posted July 05, 2013 07:22 AM            

Literally everything. Sun, Moon, Venus, Merc, Mars, Jupiter and Saturn.

I'm the Sun person in this instance so I'd really like some insight on the other side's (person who's planets are being aspected) point of view if anyone else has ever experienced synastry like this before..

Would it be more keenly felt by the Sun person or the multi-planet person?

posted July 05, 2013 07:42 AM            

I've never had such a scenario, but I think Sun connections are always good in synastry (at least the harmonious ones) because it creates a "solid" foundation between people.

posted July 05, 2013 07:51 AM            

On your side of the equation, you are being pushed into the centre, you can`t hide. The other person sees you, like you are carrying a spotlight around with you.
If you like it depends a little how you like being seen for your Sun.

My own Sun is conjunct a guy`s Sun, Moon and MC. It has always puzzled me how he seemed to "see" me, no matter how much I tried to literally hide in the dark.
For some reason I seem to - even physicall- literally stumble into his path, it is odd. And for me it has not been easy, having my Sun reflected back at me. I tend to stay in the background, despite a Sun in 1st house. But it is literally unaspected except for a conjunction to Mercury.

Usualy it is not even that strongly aspected in friendships. However the friend that I feel "sees" me very strongly has her Venus conjunct my Sun. It felt awkward to me at first (her Sun also conjuncts my unaspected Moon), but by now I feel very comfortable and feels pretty good to just be myself.

posted July 05, 2013 08:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
It's pretty rare cause it means that all your inner planets are somehow connected, and someone's Sun comes in and aspects all of them..

I've never had such a scenario, but I think Sun connections are always good in synastry (at least the harmonious ones) because it creates a "solid" foundation between people.

I think the Sun person would feel touched at their core while the other person's planet would be "illuminated" by the Sun's light, and may be more expressive, "alive".

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Thanks for responding Doux!!

I always appreciate your input

We don't have all harmonious aspects, but my Sun is:
Trine his Sun
Sextile his Moon
Trine his Merc
Square his Venus
Quincunx his Mars
Trine his Jupiter
Sextile his Saturn

You are definitely right about the Sun person's (my own) feelings. Everything about this person from the way he speaks and moves to the way he treats his family and friends, all of it has a major effect on me.

posted July 05, 2013 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I agree with that. You as a person would illuminate, or trigger all these planets in them, and they would react strongly. Or at least you easily get their attention, some sort of focus on you. If it is Venus, and it is untarnished and in strong aspect to your Sun, it might indicate a romantic attraction (also if one of these planets rule 5th, 7th or even 8th house in their chart).

On your side of the equation, you are being pushed into the centre, you can`t hide. The other person sees you, like you are carrying a spotlight around with you.
If you like it depends a little how you like being seen for your Sun.

My own Sun is conjunct a guy`s Sun, Moon and MC. It has always puzzled me how he seemed to "see" me, no matter how much I tried to literally hide in the dark.
For some reason I seem to - even physicall- literally stumble into his path, it is odd. And for me it has not been easy, having my Sun reflected back at me. I tend to stay in the background, despite a Sun in 1st house. But it is literally unaspected except for a conjunction to Mercury.

Usualy it is not even that strongly aspected in friendships. However the friend that I feel "sees" me very strongly has her Venus conjunct my Sun. It felt awkward to me at first (her Sun also conjuncts my unaspected Moon), but by now I feel very comfortable and feels pretty good to just be myself.

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This makes me want to spend more time with this person...as if I didn't already want to lol...

I guess I spoke too quickly in my response to Doux because I do know at least a little bit of an effect I have on him. The night we met he ditched out on a "sure thing" from another woman, just to be around me. Yay for my ego lol

Although, I do have to admit that the way I feel around him is rather...exposed. I normally know exactly what to say/think/feel around anyone. But he makes me feel like a blubbering idiot in my own head because it's like I just know I can't bs him.

I'm not used to people seeing me and knowing me for who I am at my core. It's something I keep fairly hidden because of my sensitivity, but he seems to enjoy it. When I say something sappy or "cutesie" he just goes with the flow.

posted July 05, 2013 08:19 AM            

You're welcome, LionFish.

The aspects your Sun makes are definitely "strong" - I bet you guys notice each other for sure.

posted July 05, 2013 08:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ceridwen

You're welcome, LionFish.

The aspects your Sun makes are definitely "strong" - I bet you guys notice each other for sure.

Have you checked *his* Sun and inner planets?
Do you know his ASC?

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I actually asked him about his birth time the night we met (Yeah I'm a little weird and forward lol). He said "9:21 A.M. I'm not positive, but it sure sounds right"

It gives him a 3rd decan Leo ASC. I just sent him a message a little while ago, asking him to check to be sure.

His Sun aspects all of his own inner planets except for Mars. In our synastry, his Sun is only aspected by my Sun, Venus, and Saturn.

His Moon however aspects all of my personal planets except for my Aries Venus, which is square his Sun.

posted July 05, 2013 08:38 AM            

Go.for.it!

His Moon's aspected, that's pretty good!

And while the Sun/Venus squares can be a bit problematic, they do create attraction and are manageable.

Try to get closer to him.

posted July 05, 2013 08:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Okay I only have one thing to say..

Go.for.it!

His Moon's aspected, that's pretty good!

And while the Sun/Venus squares can be a bit problematic, they do create attraction and are manageable.

Try to get closer to him.

Good luck!

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And..we have Moon trine Moon along with our Sun trine Sun as long as his birth time is even fairly accurate, anyway.

I know I definitely want to spend more time around him...eek..

Thank you again!!

posted July 05, 2013 09:58 AM            

<and square ascendant, Uranus, Neptune, Chiron>

I don’t know how to explain it really. I think the overall effect is that we’re very “aware” of each other’s thoughts and actions. Some people have commented that we “orbit” each other. Like, when one of us moves the other will subconsciously move to maintain the closeness.

He sees through my layers. I can’t lie to him, even small things like when he calls to ask if I’ve eaten (I skipped meals sometimes), he’d know if I lied.

I'm not sure if one of us "feel" those effects more than the other.

The squares bring a bit of tension. Occasionally there are little things he does that make me feel “hurt” for no apparent reason.

Edit to add:

I've just looked at our synastry again. And I find it interesting that his Moon aspects most of my planets. Those helps to ease the tension from the sun squares.

posted July 05, 2013 10:08 AM            

Oppositions can be harder - as it shows the traits which oppose your inner-nature - while squares can be overcomed, but till you manage that - there can be a lot of friction in that area.

posted July 05, 2013 12:19 PM            

I find your post very intriguing, as in your description there is so much that mirrors my experience with the guy, whose Sun, Moon and MC are conjunct my Sun (and Mercury).

"Although, I do have to admit that the way I feel around him is rather...exposed."
Like a spotlight is on me.

Actually in some instances there was literally a spotlight on me.

"I normally know exactly what to say/think/feel around anyone. But he makes me feel like a blubbering idiot in my own head "
Yes.
It`s usually very easy for me to communicate, even on a more playful or superifical socially acceptable level.
However, if he is around, I can never be sure what is going to come out of my mouth. If speech totally leaves me or I am blurting out something without thinking.

posted July 05, 2013 12:25 PM            

"I actually asked him about his birth time the night we met"
Haha, I actually did the same thing!
I had just met him and asked him for his birthtime (after flat out telling him that I was interested in astrology - something I usually don`t tell anyone that quickly; I am not hiding it, just learned that it is not the best way to begin a talk. lol).
He actually called his parents to ask for his birthtime.

Later, when I was on my own again realiziung what I had done or said, I just wished the ground would open up and swallow me whole.

"So Sun square Venus DW.. hmm"
Yes, can be tricky sometimes, but the good thing is that you do HAVE an effect on each other, and actually there can be quite a bit of magnetism coming with Sun and Venus, even though some minor disagreements might be present.
However, I would also check the dispositors, it is sometimes quite interesting.

Actually in my case I found it very enlightening when I saw that in terms of our Sun/Moon/MC-Sun-Mercury conjunction in Sagittarius, the dispositor Jupiters are actually in Virgo (his) and Pisces (mine) and opposing each other exactly, adding to the fact that his MErcury is exactly conjunct my Neptune.
(oh yes it is confusing at best. lol)

posted July 05, 2013 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
"So Sun square Venus DW.. hmm"
Yes, can be tricky sometimes, but the good thing is that you do HAVE an effect on each other, and actually there can be quite a bit of magnetism coming with Sun and Venus, even though some minor disagreements might be present.
However, I would also check the dispositors, it is sometimes quite interesting.
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posted July 05, 2013 01:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Leocassandra:
Should we check old or new dispositors Scorpio- Pluto or Mars? Aquarius- Saturn or Uranus?

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posted July 06, 2013 08:38 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
My husband’s sun oppose my moon, quincunx mercury, square venus, sextile Jupiter, square Saturn

<and square ascendant, Uranus, Neptune, Chiron>

I don’t know how to explain it really. I think the overall effect is that we’re very “aware” of each other’s thoughts and actions. Some people have commented that we “orbit” each other. Like, when one of us moves the other will subconsciously move to maintain the closeness.

He sees through my layers. I can’t lie to him, even small things like when he calls to ask if I’ve eaten (I skipped meals sometimes), he’d know if I lied.

I'm not sure if one of us "feel" those effects more than the other.

The squares bring a bit of tension. Occasionally there are little things he does that make me feel “hurt” for no apparent reason.

Edit to add:

I've just looked at our synastry again. And I find it interesting that his Moon aspects most of my planets. Those helps to ease the tension from the sun squares.

His moon trine my sun, biquintile moon, trine mercury, venus, uranus, neptune, square mars, quincunx pluto

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Our synastry is fairly similar.

His moon is sextile my sun/merc, trine my moon, semi-sextile mars/uranus, and semi-square my saturn and jupiter.

I might worry a bit about the semi-sextile to my mars/uranus conjunction, but I have the quincunx to these planets from my moon and his own moon is square his mars so harsh aspects are nothing new to either of us.

@Ceri

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Haha, I actually did the same thing!
I had just met him and asked him for his birthtime (after flat out telling him that I was interested in astrology - something I usually don`t tell anyone that quickly; I am not hiding it, just learned that it is not the best way to begin a talk. lol).
He actually called his parents to ask for his birthtime.

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I try not to talk about it, but I can't help myself. I'm still learning I suppose lol Part of it's because astrology is something I really love and if I have to hide it from somebody for them to give me the time of day they aren't worth my time
I've had a couple people call parents, too.. I'm always like "YES! A willing guinea pig" haha

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Later, when I was on my own again realiziung what I had done or said, I just wished the ground would open up and swallow me whole.

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His Sun's ruler is Moon in Capricorn conjunct Saturn, it doesn't make any aspects to my Neptune, which rules my Sun. But, my Neptune is in Capricorn, so there's at least the same sign understanding, I suppose. His Moon is also semi-sextile my Jupiter by less than 2 degrees.

His Venus in Gemini is ruled by Mercury in Cancer..It's almost exactly quincunx my Sag Mars, my Aries Venus' ruler.

But, like I said before.. My Sun is trine his Mercury. So it aspects both his Venus and it's ruler.

posted July 08, 2013 02:54 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The sun person could touch many parts of the person with the planet's life? Sounds like you would be keenly involved with this individual, maybe? Could be a situation where you work and socialize with such a person? Maybe even, work, socialize and share a living space so that you see them all the time. Burn out could be a problem, though. Too much time together could mean getting on each other's nerves.

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Right now the only thing we share is a strong like for each other, a couple mutual friends and some shared interests that circle around his line of work.

I haven't known him very long, or got to hang out with him much in the time I've known him. That's part of the reason I'm so curious about this particular part of our synastry. The night we met it was like he couldn't have ignored me if he'd wanted to and I wanted to know everything about him the moment he walked in the front door.

The "orbit" that 12muddy mentioned seems to ring most true, even in just a friendship relationship. Like being near the other soothes both of us.. Or me at least. Like he grounds me. Maybe it's the exact opposite for him and I electrify/illuminate him. He's a rather calm and collected individual (according to our mutual friend), but every time he's been around me he's very lively and bright. I don't know if that's my effect on him or what.. It'd be nice to think so