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Topic: Libra Sun/Aqua Moon Man HELP!!!!!!
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MissLoyalty
Newflake Posts: 3
From: North Chili, NY, US
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 11, 2013 07:27 PM
  
Okay, First I would Like to make note that I am a Taurus sun/ Capricorn moon, Leo Rising Female. Whom is 20 years of age. My Confusion comes from a 21 year old Libra Sun/ Aquarius Moon/ Leo Rising man whose venus is in Scorpio. YIKES! I Know but for some odd reason I am Infatuated with him. He is very intelligent and wise, But Emotionally detached, aloof, and dry. We have know each other for some months now and bonded a LOT. He Told me not only does he love me,but that he is IN love with me. I was shocked seeing as how he admitted to never falling in love because If they got to emotional he would push them away(Typical Aqua trait) He even cried to me about his father which is a VERY sensitive topic for him. The problem is I Lied to him about something Im very ashamed of. He was very angry with me didn't speak to me for days then I texted him apologizing and proving to him why I felt it okay to lie. He told me that He forgives me but the trust is gone and that time will only fix it, we can be friends. I became irate. I Love this man HONESTLY and care for him so much that i stalked him until he talked to me again (Um..Yeah..I did)it took a week. He spoke to me said he just had been busy and stressed with work and his hours (He is in the Air Force) and that He Still Loves me and Cares. Also that he was going to communicate better with me. I thought things were fine.. WRONG. He disappeared again for another week (SCREAMS!) I just talked to him this past sunday (6/23) and ONCE AGAIN he said the same thing. He still loves me it's just stress. Being a lot more bold this time because of my Capricorn moon pride I told him to get his **** together before I change my number on friday or he wasn't getting it. He laughed at me then said 'Your going to give me your number regardless'. I have to admit I love the hint of cockiness he has and that just roped me back in. So Now Here we are weeks later and STILL no call, no text, No response to my texts, nor does he answer my calls. We are friends on Facebook and I would see when he was only so OBVIOUSLY he is looking at his phone and seen me reaching out to him. WHAT IS GOING ON??! Does he really forgive me or no? Did he really even love me? How do I fix this? Is it even really worth fixing? Im just so hurt because I believed in him. He was supposed to be different. I Just Need the truth Like I can move on and Forget about him. Thanks to my awesome Taurus Grudge holding abilities  but before I turn off my humanity for this man I SERIOUSLY need some advice. Don't be mean I know I sound like a stalker and desperate but that's my Leo rising pushing me. SOMEONE HELLLLPPPPP!!IP: Logged |
Brontex
Knowflake Posts: 93
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Registered: May 2013
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posted July 11, 2013 07:48 PM
Libra Sun/Aquarius Moon here. I definitely need space when I'm stressed, which is more often than I'd like to admit. And I have a bad habit of not talking when I'm ****** at someone. Champion bridge burner too. When I'm done, it's like a switch flips, and that person no longer exists. Case-in-point: I haven't spoken with my father in about 7 years. Probably not what you want to hear, sorry, but I wouldn't date me. Ever. IP: Logged |
MissLoyalty
Newflake Posts: 3
From: North Chili, NY, US
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 11, 2013 07:52 PM
LOL Absolutely what I did not want to hear  But I Needed it. Plus I think I found Out why He isn't talking to me anymore. I found out he is talking back to one of his ex's and apparently he "misses" her. I should just give it up huh?IP: Logged |
Brontex
Knowflake Posts: 93
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Registered: May 2013
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posted July 11, 2013 08:01 PM
I make it a point to not offer concrete recommendations when it comes to love and relationships. They're a really personal thing and it's nearly impossible to fully understand one unless you're in it. They're all so unique. That said, when something interpersonal causes a lot of grief, stepping away and focusing on yourself or other unrelated things doesn't usually hurt. IP: Logged |
MissLoyalty
Newflake Posts: 3
From: North Chili, NY, US
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 11, 2013 08:09 PM
Omg you sound just like him. Instead of Just saying 'Yeah That sounds about right' I always got the most Logical, emotionally respectable response ever LOL. Thank You. I really appreciate the response IP: Logged |
Brontex
Knowflake Posts: 93
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Registered: May 2013
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posted July 11, 2013 08:16 PM
Sure thing. Glad I could...er, help, as it were. Sorry I couldn't offer a more cheerful insight. Sometimes though, thems the breaks.IP: Logged |
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