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Topic: Mars conjunct pluto in family synastry?
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Venusian Moon
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 23, 2013 11:26 AM
  
What does it mean when a child's pluto conjuncts a parents mars?Child's pluto is in the 1st house and parents mars is in the 11th house.
Can't find any info on it.
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 23, 2013 12:11 PM
Maybe the kid will want to manipulate the parent in some way, or vice versa.IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 23, 2013 12:22 PM
Good question.My Pluto is conjunct my Dad`s Mars on 9 Libra exact.
Interestingly my Mum`s Saturn is on 9 Libra, too.
My youngest brother`s Mars is on 7 Aries. Also, my Dad`s Pluto opposes my Moon exact. Sounds horrible, right?
Just, honestly, I have the most supportive parents you can imagine. IP: Logged |
Opale
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posted July 23, 2013 01:50 PM
I have the opposite situation and I'd say it really depends on the whole chart, not just one aspect. My father is a Scorpio ascendant, so obviously his Pluto is strong in his chart. It conjuncts my Mars & Jupiter at the same degree. Thank God we have other good contacts between our charts (like a Moon/Sun conjunction, and also a Venus/Moon conjunction), but to be honnest the Pluto/Mars contact is not easy. The Pluto person can be manipulative or too intense. And the Mars person will fight back. I remember my father was always trying to push me into doing things that he thought were going to be good for me but he was never interested in how I felt, it was like "YOU DO THIS", and when I said no, he'd try to manipulate me anyway, which always made the situation worse. It was always about who would have the upper hand, it was exhausting. I am an Aquarius ascendant, with Uranus very VERY strong in my chart, so I ended up leaving my family when I felt it went too far and that my father was too intrusive & his authority was too much for me. And now we're good, we talk every week, sometimes we argue but it's really not as bad as when we were living under the same roof. IP: Logged |
slowpoke
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posted August 02, 2013 10:58 AM
All parents are compatible with their children up until they turn the age of eighteen. During their growing years the parents have the power to mold their children into the best they can be. The parents can teach them how to be honest, dependable and, how to work with others in a friendly fashion. If the parent has the backbone to discipline their child, then that child will, also, learn how to respect authority figures.
For those who are so inclined, it is far more important that a parent understands their child's natal chart over a Synastry chart. The natal will suggest where the child's strengths and weakness may form. The parent is in a perfect position to guide the child into the more positive directions, not by skirting the stressful influences but by helping the child meet the challenges of those influences. Because, when the child becomes an adult, all of the influences will still be with that person. It will then be up to that adult to work with the influences accordingly.
No matter what a Synastry says before a child is 18, is a mute issue. Enjoy and nurture the child while you can, because if the Synastry suggest that the two of you are not compatible, as adults . . . the party is over at 18. Because the person is now in a position to experience independent thought and will have been somewhat influenced by the peers as well. Trust in yourself, that you have done your best.
There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting
Slowpoke
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Ceridwen
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posted August 02, 2013 11:43 AM
quote:
Originally posted by slowpoke:
[B]All parents are compatible with their children up until they turn the age of eighteen.
it would be nice if that was actually true. But evidence all over the world indicates otherwise.
(I still think though, that parents must have the maturity to rise above any issues that may come up; and many do, it is those that don´t, that worry me)
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