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Topic: Shopping Addictions?
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swampys Knowflake Posts: 558 From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 19, 2013 04:03 AM
I have a serious shopping addiction, and I'm afraid it may lead to hoarding when I'm older. I was given $500 for the MONTH and spent it all within 24 HOURS. :'( What placements lead to shopping addictions? My addiction is tearing me apart.I have an empty second house that starts in Virgo. My eighth house is empty except for Lilith and Vesta, and my eighth house starts in Pisces. I've had this problem since I was little. IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 955 From: the future Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 04:37 AM
Have you checked your transits? Jupiter , or Venus/moon contacts?IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1747 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 04:53 AM
What's your Mercury doing? Mercury is the ruler of your second house so maybe it has a square to Jupiter or something.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4886 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 19, 2013 06:11 AM
Venus / Jupiter; Afflicted Venus or Jupiter, or ruler of the 2nd. Mars or Pluto connected to the 2nd somehow. Just stop doing it! Don't spend all your money.
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3471 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 06:14 AM
All your rent...? That's not very smart lol. I have venus square jupiter, I love shopping as much as the next diva but I pay my own rent, care insurance, and electric bill. Make a list!!! - Do I want shelter - Do I want to be homeless and sell all my crap so I can survive.
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somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1747 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 06:16 AM
I have Venus/Jupiter parallel and I can go through money easily...depends what kinda money though! If I was given $500 for no reason and I didn't need it for something, then I'd probably spend it fast. But if it was like a paycheck and I had bills to pay...IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4886 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 19, 2013 06:18 AM
I have Venus conjunct / parallel Jupiter and I can overspend for sure.But I try to keep it at a healthy level. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4886 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 19, 2013 06:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene:
Make a list!!! - Do I want shelter - Do I want to be homeless and sell all my crap so I can survive.
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somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1747 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 06:24 AM
^Prayer circle for people with Venus conjunct or parallel Jupiter. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4886 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 19, 2013 06:26 AM
^ Hah!I love this aspect. It's one of the best ones ever, imo. We're awesome. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 3471 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 06:30 AM
I don't need prayer circles, i check in at expensive rehabs every month.. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1747 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 06:37 AM
I just add it to the list of things that make me so infatuous. Aquarius Moon: frivolous, has light flighty emotions Mars/Jupiter square: amorous, wants to spread the luuuuv Venus/Jupiter parallel: can maintain multiple crushes But then you have the sort of anti-infatuation team... H7 Saturn: romantic relationships are few and tend to happen over time Venus/Moon square: likes different things at different times, leading to finicky/difficult behaviour IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 3039 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 07:04 AM
Not very wise swamps Is the spending that thrills you so much?? I do not like shopping actually. But I do spend money on things that I want to possess.Why don't we live in a world where we could buy things with our smiles?? I'm not really a smiler but would have put on a 1000 watts smile if it could get me thingS!
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 650 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 19, 2013 10:42 AM
my dad just died and we discovered in his home that he was a secret hoarder/shopper. no one knew this had been going on for years. it was terrible to see it - his home was stacked with items from floor to ceiling in every room, all new and unused. don't let anyone tell you it's not a big problem, because it is. in my dad's case he could afford it, but if your addiction is leading you into money problems then you'll need some help before it gets out of control. I don't think it has to do with aspects to any planets - like venus/jupiter - imo it comes from lack of self-love of self-esteem, which I now figure my dad suffered from as well. you're using the shopping as a way of replacing some other happy feeling and the shopping probably makes you happy for a while, and then miserable after. if you already know you have the problem that's good because you can work towards solving it :-)IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3594 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 10:54 AM
I have Sun conjunct Jupiter & Venus parallel Jupiter, I am a reformed shopping addicted but can you blame shopping is everywhere in nyc.Your second house would be your resources and financial status and "fixed assets" i.e you have a bank account, expensive jewelry that can be sold if needed. The eighth house is resources from "others" i.e money of a spouse, money from law suit, inheritances etc. Also the 11th house represents incoming gains as well. Seriously learn to manage your money while your young or you'll end up filing for bankruptcy before 30 .
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Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 3039 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 10:58 AM
^^ and then what? you get support from the government?IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3594 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 11:15 AM
I don't know that sounds like a 10th house aspect since the 10th also represents the government.IP: Logged |
AriesKat Knowflake Posts: 724 From: Brooklyn, NY USA Registered: May 2011
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posted July 19, 2013 11:17 AM
I have these issues too...I am getting better but it does suck...Ive been really sad tho andI think ive been compensating with shoppingIP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 19, 2013 05:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by swampys: I've had this problem since I was little.
You have a lot of Taurus influence by chance? The shop-a-holic, hoarding types I have known (male & female) were both Taurus people. The male had Taurus Asc, Moon, and Mercury as well.
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 740 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 20, 2013 09:13 AM
I have a shopping addiction too. 2nd house ruler is afflicted ( Mars). No Venus/Jupiter. I never use credit cards or money needed to pay the bills, because i hate to be indebted, i use only available cash. 2nd house ruler is afflicted, but my finaces are in excellent order. I am debt and morgage free. in America.Almost every weekend i am out on a shopping spree, in fact i am going out now in a bit and my hands are itchy and my heart is pounding That doesnt necessarily mean i will buy a lot, it depends. When my s.o. comes with me on a shopping spree which usually lasts around 4 hours, he ends up exhausted at the end with vomiting sensation.. he can't take it well. IP: Logged |
swampys Knowflake Posts: 558 From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 20, 2013 11:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Geeky: You have a lot of Taurus influence by chance? The shop-a-holic, hoarding types I have known (male & female) were both Taurus people. The male had Taurus Asc, Moon, and Mercury as well.
Taurus midheaven. IP: Logged |
LoVeLy Knowflake Posts: 279 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 21, 2013 02:49 PM
I'm addicted to pretty things so that makes me addicted to shopping too LOL It must be my Lib Moon ------------------ Sun in Virgo conjunct Venus ( 11th House ) Moon in Libra Rising sign Libra Honesty is Confidence - Hoodie Allen ❤ IP: Logged |