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Topic: What Does Mars & Mercury in 12th House Synastry Indicate?
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ash20 Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted July 11, 2013 07:25 PM
I already know it means some trust issues and it's true bc he doesnt trust me at all! But would this also make him more prone to talking about me behind my back? Ive experienced sun and venus in my 12th and that guy truly hurt me and he didnt trust me either. So would it be kind of the same with mars and mercury?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 11, 2013 07:26 PM
More communication and action are needed in your relationship?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4563 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 12, 2013 12:06 PM
Trust issues, for sure.Possible scenarios: - hidden sexual attraction or secret sexual relationship - hidden actions that somehow undermine the other or "betray" them - a difficulty being open in your communication with the other person - lies or secrets in general Positives: - psychic link - deep influence on each other - mutual trust and compassionate feelings - telling each other secrets, opening up - feeling more attuned to the non verbal communication when around each other
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ash20 Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted July 13, 2013 10:16 AM
The guy with his mars/mercury in my 12th is very secretive but at the same time expects me to tell him everything. And i used to think he was a really sweet guy and that he would be different from others but after getting to know him he's one of the meanest & emotionally manipulative person ive ever met. Could this be because of our 12th house synastry? We also have venus sq pluto in tight orb (he has it natally) im pluto. And i can definetly feel the power struggles and games. He'll ignore me from time to time and i have to keep trying to get him to talk to me. He makes me feel like i have to jump through hoops to prove something to him. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4563 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 13, 2013 10:37 AM
Well, that's totally Pluto.I don't think it's worth it, girl. Unless he's willing to be more straight-forward (and you too). IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 13, 2013 10:58 AM
The manipulations/jealousy is Pluto. If you feel isolated, abandoned, out of touch with him, like he's avoiding you, or if you feel like what he is doing is restricting you, it's more about 12th house. They could be connected in the synastry. 12th house is the most difficult house because it takes nothing for granted. It makes you work for everything that's inside. A lot of people just give up. Some wait it out. So, if you want something the 12th house promises, yes, it's possible, you will just have to work super hard to get it. It will take a lot of time, attention, extra effort, but it's possible. It's been my 12th house experience, anyway. I guess that would be my interpretation of planets in this house. You have to work a hundred times harder to use their energy than you would, say, if they were in house one. Maybe it would help to approach them from this angle? So, if you really want something to work, it will, but you cannot be ambivalent about it and there will be testing. IP: Logged |