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Topic: How do I keep things light and superficial?
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goatcat
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posted July 03, 2013 01:46 PM
  
I threw a fit last night because I couldn't get sex. I embarrassed the hell out myself. My Scorpio moon is always showing out...------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 03, 2013 01:48 PM
If you really can't help it - just accept it.IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted July 03, 2013 02:11 PM
yeah...I was able to talk to someone who is good at looking into my situations and bring in perspective. She told me I'm obsessing. And that I just need to do fun things and plan my life. going out all day with my friend tomorrow! that should help me take my mind off it. I tried doing that up North, cause guy couldn't get work off...my mom has really bad "foot in mouth syndrome" and she isn't even a Sagittarius. And sometimes I wanted to take my mind off of that he's not there...So on the awesome boat ride she said "I really wish your guy was here..." and I told her to "stop talking..." ha. (how did I get stuck sitting next to her? lol)
My mom is very chatty, wound up, everything is great kind of person. It's annoying when I'm in a discontent mood...or trying not to be. I'm just hoping I don't get spiteful snobby and douchey taking my mind off, and having a good time. (being vengeful is my nature with moon pluto and lilith so close together) I don't wanna be that way to someone I respect. I honestly don't think I would be obsessing so bad if people weren't in my business, and getting on my d@mn nerves. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted July 03, 2013 02:32 PM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
I threw a fit last night because I couldn't get sex. I embarrassed the hell out myself. My Scorpio moon is always showing out...
yeah I can't go too long with out sex. When it's been a while...I just get tense and feel paranoid and venerable around people. Two years ago I started using a...I probably shouldn't say it, but I'm sure you get my drift. And I noticed my self feeling more at ease around people. And there is something real liberating about getting satisfied with out needing someone. Helps me cope in my long distance thing too. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 03, 2013 04:06 PM
The best way to keep things light and superficial is to only discuss light and superficial topics  IP: Logged |
meissieri
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From: The Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 04, 2013 04:38 AM
It'd really help to seek out people who like you just fine, with or without your strong emotions. Stick to people who don't give you the impression that you're annoying or a killjoy, you'll feel more at ease and then you may find yourself be able to hold all of these fun, light-hearted conversations you want so badly. Maybe even in situations outside of them, like your job. Some of them may like your strong emotions. Don't force yourself to act all casual when your heart isn't into it and especially not only for others. Even when it works, you're still forgetting about someone very important. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 04:40 AM
Why do you need to be superficial? I actually like scorpio moons because their so intense about their thoughts and feelings, to me their mind is exotic. This is coming for a chart which is heavily superficial. IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze
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From: One World
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted July 04, 2013 07:03 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
But my Scorpio moon is soooo brooding though. And it trines my pouting, grudge holding Cancer Mars. If I just allow the emotions to linger, I begin to think of imaginary reasons to stay mad.
To me that sounds super attractive. And you say you're the crazy one... >_> ------------------
Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 04, 2013 11:15 AM
It's not that I don't like my intensity. I would like to know when to be intense and when to keep things light and superficial.
I'm tryna think of a good example.------------------
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