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sillyme
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posted July 23, 2013 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sillyme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When Composite Saturn conjuncts/opposes the personal planet of one of the partner does it make it VERY DIFFICULT for them to enjoy the relationship or give themselves freely?

Is it difficult to respect the other person and/or commit to them?

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posted July 23, 2013 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It can feel heavy & serious, yes.

I don't think it necessarily means that it's difficult to respect them but commitment may be tricky because one may feel oppressed by the energy of the relationship (or stabilized, depends on the person).

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posted July 23, 2013 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Composite Saturn in Cancer conj my Cancer Sun, Venus, Mercury, Ceres and at times I feel suffocated by my fiancée.

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posted July 23, 2013 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sillyme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks guys!

@Charlie .... how close is the orb to your planets?

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posted July 23, 2013 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sillyme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And, what happens when YOUR Saturn touches a planet/point of the Composite chart?

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charlie
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posted July 23, 2013 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's quite wide actually; 3-8 degree depending on my personal planet, but I can feel it. Either way, issues have started to pop up and I never thought I'd meet someone who's 99.9 % air and that I would out-air that person with my air singleton! He's rather clingy and insecure...I'm not.

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posted July 23, 2013 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sillyme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow that's crazy lol...I wouldn't expect that from air either.... Which planet of yours is the closest in orb to Saturn?

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posted July 23, 2013 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sillyme:
And, what happens when YOUR Saturn touches a planet/point of the Composite chart?

I guess your sense of responsibility is heigthened when it comes to the relationship.
You probaly don't take it casually (especially if said planet / angle conjuncts your Saturn).

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posted July 23, 2013 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sillyme:
wow that's crazy lol...I wouldn't expect that from air either.... Which planet of yours is the closest in orb to Saturn?

Mercury and Sun.

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posted July 23, 2013 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sillyme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I guess your sense of responsibility is heigthened when it comes to the relationship.
You probaly don't take it casually (especially if said planet / angle conjuncts your Saturn).

Okay....Some help here pls

Consider a marriage where the Composite Saturn conjuncts the guy's venus and Composite Uranus opposes his moon....But the composite DSC conjuncts his Saturn/Jupiter.....How would he feel?

Would he feel suffocated within the relationship yet the need to be responsible as a husband?

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posted July 23, 2013 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No actually I think he'd feel secure and responsible in that relationship, and any kind of change or unexpected event (Uranus) would greatly upset him and his emotional balance (opp Moon).

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posted July 24, 2013 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sillyme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's great!

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EmpressMendez
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posted July 24, 2013 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What if the aspect is seen in both birth charts?

Would the couple even feel it? I have Sun opposite Saturn in a synastry, however we both have Sun-Saturn aspects in our charts (he has the opposition, while I have the square). I haven't interacted with him for too long, but online and off it's just the norm. for me -shrugs

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posted July 24, 2013 03:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In synastry, yes, you'd feel it too.
Even if you have the aspect natally.

At least that's been my experience.

Also, note that Saturn aspects tend to come out when the relationship is "solid", not just when it's blossoming, although that's also possible.

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