posted July 22, 2013 04:48 PM            

what would this aspect cause for the person? feeling ugly? this was my only guess

posted July 22, 2013 04:53 PM            

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Ascendant Square Venus

You are a sentimentalist and too attached to your early home life. Your still vivid memories of that time interfere with your becoming independent and secure enough to stand on your own feet. You feel that if you assert your freedom, you are being disloyal to the past. It should be apparent that unless you let go of binding obligations to those you love, you will never succeed in realizing your personal goals. To justify your difficulty in transferring loyalty to yourself, you devise all kinds of excuses for holding on to your obligations.

You can gain the security you need if you capitalize on your creative ideas. Not having sufficient financial reserves is especially painful for you. You know how to make money but you do not enjoy putting forth the physical effort to do so. You love your comforts and you do not like to be disturbed unless it is absolutely necessary. Perhaps it seems easier to let someone else provide for you, so you prefer to live at home, possibly with your parents or a parental figure in a ready-made environment.

At times you are ungracious to your friends when they ask favors of you, probably because you do not like to extend yourself unless it will benefit you in some way. You are generous when you talk about what you would do if you had a huge amount of money, but if you had it you probably would not follow through. You admire people who are skilled at accumulating capital in their endeavors, but you resent it when you cannot induce them to assist you in your efforts. Hard work seems worthwhile to you only when your future security is at stake. Your goals are not well-defined, because to define them would burden you with the responsibility. You avoid making a personal commitment in using your creative talents unless there is no other alternative, or if your source of sustenance is cut off.

You are probably less concerned with your physical appearance than with the status and beauty of your home and general surroundings by which you assume others judge you. Thus a beautifully designed and well-kept home is a more potent expression of your love and your desires than a fancy suit of clothes. Your reputation and what others think of you may seem quite important. You may structure your life to show the world that you have a particularly beautiful and loving relationship. Both these tendencies impel you toward very rewarding and satisfying relationships that offer you and your lover a great deal. However, you are inclined to express your desires symbolically rather than physically and directly, which may get in the way with communication with your partner. When such difficulties arise, do not hesitate to be quite verbal and specific about what you need and desire from your lover, even though you feel that your actions have made this clear. For many people words speak louder than deeds, and your lover would happily take care of your needs if you just spoke up.

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