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Topic: If you could remove ONE aspect from your chart...
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 02:09 AM
  
Oh wow thanks, Nahyt! I see what you are talking about, she's your astro twin hehe.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 4106
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 03, 2014 03:01 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have seen women say this one worries them when they see it in a man's chart. I wonder what it is like to have this?
It seems like right now you are not experiencing this in a negative way.
Correct. I'm not really experiencing it right now. It took a LOT of focus and awareness to realize exactly how and when it was impacting me. Even then, it can be difficult. Basically, it's like this search for love, for "the one" and with this constant feeling that compromise is going to have to be made. Or that there is potential in someone, like things can change. Faults that are seen become as something that "love can overcome".
Like "Shallow Hal" in a weird way. Or with personality, not just looks. Later, it's like reality hits and those faults that you thought could be overcome, hit home, which ends in irritation, disappointment, etc. Then it ends in heartbreak for the person who doesn't have Venus square Neptune. I really had to focus on it. I stayed single for about 2 years and kept an eye for the signs of that aspect. It was kind of tough. The wonderful thing about Barbiegirl19 is... even having lived with her for a couple of months now, there simply isn't anything that I would change. I love her just as she is. So Venus/Neptune really isn't playing a role so much as simply the synastry. 
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anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 5445
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 04:37 AM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Anonymi, see this reaction to that chart? Hahah now go ahead an tell me I have a nice chart. And try saying it with a straight face.
Too late  . I’d love to borrow few aspects from your chart, gimme Venus/Pluto, Sun/Mars and Mercury/Uranus. I wouldn’t mind Leo Moon either TBH, you can keep the rest. IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
Knowflake Posts: 406
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Registered: Oct 2009
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posted March 03, 2014 04:54 AM
I'd like to move my moon from pisces to aqua, so that my moon wouldn't be squared by my sun-uranus conj.
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Selene
Knowflake Posts: 1142
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Registered: Apr 2013
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posted March 03, 2014 06:15 AM
I can handle pretty much anything, but Moon square Pluto sometimes is too tough for me. So i would remove this aspect... IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2431
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 03, 2014 03:42 PM
I would love to remove my Moon square Uranus by only 2 degrees… this aspect is so annoying I just found out.
Emotional roller coaster anyone? Bored with routine and cannot handle too intense feelings? Hates family and a peaceful life?? It just really contradicts the rest of my chart… if I could remove this aspect, it would be easier for me to settle down and enjoy life. IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4830
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 03, 2014 04:44 PM
Moon opposition jupiter
I'm already sympathetic enough having Moon Pisces and Asc, but this just makes me a push over -.- IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9064
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 05:13 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Correct. I'm not really experiencing it right now. It took a LOT of focus and awareness to realize exactly how and when it was impacting me. Even then, it can be difficult. Basically, it's like this search for love, for "the one" and with this constant feeling that compromise is going to have to be made. Or that there is potential in someone, like things can change. Faults that are seen become as something that "love can overcome".
Like "Shallow Hal" in a weird way. Or with personality, not just looks. Later, it's like reality hits and those faults that you thought could be overcome, hit home, which ends in irritation, disappointment, etc. Then it ends in heartbreak for the person who doesn't have Venus square Neptune. I really had to focus on it. I stayed single for about 2 years and kept an eye for the signs of that aspect. It was kind of tough. The wonderful thing about Barbiegirl19 is... even having lived with her for a couple of months now, there simply isn't anything that I would change. I love her just as she is. So Venus/Neptune really isn't playing a role so much as simply the synastry.
Thanks, DeepFreeze. This aspect seems to like a lot of compatibility in love and might be easily discouraged if the feeling isn't right for some reason. When you are not in a relationship with someone does this aspect cause you to be somewhat of a hermit? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 4106
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 03, 2014 05:17 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Thanks, DeepFreeze. This aspect seems to like a lot of compatibility in love and might be easily discouraged if the feeling isn't right for some reason. When you are not in a relationship with someone does this aspect cause you to be somewhat of a hermit?
You know I'm not really sure because I think I have other things that would also make me a bit of a hermit. Yes, also it causes one to look for that perfect connection/compatibility.
I do really enjoy my own private space/life. With Barbie it works out well because we very much enjoy time with each other while both enjoying our joint life alone. It's normally a very tough aspect though. Very delusional. Also being a different person in the beginning than later. All with good intention so that even the native doesn't fully know. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
Moderator Posts: 3020
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 03, 2014 05:57 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Anonymi, see this reaction to that chart? Hahah now go ahead an tell me I have a nice chart. And try saying it with a straight face.
I desperately tried not to laugh. FAIL! LOL
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Chaos
Knowflake Posts: 401
From: Serbia
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 03, 2014 06:04 PM
I'd just relocate my chart ruler, cause 12th house 29 degree Mars in Pisces f*ckin' sucks!  Also that Moon-Pluto opposition, I'm kinda ambivalent when it comes to that one, it kinda sucks, but it doesn't really...it's not the opp itself, it's the 1st-7th house placement that sucks more... IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 5445
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 06:31 PM
I’d relocate my Chiron, it is in 10th but conjuncts 11th house cusp(dreams, hopes and wishes) . There is not much fun in being a Pisces whose dreams can’t be fulfilled  .IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 3431
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I’d love to borrow few aspects from your chart, gimme Venus/Pluto, Sun/Mars and Mercury/Uranus. I wouldn’t mind Leo Moon either TBH, you can keep the rest.
Venus/Pluto isn't fun tho. But you Pisces folks are masochists anyway, so I see why this aspect appeals to you IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 3431
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 07:41 PM
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
I desperately tried not to laugh. FAIL! LOL
I remember the first time I got my chart done a few years ago on astro.com. And seeing all those red lines, smh. I knew that wasn't a good sign LOL. I keep thinking "all the red looks bad =\ " IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20
Knowflake Posts: 290
From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 03, 2014 08:17 PM
Saturn square venus, mars and Jupiter
I hate Saturn as you can tell ------------------
sun in scorpio
moon in scorpio
mercury in scorpio
venus in sagittarius mars in sagittarius
gemini asc IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 5445
From:
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 08:29 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Venus/Pluto isn't fun tho. But you Pisces folks are masochists anyway, so I see why this aspect appeals to you
My Mars/Nessus & Mars/Pluto will balance it out, don’t cha worry  . IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
Knowflake Posts: 789
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 03, 2014 08:42 PM
Moon square Uranus. I hate that it's so hard for me to stay in a long-term relationship.IP: Logged |
StrandedSaturn
Knowflake Posts: 92
From: Death Valley, CA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted March 03, 2014 11:10 PM
We all want what we can't have.IP: Logged |
mcmlxix
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Vega
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 04, 2014 07:16 PM
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Originally posted by afarin:
Mars square pluto. I end up stopping myself/resisting change out of wanting control. It can be aggravating. It does give me a lot of willpower and motivation to keep trying though!
I don't think mine gives me willpower. I wish it did. It just makes me explosive (which I've gotten a handle on) and darkly obsessive. A good friend of mine (2 days younger) I've observed that it makes him very manipulative. IP: Logged |
mcmlxix
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Vega
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 04, 2014 07:22 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Basically, it's like this search for love, for "the one" and with this constant feeling that compromise is going to have to be made.
I find "the one" everyday, until I find the new "the one" the next day. I chalk it up to Leo Venus combined with Sag Mars. Neptune just entered my 7th, so I expect this to have a greater impact on illusive & elusive love interests.
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11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 3431
From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 04, 2014 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by mcmlxix:
I find "the one" everyday, until I find the new "the one" the next day. I chalk it up to Leo Venus combined with Sag Mars.Neptune just entered my 7th, so I expect this to have a greater impact on illusive & elusive love interests.
Wow, I recently cut ties with a guy who has venus in cancer opposite Neptune in cap. And on the SECOND goddam day, he was already talking about me being "the one". Everyday day after that he kept telling me how much he was falling in love with me. And how he'd been heartbroken and used soo many times before, but that he could tell I was 'the one' lol. he was ALWAYS talking about his 'feelings' for me. And I kept getting angry at him and bursting his pink idealistic bubble, because to me that's IMPOSSIBLE ..and I also thought that he was just saying that to try and woo me  I'm starting to wonder if he really wasn't joking =\. Like maybe he really did 'believe' I was 'the one' . Awe I'm starting to feel horrible now. He really seemed sincere when he said the things he said, even about the way he approached me for the first time. They way he looked at me. but I refused to believe anything. Ahhhh.
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