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Topic: What signs or aspects in a man's chart would be attracted to a bossy woman?
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4358 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2013 11:22 AM
Libras & Water signs are usually into dominant women.Especially Scorpio Venuses.. omg. They're so submissive it's almost weird. I think the same goes for Pisces Venus. Moon or Venus in Aries sounds plausible, too.. though they can be dominant, themselves. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 1356 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 12:40 PM
^^ I can’t understand how a Moon or Venus in Aries would be into dominant women. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4358 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2013 12:43 PM
Hey anonymi! Nice to see you.Well, Moon and Venus represent what a man wants in a woman, right? So, Aries being the "Warrior" of the Zodiac, these people would be attracted to aggressive, or at least "confident" women. I know for sure that Pisces Moon men like their women shy / reserved.. and kinda 'pure' or 'chaste' looking (the "good girl").
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Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2734 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 01:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I am thinking the ones who have Libra or Aqua on the AC. I know a guy who has an Aqua AC with moon and he likes loud obnoxious people that drive me crazy. I am like, how can you stand it? He watches the shows with them in it and is drawn to that. It must be the Leo DC? I have the Libra AC and have my limits he seems to have none. Not that I am obnoxious or loud, I have Venus in Leo in his seventh, this is why we get along.He likes loud, obnoxious and bossy while you talking about bossy only, without the loud, obnoxious part. I still go with Aqua or Libra AC. I don't mind bossy so long as they don't go overboard.
Of course! Without the loud and obnoxious! I dislike loud and obnoxious people! I know I can be bossy,and authoritative,am so used to having things my way you know. @ Doux I was just thinking about the King of the Underworld.I think plutonians would be attracted to someone who has a dominant character.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6882 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 02:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: I can be a little bossy. I really dont to steamroll guys though.I am Leo sun/Taurus Moon/Scorpio Rising I tend to do better with triple fixed men - it's more of a compromise this way.
Baha we ( triple fixed people) are pretty bossy aren't we? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4358 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2013 02:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I was just thinking about the King of the Underworld.I think plutonians would be attracted to someone who has a dominant character.
Seems to work for the men, yes. I find dominant people attractive but I attribute that to my Mars on the DSC in aspect to Pluto and Saturn (Mars = male significator).
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Brontex Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted July 05, 2013 12:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Libras & Water signs are usually into dominant women
Dominant, yes. Domineering, no. Personally, if I don't question who's the smarter of the two, I'm probably not really interested. But I'd also be lying if I said I didn't like to get slapped around a little bit under the right circumstances. Relationships can be a long road. Who wants to get stuck with ALL the driving? IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 269 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013
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posted July 05, 2013 12:46 PM
pisces moon here. i hate bossy women, or people who try to control any sort of social situation. control of other people is merely an illusion anyways. and with my aries ego, i dont like bossy women either. i however DO like the argument aspect of it...i love the hot intense fights that can happen...but i couldnt DATE a girl trying to be king of the castle. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Krystie Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted July 06, 2013 08:32 AM
I was with a guy who had sun, moon and venus all in aries plus descendant in leo and although he loved that I had a "backbone" we fought so much it drove me crazy... he was awesome but we had our own power struggles... he had a very strong, full on personality with pluto in 8th house as well. I was with a guy before him who had sun and venus in aries but pisces moon and cancer ascendant but i was a totally different woman when I was with him... i did everything for him and in the end he took it for granted so I totally changed.IP: Logged |
Krystie Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted July 06, 2013 08:34 AM
I was with a guy who had sun, moon and venus all in aries plus descendant in leo and although he loved that I had a "backbone" we fought so much it drove me crazy... he was awesome but we had our own power struggles... he had a very strong, full on personality with pluto in 8th house as well. I was with a guy before him who had sun and venus in aries but pisces moon and cancer ascendant but i was a totally different woman when I was with him... i did everything for him and in the end he took it for granted so I totally changed.IP: Logged |
Krystie Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted July 06, 2013 08:38 AM
I was with a guy who had sun, moon and venus all in aries plus descendant in leo and although he loved that I had a "backbone" we fought so much it drove me crazy... he was awesome but we had our own power struggles... he had a very strong, full on personality with pluto in 8th house as well. I was with a guy before him who had sun and venus in aries but pisces moon and cancer ascendant but i was a totally different woman when I was with him... i did everything for him and in the end he took it for granted so I totally changed.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4358 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 06, 2013 08:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by Brontex: Personally, if I don't question who's the smarter of the two...
Wow. Really. quote: Relationships can be a long road. Who wants to get stuck with ALL the driving?
Never thought about it this way. Guess the best option is 50/50. quote: Originally posted by CatMote: pisces moon here. i hate bossy women
Yep, you confirm my observations. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2734 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 06, 2013 09:32 AM
i hate bossy women [/QUOTE] I hate when my boyfriend turns into a moon. I hate when a dinosaur steals my chair. ah yes I also hate when I walk outside someone randomly throws a fridge at me.
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CatMote Knowflake Posts: 269 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013
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posted July 06, 2013 09:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407:
[b] i hate bossy women
I hate when my boyfriend turns into a moon. I hate when a dinosaur steals my chair. ah yes I also hate when I walk outside someone randomly throws a fridge at me.[/B][/QUOTE] whats the problem?
------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4358 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 06, 2013 09:47 AM
Guys, keep the peace.Everyone's different, let's not start a fight. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2734 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 06, 2013 09:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: I hate when my boyfriend turns into a moon.I hate when a dinosaur steals my chair. ah yes I also hate when I walk outside someone randomly throws a fridge at me.
whats the problem? [/B][/QUOTE]
Where is the problem?
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HannieBananie Knowflake Posts: 285 From: Somewhere in the great big north >_> Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 07, 2013 09:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: Ne me pas demandez. Mais je suis un garcon!I feel like me and Jessica are like passing notes in class or something.
Je parle francais aussi ♥.
------------------ Pisces sun Leo/Virgo moon ♥ Air woman. Fire man, made me a girl who's barely Piscean... IP: Logged |
Textbook Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Scotland Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 07, 2013 09:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by starrystratosphere: ^^yes, you are right. pisces moon [b]seems like he would like a bossy woman but they are really turned off by that. and yeah, i think earth signs appreciate a woman who will just take a lot of the action without them having to say so. edit ** but the question really is what do yoU want your man to be like [/B]
Oh, this is sooo not true in my experience lmao. Pisces Moon guys actually seem to have almost a weird fetish for outgoing, ballsy girls. Which isn't to say they won't date a more passive woman, they will, but I think if you really wanna see their switches flip, put them in a room with a firecracker.
I do agree though that Taurus and Cappy earth sign guys, want someone quiet and passive - a lot of them have that stereotypically macho mindset, where the woman should be seen and not heard and should "look like" a "lady" whatever that means. They want the women to sit there and smile shyly by their side while all the focus is on them, but I think for a Pisces Moon man that's like anti-Viagra. Now, they may say otherwise, but pay attention to who they fixate on most - it's usually not the wallflower lmao. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2445 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 09, 2013 10:38 AM
I would think men with northnode in aries, a mutable moon sign and DC in aries would be attracted to bossy domineering women as they need to learn to be more assertive and to stop avoiding conflict all the time so until they learn those lessons is likely they will marry a partner who will act these repressed or unbalanced qualities out for them, not to mention that the mutable moon combined with the Aries DC will make this person be more likely to go along with domineering person in order to keep the peace specially if you add a mars in Libra to all above mentioned aspects. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 5378 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 09, 2013 11:02 AM
I married one. You know that I respect powerful women. Not really to be bossed around, because I'm the hyper dominant Type A personality, but I desire someone who can stomach being around me. And I dislike making all the decisions unilaterally, not because I'm any less masculine, but because a partnership wouldn't make sense if it is run by a dictator.IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 2734 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 09, 2013 11:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I married one. You know that I respect powerful women. Not really to be bossed around, because I'm the hyper dominant Type A personality, but I desire someone who can stomach being around me. And I dislike making all the decisions unilaterally, not because I'm any less masculine, but because a partnership wouldn't make sense if it is run by a dictator.
May be she is the true dominant one by letting you think that you are dominant IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2445 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 09, 2013 11:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: Leo/Aries DSC, Juno in Leo/Aries, maybe Mars in 7th as well.
Mars in the 7th could either attract someone domineering or the person themselves is very domineering and likes to be in control specially if mars is in scorpio. It depends if person owns up to their mars or not. If person has mars conjunct uranus conjuncting the DC and the mars squares the venus it can definitely translate to an abusive relationship and the mars in the 7th can definitely be the abuser. I know this is off topic but if I would have known this I would have avoided getting involved with someone. This person has sun in libra and taurus rising and moon in cancer so they look very soft and harmless so you would never imagine they have a darker untamed easily irritable side. IP: Logged |