|
Author
|
Topic: Venus in leo woman and Venus in capricorn man?
|
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8192
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted July 17, 2013 09:59 PM
  
I do have one Sagittarius friend I have known for five years, same sun sign as you and an Aqua moon. He has a sun/Neptune conjunction and his Jupiter conjuncts my Venus in Leo. The people I know all have conjunctions or oppositions between Sun/moon and Neptune and I have this too. I need Neptune with their sun or moon to really feel at ease with them.There's the Taurus sun but that was long distance even though we visited each other. Then I was with a Virgo sun that lasted a few months, lol, maybe it's because there wasn't any Neptune to his sun or moon? IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 17, 2013 10:10 PM
ohh so it seems you generally prefer to be surrounded by people who share one or two same signs as you..
very interesting...! thank you!!IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8192
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted July 17, 2013 10:12 PM
Yes, seems so. I know a Sag guy though, so it's true, Virgo suns can get along with them!IP: Logged |
winter
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted July 18, 2013 09:31 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Venusincap89:
first time she rejected me, she counter offered via text but I rejected the counter offer
Haha, trust a Cappy Venus to make a date sound like a business deal :-)
As a Venus in Leo female myself my thoughts are - when you rejected her counter offer she was offended maybe even a little humiliated. If your reason for rejecting her were valid then so be it but if you were being a bit of a jerk about it because you had your nose put out of joint by her initial rejection then you may want to forget about this one for at least a little while.
That Virgo moon with the inbuilt BS detector, coupled with a Leo Venus opposing Saturn will not forget your slight for quite some time or until hell freezes over – whichever comes first. That Venus of hers also squares Pluto so her subsequent behaviour may be her toying with you and getting a bit of revenge. If you really want to make amends don’t go down the path of letting her ‘get even’ – stop the games. Leo Venus loves blatant honesty…..it’s downright adorable and dead sexy when sincere. If you were being a jerk then come clean, if nothing else she’ll be impressed by the honesty and you’ll gain some respect and build from there. For what it’s worth her Venus opposing Saturn ticks your Cap Venus box and her square to Pluto along with your Mars in Scorpio spells hotness to me and you could be quite good together.
IP: Logged |
HannieBananie
unregistered
|
posted July 18, 2013 09:36 AM
^ She also has an unaspected mercury! forget it dude just move on to someone with water/earth venus & mars.------------------
Pisces sun
Leo moon ♥
Aint nobody realer. :) IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 18, 2013 07:50 PM
@winter
My reason for rejecting her counter offer was the fact that she cancelled the date and counter offered 30 minutes before she promised to meet me when I asked her out for the first time
I felt very very humilated... but I didn't know she was venus in leo back then
If i knew she was a venus in leo, I would have just taken her counter offer, assuming that she has no unepxected intentions..
I did ask for her forgiveness very sincerely, I wrote her 1000 words apology.. if she doesn't find that sincere I think I am doomed.. but on top of that I also asked her forgiveness again and asked her to understand that I didn't know better before.. she acceptes my apology both timea but I am certain that the resentment is still in there.. good god its killing meIP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 18, 2013 08:20 PM
@hannie, can you please explain how unaspected mercury would ruin it all? Please explain..IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 18, 2013 08:36 PM
@hannie, can you please explain how unaspected mercury would ruin it all? Please explain..
IP: Logged |
HannieBananie
unregistered
|
posted July 18, 2013 11:34 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Venusincap89:
@hannie, can you please explain how unaspected mercury would ruin it all? Please explain..
Just look it up... but she prob has communication issues. ------------------
Pisces sun
Leo moon ♥
Aint nobody realer. :) IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 18, 2013 11:58 PM
according to this website its mercury in libra :s
http://www.cafeastrology.com/mercurysignstables.html IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8192
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted July 18, 2013 11:59 PM
Mercury in Libra's fun! I have it. Mine is not unaspected. It is part of a stellium and conjunct the ascendant.IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 19, 2013 12:08 AM
oh SSS please give me more advice
so as previously mentioned, I've already written her 1,000 words apology letter
and on top of that I apologized again 2 weeks after that
and today I apologized again
and I tried my best to be honest but it seems she's still not with it because she has completely ignored my messages today
what do you think she is up to?
is she stil on that revenge thing?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8192
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted July 19, 2013 12:12 AM
My question to you VenusinCap, why do you wish to be with someone who won't acknowledge you? You will waste all this energy trying to connect. You could try to find someone who will reciprocate.Besides, if you play hard to get, she could contact you out of the blue missing the attention. You would have to wait and see. Playing hard to get can do wonders sometimes. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 19, 2013 12:25 AM
hmm I think.. I have shown more patience than her so far... only recently I have begged for mercy..
usually after she rejects me, I would avoid her and not talk to her for as long as a month
she is never the first one to msg me or text me (actually I've never texted or called her until recently) but she does pop up at the places that I am in kind of obvious manner
but yeah that doesn't go too far.. as I have previously mentioned..
hmm you are right.. thanks SSS!! IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 19, 2013 07:06 PM
.IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 23, 2013 10:24 PM
quote:
Originally posted by HannieBananie:
^ She also has an unaspected mercury! forget it dude just move on to someone with water/earth venus & mars.
Hannie!! you were right!!! turns out to be that she has some what of passive aggressive disorder
IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 6661
From:
Registered: Mar 2010
|
posted July 23, 2013 11:07 PM
I don't have Venus in Leo, but I have everything else in Leo.  Here's what I suggest... You said you are both in command places together. First you have to peak her interest.
In these common places, walk behind her when its crowded, put your hand on her shoulder and say excuse me, getting through..
But don't acknowledge her. Keep walking.
Or give a half smile like saying excuse me.. Have a fun night, not paying her much attention.
Ok I'm think I'm going to get grief for the next ones.. Lol
Let her catch you looking at her, give a half smile..
When she sees you looking, get up and walk towards her, but pass her and talk to (hopefully) someone u know behind her..
On another night,
When u see her, say a simple hi, with your eyes a nod, showing you notice her.
Walk past her again, through her group, saying excuse me..
Keep this up until u catch her looking at you, once she stares at u, your in. 
Then step it up, compliment her eyes.. Or something
Keeping it casual..
Still don't let on yet, Then once you can tell she's noticed you and interested, start talking to her in a normal way, with out asking her out...
Be your self. I know it sounds like playing a game, but you have to have her notice you...
Peak her interest... If your "not interested" she is going to wonder why...
IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 23, 2013 11:23 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
I don't have Venus in Leo, but I have everything else in Leo. Here's what I suggest... You said you are both in command places together. First you have to peak her interest.
In these common places, walk behind her when its crowded, put your hand on her shoulder and say excuse me, getting through..
But don't acknowledge her. Keep walking.
Or give a half smile like saying excuse me.. Have a fun night, not paying her much attention.
Ok I'm think I'm going to get grief for the next ones.. Lol
Let her catch you looking at her, give a half smile..
When she sees you looking, get up and walk towards her, but pass her and talk to (hopefully) someone u know behind her..
On another night,
When u see her, say a simple hi, with your eyes a nod, showing you notice her.
Walk past her again, through her group, saying excuse me..
Keep this up until u catch her looking at you, once she stares at u, your in.
Then step it up, compliment her eyes.. Or something
Keeping it casual..
Still don't let on yet, Then once you can tell she's noticed you and interested, start talking to her in a normal way, with out asking her out...
Be your self. I know it sounds like playing a game, but you have to have her notice you...
Peak her interest... If your "not interested" she is going to wonder why...
Great advice!!! For some other girl though..
As for this case, it's closed haha..
This girl grew RESENTFUL by the fact that I didn't pay her special attention
She did all she can do to make me ask her out and when I did she rejected me with evil grin as if she was waitinf for it as long as a year
this girl is by far the most inwardly aggrwsive girl I have seen... it actually scares the crap out of me IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 6661
From:
Registered: Mar 2010
|
posted July 23, 2013 11:57 PM
OooooooooWell for the next Venus in Leo girl. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8192
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted July 24, 2013 08:33 AM
If that's the case, VenusinCap, I would just move on. If she is so aggressive, why get tangled up? Maybe this is all a warning? Do not get directly involved with her? By reading what you post, tbh, it's like your intuition is on to something and your logical mind is grappling with it. Your logical mind is trying to win out. Let your intuition win. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted July 24, 2013 12:20 PM
quote:
Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
If that's the case, VenusinCap, I would just move on. If she is so aggressive, why get tangled up? Maybe this is all a warning? Do not get directly involved with her? By reading what you post, tbh, it's like your intuition is on to something and your logical mind is grappling with it. Your logical mind is trying to win out. Let your intuition win.
Yess... u were right all along thank you SSS
Shoulda taken ur advice the moment I got it IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 242
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
|
posted April 04, 2014 07:49 AM
asdsadksajkdsajkldsajkdsajdsajd
I MISSS HERRR
askldsajhkldsajkldjsaklIP: Logged |
Lindaland
UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! 
