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Topic: Composite 8th house Stellium in Platonic relationship?
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sillyme Knowflake Posts: 225 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 09, 2013 10:26 AM
In the Composite chart with my niece,we have Sun,venus,mercury,moon,chiron,South node,ALL in the 8th house? Sun-Venus conjunction is 7-8 degrees away from conjunction of (moon,mercury,chiron,SN) .... So you can say everything is conjunct. What does this mean? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4456 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 09, 2013 10:34 AM
You may have a deep effect on each other on a psychological level, and can help each other uncover some unconscious mechanisms, as well as heal them.It may feel a bit "heavy" from time to time. IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 225 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 09, 2013 11:49 AM
Thanks Doux!What if I add that Uranus from the 5th is squaring this entire stellium? What does this do? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4456 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 09, 2013 02:07 PM
Could mean that 5th house stuff (fun, pleasure) "distracts" you from focusing on deeper, 8th house stuff.Doesn't have to be bad though, heavy gets old sometimes! IP: Logged |
Textbook Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Scotland Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 09, 2013 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Could mean that 5th house stuff (fun, pleasure) "distracts" you from focusing on deeper, 8th house stuff.Doesn't have to be bad though, heavy gets old sometimes!
Depends on the natal charts of the two people involved; people who are more Scorpionic/Plutonian will enjoy a heavy 8th house stellium in a composite more than those who don't, and won't really be able to handle the level of intensity, either because they lack that amount of depth and can't handle much more than fun and games, or for some other reason. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4456 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 09, 2013 03:59 PM
Sure ^.But still, you can't live in heavy-land 24/7. Even I get tired of it, and I'm made of Saturn and Pluto. IP: Logged |
Textbook Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Scotland Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 09, 2013 04:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Sure ^.But still, you can't live in heavy-land 24/7. Even I get tired of it, and I'm made of Saturn and Pluto.
Can't agree with that either lol. Simply because, not everybody's idea of what "fun" is, is the same, and some people are more intense by nature and so their idea of fun is, is going to be more heavy and intense than the next person's. I wonder if it's the fact that you have Saturn and Pluto so active in your chart that does it. Saturn energy is more heavy and depressing so it probably does get harder to wag around that and Pluto for any real length of time. Saturn isn't all that active in my chart at all, but my chart is heavily Plutonian - eighth house stellium, a somewhat heavily aspected Pluto that aspects one of my luminaries; even the ruler of my fifth house, is in aspect to Pluto. My idea of "fun" is not the average idea of fun, which usually just seems silly to me. My ex had a stellium in his fifth house, including Venus and Jupiter. In our composite we had both luminaries in water signs (including one in Scorpio) and, I'm sure, some eighth house activity. He couldn't handle it and his primary complaint was exactly that - "With this other person, it's more FUN". I think it was more of a fundamental incompatibility; as long as you never display any negative emotions around him and never ever want to discuss or do anything serious or particularly meaningful, he's fine. He's happily married now to a woman whose idea of a good Tweet is uploading pictures of her new manicure or pedicure, so all's well that ends well lmao. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4456 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 09, 2013 04:30 PM
Lol, Textbook!I see what you mean. Can I ask you a question? Have you ever met a man who enjoys intensity to the same extent as you do? Just curious.
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sillyme Knowflake Posts: 225 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 10, 2013 10:36 AM
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4456 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 10, 2013 11:12 AM
I think so!Should go well. IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 225 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 10, 2013 11:58 AM
But what does South node being involved here do?Its exactly conjunct moon-mercury-chiron. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4456 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 10, 2013 12:31 PM
Feeling comfortable.IP: Logged |
Textbook Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Scotland Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 10, 2013 12:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Lol, Textbook!I see what you mean. Can I ask you a question? Have you ever met a man who enjoys intensity to the same extent as you do? Just curious.
I think my first love is pretty Plutonian (his Pluto aspects one of his luminaries also) and he probably wouldn't admit it, but I've seen him associate with **** -starters enough to have noticed that he does like a certain amount of drama and intensity around him. He probably wouldn't cop to it if asked, though. Plus...nothing really seems to freak him out or horrify him except me - and I think that's less because of my "intensity" or "heaviness" and more because one of my luminaries lands right on his North Node. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4456 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 10, 2013 01:01 PM
I see.Thanks for sharing. I've noticed most men aren't too fond of intensity, heaviness or drama. IP: Logged |