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posted July 21, 2013 09:35 AM            

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Why are scorpio men so difficult?
I talked with my ex scropio bf yesterday. We dated in the winter for few months. I found out that he had been telling his ex gf that he wants her back and I broke it up with him. We never had a so called final chat, I just told him that I never want to see him anymore.
After that we meet occasionally as we have some same acquaintances. He has tried to make me jealous with no luck. I am dating another man. 2 days ago we started to talk about what happened in the winter by email, I initiated the talk as I wanted to clear the air between us. For my surprise, he tried to blame the broke up on me. Said that I did not want to listen when he wanted to talk and explain and that I did not want to wait until he is over the ex. Yes, I know I should have given him a chance to explain, but to expect I would want to wait until he is over her, he can not be serious? And what is this about that he keeps telling me that we are almost neighbors and he would like to have normal relations with me, regardless what happened in the winter and that we should forget all that happened at that time? (btw, we are not neighbors, we live in a big city and he lives about half a mile from me).
I wanted to clear the air, but somehow things are even worse now. I can sense a lot of anger from his letters. Why would he say the things that I mentioned above if he hates me?

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posted July 21, 2013 10:35 AM            

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Sounds like you were his rebound girl.
Don't expect much from such a scenario and just move on (which it seems you have done).

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posted July 21, 2013 12:36 PM            

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Yes, I have accepted it that I was his rebound girl and I tried to tell him that, no hard feelings. And if I told him, I like some one else, he went nuts, got really angry. By telling him that I like some one else, I tried to let him know that I have moved on with my life and I do not hold any grudge.

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posted July 21, 2013 12:40 PM            

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So what's the problem exactly?

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posted July 21, 2013 01:07 PM            

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Problem is that I tried to clear the air, but now he is more angry at me than ever. Funny thing, he still keeps saying that he wants us to have normal relations and we should forget the past. But he has actually not forgotten anything and is still angry. Why can he not admit it and talk things out? I would listen.

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posted July 21, 2013 01:14 PM            

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But does he admit that he has moved on ? He wants you to be just friends right ?

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posted July 21, 2013 01:23 PM            

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Well, I know he has a gf for 2 months now, he himself has not told me a word about her, but he did write me that he has gotten over his ex, who was the reason we broke up.
He has not used a word friend, just keeps saying that he has no problem with me and wants to have normal relation with me.
So, should I just leave it as it is and not try to understand him or try to clear the air? Just let him be with his anger?

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