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Topic: Gemini Venus
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scropiojunkie85
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From: Philly
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted July 13, 2013 07:28 PM
  
Hey guys! What are your thoughts about men with venus in gemini? I met someone I really like but have no idea how to read him, which is unusual for me. He's a cancer sun with an Aquarius moon, gemini mercury & venus and mars in libra. I have a sun in Aquarius and moon/venus/mars in Pisces. Does this sound like a mess to you? Thanks! IP: Logged |
Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 13, 2013 10:07 PM
Sun in Cancer, Venus in Gemini?Fling. If you demand more - drama. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted July 13, 2013 10:22 PM
With Venus in gemini, you need other factors for loyalty and soulfulness. I would look at the Moon.------------------
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peachbeigeblue
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posted July 13, 2013 10:23 PM
no that's ridiculous. it depends on the whole chart. i have a gemini venus and am completely devoted.
my mom has a gemini venus and has only ever been with my father.
you have to look at the whole natal chart and your compat - anything else is too general.
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scropiojunkie85
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From: Philly
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted July 13, 2013 10:38 PM
here are the charts:  synastry:
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starrystratosphere
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posted July 13, 2013 11:09 PM
i have never really understood all the venus in gemini bashing. it honestly seems likes people decided "well, we need to bash some venus sign so lets bash gemini, sagittarius and aqua venus' just becuase they "seem" like it. no. just no. a venus sign describes someones love nature not their commitment phobia and poor emotions/ morals. all the people who have these venus signs are perfectly compatible with people who they are suppose to be compatible with.the ones i know are very loving. IP: Logged |
SagittariusRising
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From: Splitting time between the Moon, Venus, Jupiter, & Neptune
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 01:03 AM
My "friend" has this placement. He also has Sun conj. Mars in Leo, Moon widely conjunct ASC in Capricorn.His Venus falls in my 7H, widely conj. my Sun/Merc/Venus in Cancer, and we have DW Venus trine Pluto. Obviously, my DSC is in Gemini, which helps. He's mostly stable. We do have "off" periods where he doesn't seem to be into me, and I usually have to cause some kind of drama to grab his attention. Then we have a somewhat epic argument, and afterwards, we're good. The key with him I notice is not only talking, but bringing interesting topics to the table. He also loves talking about/debating over current events. What he loves most about me is how my mind works, says it 'mystifies' him (DW Venus opp Neptune). IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon
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From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 14, 2013 01:14 AM
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scropiojunkie85
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From: Philly
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 01:28 AM
I don't know, this guy is super shy, really quiet. But he's a great listener. It's a fairly new situation and I'm sure he's talking to other people right now. But I'm pretty rational about stuff like that, I don't think you can just walk into someone's life and they drop everyone they knew for you. Trust takes time. I don't want any drama in my life and he's very aware of it, I don't have any real expectations but it would be nice if this situation would work out. He has a little bit of a temper but I never really take it personal. I kind of smooth him over pretty easy. We are both in transitional phases of our lives and I get he has a lot of uncertainty in his, so I try not to probe to much. I just really enjoy his company. We can hangout for hours without saying much to each other. I like that. Like I said it's a little unpredictable but we do communicate with each other almost everyday. It's only been two months n we are both really attracted to each other, but I never think that means much. Guys find girl pretty all the time. I just wonder if there is anything in our charts that indicate longevity. Our composite is way better than our synastry. Whatcha think? IP: Logged |
Textbook
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From: Scotland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 14, 2013 05:20 AM
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Originally posted by starrystratosphere:
i have never really understood all the venus in gemini bashing. it honestly seems likes people decided "well, we need to bash some venus sign so lets bash gemini, sagittarius and aqua venus' just becuase they "seem" like it. no. just no. a venus sign describes someones love nature not their commitment phobia and poor emotions/ morals. all the people who have these venus signs are perfectly compatible with people who they are suppose to be compatible with.the ones i know are very loving.
The one I know had sex with another female while he was still technically "with" me, before promptly dumping me for her, marrying her within months, and promptly knocking her up. But not before telling me "I love her, you should too" and then saying to me in front of her that my breasts were asymmetrical and that my mouth was probably too small for oral.
looks at you
...Anything else?
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Haplesschild*
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posted July 14, 2013 05:34 AM
^ An ex of mine was constantly cheating and lying and some Gemini in Venuses I knew were soo deceitful, however I also knew a Gemini in Venus guy that wasn't like that.I think this Venus gives a person a greater urge to 'juggle' people but ultimately it's all about morals. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 14, 2013 06:53 AM
Nah, some of them are fine when it comes to fidelity.The one thing I don't like about them is the detached / aloof style of "loving" (unless there's some heavy Fire there). Gladly, you don't seem to have any Scorpio.
Otherwise I'd say - RUN! They're not really into passionate affairs (the ones I've known personally!). IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
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From: Philly
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 10:48 AM
I avoid anything Scorpio like the plague. I have that saturn in Scorpio and my SN there too, never again. It's like a vortex straight into hell. I don't know what to make of this guy but all signs point to letting this one go. I was hoping that maybe there was something I was missing, but no. He is the type to juggle, got someone knocked up that way, it's just a shame because I really do like him. But oh well... On to the next...
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 14, 2013 10:53 AM
Hah, can't handle the heat, eh?Don't worry, you'll find someone else if you're willing to let go of past attachments. Good luck! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 10:57 AM
Yeah I wouldn't get your hopes up in the first month of dating people with strong gem placements.
They usually test the waters and if things start going wrong they abandon shipIt is possible you just have go through your just have to stimulate and interest them mentally. Also depends the synastry too. I don't see how that's different than most people thou, It's just a logical way of dating.. People who get married with in a year scare me. Like everyone else in the world, they want to to experience love and will fully commit to someone they are in love with. Love for a gemini love is love, not lust.
They never confuse the two. Gems are very flexible I've seen plenty of gems trying to make it work. Besides your guy just has venus in gemini so unless his venus is prominent he may not even behave like a typical gem. IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
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From: Philly
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 11:14 AM
I'm just a weirdo when it comes to relationships. It takes A LOT for me to like someone. I posted the links to our synastry and composites. Take a look at them and you'll see what I mean. I don't know if he's just being aloof or what. He's a little unpredictable and I sort of like that, I just hate starting new relationships because the trust isn't there yet. And people play so many games. I'm sick of it. Ugh IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 11:18 AM
Yeah we can' see it on mobilephotobucket.
It's too tiny.
Can you upload them on imgur.com and link it.
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scropiojunkie85
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From: Philly
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posted July 14, 2013 11:24 AM
Did it! I don't know why photobucket was giving me such a hard time! grrr... thanks for that  IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
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From: Philly
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 11:29 AM
It seems like we have awful awful synastry but our composite looks pretty good. I don't know how to interpret that... :/ IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
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posted July 14, 2013 11:34 AM
Your synastry is good.Your personal planets conjunct his asc. He probably thinks you're the bee's knees Moon and sun is in aquarius
I think you guys will do fine.
I wouldn't worry about venus in gem that much IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 14, 2013 11:36 AM
Good Lord, that chart is huuge! 
The composite doesn't look that good - Venus opposite Saturn & Moon square Jupiter, Uranus especially.
Unstable feelings and a difficulty getting the relationship off the ground and / or expressing affection. In the synastry, hard Neptune aspects and Mars / Saturn aspects are kinda worrisome - especially since his Neptune affects your inner planets - yes, the classic "I don't see you clearly so I'm building up castles in the sky" aspect. Mercury afflicted could point to bad communication or misunderstandings. Anyway.. Some charts don't really reflect the "reality", so I'd say: follow your intuition on this one. IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
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From: Philly
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 11:44 AM
I don't know what my intuition is telling me! That's why I'm so confused. I don't know if I'm making bad assumptions or if this is just one of those relationships that will gradually build over time. I sort of deal with him like a friend, I try to look at him that way so that I don't get extra intense for no reason. Most of my relationships have been with Scorpios... that's what I am used to. This guy is so the opposite I'm a fish out of water. But I like it. I just don't like not knowing if he's playing around or if it's just taking him time to figure himself out. I'm super direct so I just don't always understand when other people can't express what they want. :/ Thanks for taking a look. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 14, 2013 11:49 AM
Maybe give him some time then.Keep being friendly and pay attention to him but don't overdo it. If he's really interested, he'll make a move. Best wishes. IP: Logged |
starrystratosphere
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posted July 14, 2013 01:47 PM
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Originally posted by Textbook:
The one I know had sex with another female while he was still technically "with" me, before promptly dumping me for her, marrying her within months, and promptly knocking her up. But not before telling me "I love her, you should too" and then saying to me in front of her that my breasts were asymmetrical and that my mouth was probably too small for oral.
looks at you
...Anything else?
so you mean to say that the fact that this guy cheated was becuase he has "venus is gemini" ? the oneS( which seem to be a bunch more than your 1) i know have been more loyal and loving then most other people i have known in my entire life. so,getting back to my original point(which you obviously failed to comprehend in the first place), everybody is not the same. IP: Logged |
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