posted July 18, 2013 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
You've never met someone with Mars square Saturn have you?

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My Leo ex. now he's pretty evil too

posted July 18, 2013 11:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
You should spend more time trying being a better role model..

Telling your 13 year old sister your dirty laundry is just inappropriate.

I have a 12 year old cousin and I would rather rip out my vocal folds than tell her my "secrets".

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Thanks Kero anyways shes dead to me.

posted July 18, 2013 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Notice how her poor sister has chiron in the 3rd house...

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No thats North node, Chiron is conjunct Pluto in the 7th house in her chart.

posted July 18, 2013 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Oh right!

You're going to make a big impact in her life..
Why not make it positive?

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Cuz now she's evil , shes dead to me and she betrays and blackmails me.

posted July 18, 2013 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
What did she say? probably told the things that she was planning to tell your another ex? siht happens you know, when you have got too many ex.

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Lmao she just screamed random shxt over the phone... and my Scorp moon ex understood that my sister's annoying.

posted July 18, 2013 11:15 PM            

Yes she is young... so you should be more patient with her. Don't go around telling her or others that you hate her and what not - because you'll only end up regretting it. I also don't believe in people being "evil" - everyone has their good and bad points.

That being said.. some people need to be 'handled' or 'managed' more than others. I think your sister falls in this category.

She does not have an easy chart and I can understand why she could be a difficult person to live with. She has a HUGE stellium in Taurus and her Sun/Saturn conj in Taurus is squared by Uranus in Aquarius.. You can really expect some strange surprises from her. She is probably someone who thinks she always knows 'best'... even though she is young - and it's likely that she could have a nagging or parental attitude towards others.. regardless of their age.
I guess this can be annoying considering that she is 13.. Many adults would not take well to being nagged by a 13 yr old.

Try to see the good points! She is likely also an artistic person. She may have musical talent. She can be very calm, very strong and extremely persistent. If there was a 3rd world war and the entire town was bombed.. my money would be on your sister to survive. She's a *tough cookie*!

For a Pisces - like yourself.. someone with so much Taurus energy - can definitely be a calming influence and an oasis of strength.

If you KNOW her limitations.. and you know that certain things about her will simply annoy you - then don't go there!!
If you KNOW she'll tell your parents stuff - because she is a stickler to rules (as anyone with a fixed stellium might be)... then don't tell her your secrets.

posted July 18, 2013 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Ok - So I clicked on her chart...

Yes she is young... so you should be more patient with her. Don't go around telling her or others that you hate her and what not - because you'll only end up regretting it. I also don't believe in people being "evil" - everyone has their good and bad points.

That being said.. some people need to be 'handled' or 'managed' more than others. I think your sister falls in this category.

She does not have an easy chart and I can understand why she could be a difficult person to live with. She has a HUGE stellium in Taurus and her Sun/Saturn conj in Taurus is squared by Uranus in Aquarius.. You can really expect some strange surprises from her. She is probably someone who thinks she always knows 'best'... even though she is young - and it's likely that she could have a nagging or parental attitude towards others.. regardless of their age.
I guess this can be annoying considering that she is 13.. Many adults would not take well to being nagged by a 13 yr old.

Try to see the good points! She is likely also an artistic person. She may have musical talent. She can be very calm, very strong and extremely persistent. If there was a 3rd world war and the entire town was bombed.. my money would be on your sister to survive. She's a *tough cookie*!

For a Pisces - like yourself.. someone with so much Taurus energy - can definitely be a calming influence and an oasis of strength.

If you KNOW her limitations.. and you know that certain things about her will simply annoy you - then don't go there!!
If you KNOW she'll tell your parents stuff - because she is a stickler to rules (as anyone with a fixed stellium might be)... then don't tell her your secrets.

That doesn't mean you can't have a positive relationship.
But you have to "manage" her - to bring out the best in her..
This will likely be even more so the case when you guys are older ^^

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Argh well shes better off with my moms sister who's born same day as my Scorpio moon ex.

Not me i have an Aquarius stellium + Leo moon.

posted July 18, 2013 11:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I didn't see all these posts before.

Saturnine - It's interesting you said you would instantly adore her. I actually thought looking at her chart that she could be pretty difficult to be around. But it's all subjective lol
Being an Aries - when I saw all that Taurus and a lack of fire.. and a Virgo Moon... my first reaction was: "Oh Brother!"

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Like its SUPER hard to relate to her at times because i have so much Air and Fire in my chart, plus she has a cold moon, brrr!

posted July 18, 2013 11:25 PM            

Usually saturn usually makes the native cautious when it come to relationships, traditionally.

Perhaps because it's debilitated the opposite happens because saturn here is impulsive.

posted July 18, 2013 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Now we all stop posting!!!!

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*grabs you and runs way... later, demands to see photos posted in picture thread*

posted July 18, 2013 11:27 PM            

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Originally posted by HannieBananie:
Cuz now she's evil , shes dead to me and she betrays and blackmails me.

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posted July 18, 2013 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Saturn is debilitated in aries and it conjuncts your Dsc

Usually saturn usually makes the native cautious when it come to relationships, traditionally.

Perhaps because it's debilitated the opposite happens because saturn here is impulsive.

You'll have a whole string of exes with unfulfilled relationships. You have to be more cautious when it comes to guys Hannie, that's your lesson. Don't jump at any guy that just throws you a bone!

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The only guy in my eyes who i have mutual feelings for, and he does too, is my Scorp moon ex. I have to go see him possibly tmrw doe...

That's it that's all.

Im still friends with my Pisces moon ex's.

posted July 18, 2013 11:29 PM            

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Originally posted by orocairion:
I'm gonna make a wild guess here and say you aren't exactly a saint towards her, either...

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Well, not after what she did to me and the way she treats me either.

posted July 18, 2013 11:31 PM            

I just think you should try to connect with her in those things that you have in common - like maybe art?
I would imagine you could both be artistic.. into painting or drawing or music?
She's not the best person to tell your secrets to because she is too young and because you are just too different.
But please don't blame her or call her evil.

posted July 18, 2013 11:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
*grabs you and runs way... later, demands to see photos posted in picture thread*

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Omg I forgot to mention this but I love your hair Geeky... I've never seen someone who can actually pull of those hair styles.. My favorite was the bright red hair with the v shaped bangs.
So perf... <3

You can also pull of a shaved head... that's amazing.
I'm a guy and I wouldn't be caught head with no hair.. My ears stick out a bit and my hair shapes my face.. because my bone structure isn't perfectly symmetrical.

posted July 18, 2013 11:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
You are just very different people. It's interesting that you are sisters because often I see patterns and similarities between siblings.. but the two of you actually have pretty disparate charts.

I just think you should try to connect with her in those things that you have in common - like maybe art?
I would imagine you could both be artistic.. into painting or drawing or music?
She's not the best person to tell your secrets to because she is too young and because you are just too different.
But please don't blame her or call her evil.

She is who she is... and... You are who you are.
That's that.
You have to accept people as they are, specially when they are family.

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WE tried that, she constantly criticizes me and puts me down (Virgo moon)

And she knows im sensitive!

I kno with all that Taurus in her chart...

And I knew she was also gonna have Moon-Uranus like me,

My moms kinda loca (She has Sun conj Uranus & Pluto with unaspected Aqua moon).

posted July 18, 2013 11:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Omg I forgot to mention this but I love your hair Geeky... I've never seen someone who can actually pull of those hair styles.. My favorite was the bright red hair with the v shaped bangs.
So perf... <3

You can also pull of a shaved head... that's amazing.

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posted July 18, 2013 11:57 PM            

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posted July 19, 2013 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by HannieBananie:
Well, not after what she did to me and the way she treats me either.

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Hannie, you have to be patient with her because she's still THIRTEEN. She just entered the door of puberty, she still has a lot of things to experience. Little siblings can be very immature but eventually, they will grow out of it.

I have a little brother who is fifteen and like you, we never got along since time immemorial. Astrologically, we're incompatible too. To give you a gist, I'm a Scorpio sun with a Pisces moon, he's a Leo sun with an Aquarius moon.

Yes, we engage in petty fights (considering our 8-year gap ) but what do you know? I don't hate him for being so annoying because first of all, it's a younger sibling's job (especially young boys) to annoy their older siblings and second, he will grow out of it someday. There will come a day when the only girl he's going to annoy is his girlfriend and not me anymore. He's also done his share of spilling my stuff about me (albeit accidentally) and all that but he's just a kid, after all. I can't be mad at him forever.