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Topic: Venus in Leo wants to understand Venus in Scorpio
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Thermidor Knowflake Posts: 70 From: France Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 05:56 PM
Hi everybody, I'm Virgo, ascendant Scorpio, with moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio too, and I don't understand why women with venus in Scorpio are never interested by me. I suppose that my venus in Leo (in the 8th house) is the main reason. Can you explain me how does it work ? I'm demonstrative, reassuring, quite passionate, enthousiastic, but still... They are not interested. I don't know how to attract their attention ! Please, help me. I feel cursed sometimes, because every woman I'm really attracted to has her venus in Scorpio ! My moon squaring venus is a ******* nightmare, believe me...IP: Logged |
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posted July 14, 2013 10:36 PM
All you need to know is this.If you cheat on the Venus in Scorp they will back over you with their car 27 times accidentally-on-purpose. Understand that and you understand the mystery that is their universe. IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 10:38 PM
You see, textbook understands us scorp venues very very wellIP: Logged |
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posted July 14, 2013 10:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Textbook: All you need to know is this.If you cheat on the Venus in Scorp they will back over you with their car 27 times accidentally-on-purpose. Understand that and you understand the mystery that is their universe.
Yeah true, and theyre also possessive and manipulative for us Masculine fixed venus'(im your opposite, Aquarius venus). Oh hi textbook, wanna mess with me? lol jokes but wassup? ------------------ Pisces sun Leo moon ♥ Air woman. Fire man, made me a girl who's barely Piscean...
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11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 10:52 PM
Maybe you're too Plutonian for those women. Venus in Scorpio without any Pluto aspects or eighth house placements, can be intimidated by someone with heavy Pluto/eighth house stuff.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8717 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 11:07 PM
Oh pffft my friend has Venus in Scorp I have it in Leo we get along GREAT no crazy jealousy whatsoever and this isn't the first one I have known! Never had any problems with Scorpio Venus!IP: Logged |
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posted July 14, 2013 11:11 PM
Textbook, i like your spunk.-Johanna♥ ------------------ Pisces sun Leo moon ♥ Air woman. Fire man, made me a girl who's barely Piscean... IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 11:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Oh pffft my friend has Venus in Scorp I have it in Leo we get along GREAT no crazy jealousy whatsoever and this isn't the first one I have known! Never had any problems with Scorpio Venus!
That's prob because you've done nothing YET to activate the crazy. LOL IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8717 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 11:22 PM
I've known this person for years he is not the crazy jealous type at all but he has an Aqua moon. Goes to show Scorp Venus does not always equal jealousy. Best way to get to know Venus Scorp is ask them to go out someplace fun like a movie.
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posted July 14, 2013 11:33 PM
But one of Venus in Scorpio's specialty is hot sex.  What, it's true! I have a former Libra fwb. ------------------ Pisces sun Leo moon ♥ Air woman. Fire man, made me a girl who's barely Piscean... IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8717 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 11:40 PM
The one I know is platonic and great company. He is real nice. So many myths about Scorpio Venus  They make great friends, probably great partners too. Mine have been friends though. They are really fun people to be with so I would say go talk to the one you know that usually gets your foot in the door. I never have problems getting noticed by them with my Venus Leo. IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 14, 2013 11:43 PM
Therm, are you very friendly? Like Social butterfly type? Are you a flirt? Are you always surrounded by a group of friends?....also, Maybe you're coming off as desperate, and they sense that? Idk give us more details. Like a scenario that happened with one (or some) of those women.IP: Logged |
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posted July 14, 2013 11:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by HannieBananie: Textbook, i like your spunk.-Johanna♥
You're a sweetheart.
And you have the same name as my younger sister. wide eyed IP: Logged |
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posted July 15, 2013 12:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Textbook: You're a sweetheart. And you have the same name as my younger sister. wide eyed
well i do have Leo moon which is a loving placement when not being egotistical. *blushes* the person loves with all their heart. Plus i'ma Pisces so yeah.
------------------ Pisces sun Leo moon ♥ Air woman. Fire man, made me a girl who's barely Piscean... IP: Logged |
Thermidor Knowflake Posts: 70 From: France Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 15, 2013 05:58 AM
quote: If you cheat on the Venus in Scorp they will back over you with their car 27 times accidentally-on-purpose. Understand that and you understand the mystery that is their universe.
I'm far from that stage ! I just want to know how it works at the beginning ! Maybe she thinks my attitude is not enough pushy ? Venus in Scorpio likes challenging, provocation, but I dare not speaking sex so early. I'm a serious guy, and I know they don't want to be "shagged" like prostitutes, so how can I reassure them and make them understand they're not obliged to provoke me like that... Tell me what to do when Venus in Scorpio bites to te baite. Should I insist to catch her or wait until she comes over me ? Does Venus in Scorpio like distant men or insistent men ? Add to that, Venus in Scorpio seems to not like compliments... I'm really lost... Please, tell me precisely, concretely, how Venus in Scorpio wants to be treated, and how can I catch her attention. IP: Logged |
Thermidor Knowflake Posts: 70 From: France Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 15, 2013 05:59 AM
Sorry, I'm french, it's difficult for me to speak english.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8635 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 15, 2013 06:15 AM
Bonjour le Français! Quelques remarques en général: si la personne est intéressée par vous, elle va sûrement faire quelque chose pour vous le faire savoir; sinon, c'est que vous ne l'accrochez pas. Je ne pense pas que vous pouvez faire quoique ce soit pour éveiller l'intérêt de quelqu'un, ça doit venir naturellement. Cela dit, avec les gens qui ont le signe du Scorpion dans leur carte, il faut y aller doucement, mais sûrement. Ce sont des gens qui veulent avant tout être sûrs de leur choix, qu'ils ne font pas erreur. Il faut gagner leur confiance, leur prouver que vous êtes sérieux, que vous y êtes à 100%. Essayer de toujours être à l'écoute, proposer votre aide, être galant et surtout: honnête. Jamais mentir ou trahir! Et ne pas flirter avec tout ce qui bouge.. Voilà en gros. IP: Logged |
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posted July 15, 2013 09:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by Thermidor: Sorry, I'm french, it's difficult for me to speak english.
Salut mec, comment ca va? ------------------ Pisces sun Leo moon ♥ Air woman. Fire man, made me a girl who's barely Piscean... IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 618 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 15, 2013 10:22 AM
Venus connections can be fun, fun, fun.It is likely, however, that with Leo Venus, you’d also be drawn to Aquarius/Taurus Suns.And, with your Sun in Virgo, Venus in Scorpio is a nice sextile connection and so, it is likely that a Venus in Scorpio can be drawn to you. I’d imagine, having the Venus in Leo, that you may come across too “overbearing”. Venus in Leo has the tendency to overwhelm and go in “guns blazing” after a very short while- when liking someone. Venus in Scorpio people tend to respond to people who are just chilled. It makes them think that there is “more” to be uncovered behind the calm facade of the individual. Can you pull that off? Can you maintain a facade of unimpressed indifference with your eyes? Even when you are aching to express yourself from the heart? I, being a Venus in Scorpio, really do respond well to a Sun-sign position that looks like it’s got its act together. Fixed signs usually do it for me, although I am also not indifferent to water (Cancer /Pisces) or earth signs (Virgo/Capricorn) either (trine or sextile my Venus). The opposition, squares and conjunctions feel a lot more intense though.
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8717 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 15, 2013 11:38 AM
I have Venus in Leo and it takes me a while to decide I like someone. I typically do not like people when I first meet them. I dislike it when they come on strong. I feel awkward. I find other Venus signs more overbearing. I don't give it my all typically unless I am really convinced.
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curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 15, 2013 03:54 PM
what about venus in pisces trine pluto in scorpio? how will that workout?IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4421 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted July 15, 2013 07:13 PM
quote: Venus in Leo wants to understand Venus in Scorpio
What? Not become an astronaut? .. I kid! I kid! You're both fixed Venuses so that should give you some things in common. You both like the idea of having a stable romantic partner. The thing is - Scorpio Venus can sometimes lean towards pessimism... Leo is bright and optimistic. You have to be open to the darker side of life and human emotion - to be on the same wavelength with a Scorp Venus! Although -- with a Scorpio Moon this shouldn't be a problem for you.. Maybe you just haven't met a Scorpio Venus person, with their Venus exactly conjunct your Moon? The degrees can be important.
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Thermidor Knowflake Posts: 70 From: France Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 16, 2013 09:07 PM
Thank you everybody ! Yes maybe I'm not chilled enough, maybe my look betrays my thoughts, maybe I'm too smiling, like I was high or something... I hate the idea of looking indifferent with my eyes, it would be so cruel.. and false ! I believed Venus in Scorpio hates false attitudes ??Doux Rêve (Are you canadian ? Or french like me ?) : When you say I have to prove them I'm serious and I'm not just flirting, does it mean I must behave like a simple friend for beginning ? I though Venus in Scorpio didn't commit with someone who was already friend before, as if I had to choose at the very beginning ? I'm really cursed... I don't understand, I have a great sense of psychology, a great intuition about people, but I'm not able to get that bloody little Venus in Scorpio ?? ...World is not well done. I don't know if people here realize it but Moon squaring Venus is one of the best aspect to have to throw away your life... IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8717 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 16, 2013 09:21 PM
Not sure about the ladies..but the two guy friends I know with this placement like smiling people, expressive ones. In fact it is me who isn't always upbeat enough. They prefer happiness. I say just be yourself and if they don't like it find another Venus.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8635 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 16, 2013 09:38 PM
Thermidor,Je viens du même pays que vous. Agree with Starlight though, you should just be yourself and if that doesn't work, then you're probably not meant to be. I don't like the idea of changing yourself just to attract / please someone. Stay true to yourself and your personality, be smiling and expressive if you feel like it, if they like you, they'll like all of you. My 2 cents! IP: Logged |