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Topic: the need to be the best--your one and only
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Melodie
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From: USA
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 04:38 PM
  
I can't really say it's an obsession, but more like competitiveness. I know as a person, I stand apart on my own. There's no way I can, or want to, replace any of his exes. But I feel this need to be his best. In every single way.Is this more my inner self or part of synastry? IP: Logged |
LiesLilithsaidtouranus
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 04:42 PM
I don't know why, but I always see that with sun square sun.But it is always there with sun opposite Venus or Mars! The sun person blooms exposing themselves to the mars or venus person. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 43714
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 14, 2013 04:48 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Melodie:
I can't really say it's an obsession, but more like competitiveness. I know as a person, I stand apart on my own. There's no way I can, or want to, replace any of his exes. But I feel this need to be his best. In every single way.Is this more my inner self or part of synastry?
Are you an Aquarius? ------------------
Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 501
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 05:17 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Are you an Aquarius?
I am an Aqua Sun and I feel exactly the way the OP described. I didnt know this was an Aquarius thing Ami Anne, could you explain us why etc?!? IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1685
From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 05:29 PM
I guess it's about feeling special.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 754
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 06:20 PM
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Textbook
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posted July 14, 2013 06:29 PM
I think most girls think like that so I think it's less an astrological question than an almost universal female trait.I'm totally different. I already know that odds are the dude had (or will have) a girl that was : prettier
smarter
more talented
had better social skills
more successful
etc So for me it's different, I never go in expecting to be the best or feeling the need to be the best, but there's times when I think to myself kinda solemnly like "Yeah I'll be the one he never forgets for all the wrong reasons - I'll be that 'Weird' one". Like when you know you're the lame duck of the bunch you don't really feel the need to try and prove your the best cuz you know it's a waste of time anyway lmao. In some moments it's kinda cool cuz it's perversely freeing, you can just be who you are and stop feeling like you have to prove something. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 5413
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 09:19 PM
That's me. Must be number one in everything. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 14, 2013 09:36 PM
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Originally posted by its_aqua:
I am an Aqua Sun and I feel exactly the way the OP described. I didnt know this was an Aquarius thing Ami Anne, could you explain us why etc?!?
Sure. I feel the vibe from Aquas to be better than everyone, usually in terms of being more "holy", more "spiritual" or more "humanitarian" ------------------
Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 43714
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 14, 2013 09:37 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
That's me. Must be number one in everything.
You have a different vibe though, to me. ------------------
Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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foxxyxo
Knowflake Posts: 274
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Registered: May 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 09:44 PM
me too its my aries rising  IP: Logged |
LiesLilithsaidtouranus
Knowflake Posts: 452
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 14, 2013 09:46 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Sure. I feel the vibe from Aquas to be better than everyone, usually in terms of being more "holy", more "spiritual" or more "humanitarian"
I am nothing like and i never get that vibe from other Aquas. I get that from Pisces, Scorpios, leos and Aries. IP: Logged |
HannieBananie
Knowflake Posts: 587
From: Canada, the land of Maple Syrup.
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 14, 2013 09:49 PM
I feel ya i got Leo moon and i have to be the best/only one in my partner's eyes. But someone who can give me freedom as well.------------------
Pisces sun
Leo moon ♥
Air woman. Fire man, made
me a girl who's barely
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Melodie
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 10:16 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Are you an Aquarius?
Nope, Scorpio.And yeah, LiesLilithsaidtouranus, we do have Sun square Sun by sign. Thanks for the insight guys. IP: Logged |
WarriorPrincess7
Knowflake Posts: 63
From: Comancheria
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 14, 2013 10:42 PM
I feel the same way, I want to be the love of his life and the most perfect one. I used to get annoyed when the guy would mention his exes but ive gotten better.
Its probably the leo ascendant.IP: Logged |
Textbook
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posted July 14, 2013 11:26 PM
I have my sun mercury and north node in Leo and I'm not like that at all so I dunno if that's necessarily a Leo characteristic...IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2118
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Registered: May 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 11:31 PM
Do you have Aries Mars?IP: Logged |
Melodie
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 16, 2013 12:23 AM
quote:
Originally posted by WarriorPrincess7:
I feel the same way, I want to be the love of his life and the most perfect one. I used to get annoyed when the guy would mention his exes but ive gotten better.
Its probably the leo ascendant.
I know right? There's only one ex in particular that rubs me the wrong way. Especially since he's said a few times how I look like her and told me once way back when that sex with her was amazing (RAWR! you do not say that to your current gf!) quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
Do you have Aries Mars?
No, but I have an Aries Rising with a Scorpio Mars in the 7th.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 16, 2013 02:11 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Melodie:
I have an Aries Rising with a Scorpio Mars in the 7th.
There goes your answer.
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