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Topic: Water vs Air
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 856 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 10, 2013 11:20 PM
I am exactly 50% water (fixed) and 50 % Air (cardinal). I am attracted to men that are capable of turning my Air side on through conversation. However, 1 year into relationship my water side starts feeling neglected and that's when I usually eject myself, sadly. Whenever I have dated water influenced men I ejected myself because they were too emotional. What am I missing here?? I cannot seem to find a stable middle ground Maybe a Leo with a Virgo Moon or something... All my midpoints are pretty much Libra/Aries with 8H Aries one of few empty houses and signs. IP: Logged |
LiesLilithsaidtouranus Knowflake Posts: 347 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 10, 2013 11:34 PM
I should say go for a earth/fire, earth/water or air and/ or fire/ water or air guy.IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1580 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 10, 2013 11:41 PM
quote: charlie: I am exactly 50% water (fixed) and 50 % Air (cardinal).
Whoa really? Everything's in either Libra or Scorpio? Gee oh gee! IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 450 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 10, 2013 11:49 PM
Sounds a bit like my cousin. She's has a little scorp stellium and a little libra stellium. Earth void. She's in a happy relationship with a taurus sun, aqua moon, leo ascendant. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 673 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 02:44 AM
I came to a conclusion that water and air don't mix. Air signs are too flaky no matter how compatible they are. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3074 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 02:58 AM
why not wait for someone who is just as watery and airy where's the DC, moon, and venus?
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 856 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 11:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: why not wait for someone who is just as watery and airy where's the DC, moon, and venus?
Pisces dsc and I'm done with those guys... Moon is in Cap 5H sq Pluto. Venus is in a Cancer stellium in 11H. All those cancer placements are in the Pluto decan. By delineation I am a Cancer and Aquarius with Mercury as chart ruler and most afflicted planet by almost 20%. Moon comes in 2nd with 9%. My pChart is moving rapidly towards 4 Cardinal angles and I'll have a Leo sun in 11H for another 3 years. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3044 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 11:45 AM
what about earth guys? Earth is a good mediator between air and water.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4523 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 11, 2013 11:52 AM
Earth guys with some Water, Air and Fire!Find someone balanced! IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 673 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 12:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: what about earth guys? Earth is a good mediator between air and water.
I love earth signs but they have a bad temper. :\ IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 856 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 01:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: what about earth guys? Earth is a good mediator between air and water.
My gut tells me that a Virgo guy is right but then I need to overcome by dislike of Virgos in general..and I should probably start by embracing all the Virgo in myself.
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 1661 From: Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 01:25 PM
Whut? I'm very earthy and I never had anger issues.Charlie, I also think you should go for someone earthy. At least one of you should be stable ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 856 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 02:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Whut? I'm very earthy and I never had anger issues.Charlie, I also think you should go for someone earthy. At least one of you should be stable
As much as I dislike mutable guys in a relationship, love them as friends, I am almost ashamed saying that like attracts like...I am so mutable it's ridiculous. I can be super flakey as well. *cries* I need to work on myself. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4523 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 11, 2013 02:13 PM
Virgo.. mmm.IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 147 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 11, 2013 05:24 PM
I've only dated air and water myself. Though I'm mostly earth and water. My 8 H is ruled by gemini (ruler in my 3rd H) but mostly falls in cancer, which is the only thing I think can explain the attraction I have. I'm seeing a libra/scorp cusp and I get that perfect balance! But since you're mostly libra/scorp or air/water...maybe someone born on a cusp (any cusp), or someone with extreme(square and opposition) asc/sun/moon combo's? All my bf's close relationships are with other cusp people, it's also what's recommended for people that are kind of fifty-fifty. However, he is seeing me and my sun is right in the middle of pisces. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 2374 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 07:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: My gut tells me that a Virgo guy is right but then I need to overcome by dislike of Virgos in general..and I should probably start by embracing all the Virgo in myself.
Virgo suns are often savants.
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