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Topic: FOR FUN: Describe This Relationship
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 10, 2013 12:43 PM
  
All right, here goes.This is the composite of me and my best friend. Our relationship is the most loving, caring, and full of trust I've ever had. We can tell each other anything, are always there for each other, and we get along wonderfully. We're not afraid of expressing affection to each other, actually we always praise each other and express our love to one another easily. We are each other's rock. Surprised? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2013 12:46 PM
Why don't you put up the synastry as the Comp comes into play in a living together situation.------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 10, 2013 12:51 PM
The synastry is definitely more revealing!But see, I wanted to use that as an example. Just because a composite is full of hard aspects, doesn't mean the two people don't get along or that their relationship is doomed. Clearly, energies can be manifested positively or negatively. Hope it brings some hope to people who get terrified when they see red lines in charts.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2013 01:01 PM
Well, Doux
It is interesting. Usually one is good and one is not. I mean in terms of synastry and comp. Ian has a true soul mate chart where both were good but I see it this way all the time. If the synastry is good, the Comp is not. What do you all think? ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2013 01:03 PM
Just to add, from my own reality. You can be wonderful friends and then live together and it can go down fast. I am NOT saying this would happen to you, Doux. This is not personal to you and your friend.My experience when I was in college was that I could be great friends with someone and then live together and it blew up. The Comp is really a living together situation. That is one person's 2 cents, only. ------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 10, 2013 01:06 PM
Yes, I see what you mean!I agree. We don't live together, obviously.
Actually we're not in the same country. And our relationship is not romantic, so that changes things quite a bit. But the composite Moon is afflicted, and yet we feel a strong emotional bond. I guess the synastry can shed some light on this - both our Moons are well-aspected.
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Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2013 01:33 PM
I will look later but it is important to recognize that the Composite comes into play when people live together.------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2013 01:34 PM
Who is on the outside, Doux?------------------
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Ceridwen
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posted July 10, 2013 01:35 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Why don't you put up the synastry as the Comp comes into play in a living together situation.
Nope. Not so. Though it`s a common misconception. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 10, 2013 01:35 PM
Well, I'm the Scorpio, so I'm on the outside.I don't think composites are only valid when people live together, though. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 10, 2013 01:36 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
The synastry is definitely more revealing!But see, I wanted to use that as an example. Just because a composite is full of hard aspects, doesn't mean the two people don't get along or that their relationship is doomed. Clearly, energies can be manifested positively or negatively. Hope it brings some hope to people who get terrified when they see red lines in charts.
I agree.
Also a composite doesn`t mean much, without seeing the natals.
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Ceridwen
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posted July 10, 2013 01:40 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I don't think composites are only valid when people live together, though.
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 10, 2013 01:47 PM
I know!! Well, remember our composite, Ceri?
It's crazy.
Plus all the Sag / angle energy. If you were a guy I'd probably be quite into you! hahaha.
With my best friend, we're quite co-dependent.
I think it's the Libra - her Moon / Pluto / Saturn conjunction on my Venus / Jupiter. I go crazy if I don't talk to her on a regular basis, lol. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2013 02:26 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Nope. Not so. Though it`s a common misconception.
Please explain, Ceri. Thanks. ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2013 02:30 PM
Ceri
Could you break down how you see the synastry and how you see the Comp when you do both?If people came to you and asked if they were compatible, how would you look at both and find conclusions? Thank you! ------------------
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Ceridwen
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posted July 10, 2013 03:35 PM
I have not much time right now, but just quickly, the composite is composed of the midpoints between the same two planets of two people, signifying their combined energy.
Since you can`t switch off personal energy, it will always be in play. And so is the composite, as the melded personal energy of two people.Obviously, the closer two people are to each other (physical proximity), the less they can`t avoid or evade their personal energies, and get triggered on a continual basis. But that is true for synastry or even natal comparision as well. Also since the composite is made up of midpoints, and only hard aspects are used with midpoints, they are more like a triggering device in a composite. Actually if we have something like Venus opposite Mars in a composite, it actually means: the mixed midpoint of Venus (person A)/ Venus (person B) is opposite the midpoint of Mars/Mars.
It also means that there is a tight parallel natally or synastrically between Venus and Mars in both respective charts.
(David Cochrane had a good article and book on these symmetries). It`s not the square or opposition aspect that is challenging in a composite, but much more important is WHAT planets are interconnected. I take a Sun-Mars-Venus-MErcury T-square in a composite anyday. A Mars-Saturn aspect might be more difficult to deal with. Aspects are the connecting lines and the kind of aspect sais something about the intensity or how rough or loud or soft or smooth the connection is being made. But the really important thing is what is connected to what (planets)? Obviously if two basically very different and harsh energies like Mars and Saturn are connected, it might be nicer to have a more softer connection, as they are harsh on their own as it is.
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Ami Anne
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posted July 10, 2013 03:39 PM
Thanks for your input, Ceri. We can talk about it another time because I have a few questions for you, if I can! ------------------
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peachbeigeblue
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posted July 10, 2013 08:11 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Surprised?
No! Can we give a Leo some credit. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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posted July 10, 2013 09:05 PM
Yay I was right! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 11, 2013 04:03 AM
@ Peach & SE,:applauds:
You guys are the best.
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peachbeigeblue
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posted July 11, 2013 11:28 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
@ Peach & SE,:applauds:
You guys are the best.
All I ever wanted
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enchantress299
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posted July 12, 2013 12:44 AM
If I had seen this thread earlier, I probably would have said that it was actually a pretty stable relationship, mostly because T-Squares usually cause a surprisingly stable interaction, IF the pair of people know how to access the 'leg' of the t-squares. It may not be an 'immediate' ease of interaction, but if there is a mutual respect between the pair of people, they can often learn A LOT from each other. I've had this aspect with some of my closest friends (in synastry, not composite). It's an interesting feeling. Because I have so many t-squares in my own chart, I often feel more challenged with them (in a positive way) than I do with 'easy' aspected people. Of course, because this is a composite chart, that means that you may not have t-squares in your own charts, so obviously it will be a different feeling for you. I just don't tend to see t-squares as always negative. I do think it is better to have them in conjunction with some sextiles or trines to help balance them. Though, I think it really depends on what aspects you have in your own chart, as that shows what aspects you will be comfortable with. Because the 'legs' of your t-squares are a Jupiter/Pluto conjunction, my guess is that you have a powerful, deep, positive relationship. Though you may have a difference of opinion, if you come back to those feelings of a deep positive connection, you will be able to mend your differences easily. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 12, 2013 11:45 AM
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Originally posted by enchantress299:
Because the 'legs' of your t-squares are a Jupiter/Pluto conjunction, my guess is that you have a powerful, deep, positive relationship. Though you may have a difference of opinion, if you come back to those feelings of a deep positive connection, you will be able to mend your differences easily.
Oh yes! Thanks a lot for your input. 
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Kerosene
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posted July 12, 2013 12:14 PM
Curious..
What do you guys think about this relationship?
Describe it!  IP: Logged |
Lunae
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posted July 12, 2013 12:48 PM
This may be way off, but I'll give it a shot hahaFirst impression that comes to mind is that there's a lot of intensity here. These two have good communication, and that's probably the first thing that people notice-- their witty banters, the 'always on the go' kind of people. In romantic terms, they would have great physical chemistry. Otherwise, they are just very physically-driven people with lots of dynamic. However, I think that on an emotional level, there is a certain sense of security, with Saturn aspecting most of the personal planets. However, there seems to be a bit of conflict regarding feelings. Though there is great rapport, there's a tendency to repress emotions, only to spew out like lava on a long-dormant volcano. There is also a bit of overanalyzing emotions on one or both parties. IP: Logged |
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