with her whatsoever!

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posted July 02, 2013 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon trine Chiron, pretty wide orb. I can barely stand my mom but I think that has to do with other factors such as she's a raging mad Scorpio.

Oh. Have had a pMoon and Chiron-Taurus in the 8th for the past few years and emotionally it's been horrible,
few months left and moon is in 9th though!

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posted July 02, 2013 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunflower-moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Cancer Chiron conjuncts my Leo moon by about 2 degrees in the 11th house. My parents divorced when I was 10 and ever since then my relationship with my mother has either been bad or nonexistent(22 now). Even before they divorced, we didn't have much of a relationship and I was scared of her all the time. At one point, she told my sister that she never felt a bond with me - even when I was a baby. We don't necessarily have a bad relationship at this point. We're cordial when we see each other (which is about 3 times a year) but that's about it.I'm perfectly fine with this.

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posted July 02, 2013 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iliketurtles     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my chiron (in 5th) is sextile my moon
her chiron is unaspected in her chart. it is in her 6th and my 12th.

her to me
- chiron trine sun
- chiron square moon, venus

me to her
- chiron square pluto

we have a fairly cordial and peaceful relationship. the odd flare up here and there but thats about it. we've not been that close in an emotional sense. if there is something wrong in a relationship she tends to deny it or try to ignore it and that gets on my nerves to no end. i love her to bits but there is a bit of distance. we're not like BFF's or anything and i definately don't tell her absolutely everything..if i am upset about something she won't really listen, she thinks i am just complaining so i just don't tell her anything. she is cancer rising though avoids conflict and emotional challenges.

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posted July 02, 2013 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Moon conjunct Chiron - 6°.
I know some people wouldn't count it, but I can feel it.

Yes, Chiron can have a wider orb. Asteroids have a small orb

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posted July 02, 2013 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pisces moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries chiron retrograde conjunct Pisces moon in the 12th 2 degree orb.

I've talked about what I think of my mother on here before and yes, very painful relationship with her. She wasn't abusive or anything like that, she was just very selfish, very immature, very ignorant, very not present.

She made some very poor choices on behalf of me and my sister. Very poor. Such an ignorant, ignorant woman.

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posted July 03, 2013 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
At one point, she told my sister that she never felt a bond with me - even when I was a baby...

I'm so sorry. This is horrible. I feel your repressed pain...I hope you've managed to overcome this ordeal.

I have my Moon in virgo conjunct Chiron in the 9th. I've always had a hard time with female family members. My mom's focus on her appearance when I was growing up made me also focused on mine and very critical of myself. My grandmother was always picking on me about not being neat and having ADD. My mom was flighty and basically abandoned our family 1/2 of the time for periods of time and I had trust issues because of it.

The good is that it's taught me how to be empathetic and forgive. I don't hate my mom. We have a strange relationship. My moon also trines Uranus. We're actually closer than we've ever been because I decided to stop wasting my energies hating someone and to be Godly and try to move on.

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posted July 03, 2013 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for themischievousone     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Moon conjunct Chiron - 6°.
I know some people wouldn't count it, but I can feel it.

Same with me.

I have Chiron 20° Gem House 12 and Moon 14° Gem House 11.

I wouldn't say my relationship with my mother is painful however there is a big difference between her attitude and treatment towards me and my siblings (my siblings both joke about me being the "least favorite"). I've always shrugged it off as being the oldest guinea pig/test kid.

I've never been close with her for sure. But still friendly at least.

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posted July 03, 2013 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for la_mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
moon conjunct chiron and sun in gemini, lilith very close to it, all opposite uranus and square jupiter. let's leave it at: my parents are difficult

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