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Topic: Relationship Difficulty/Burden : Only for 1 partner?
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sillyme Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 23, 2013 11:28 AM
When Composite Saturn conjuncts/opposes the personal planet of one of the partner does it make it VERY DIFFICULT for them to enjoy the relationship or give themselves freely?Is it difficult to respect the other person and/or commit to them? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4960 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 23, 2013 12:09 PM
It can feel heavy & serious, yes.I don't think it necessarily means that it's difficult to respect them but commitment may be tricky because one may feel oppressed by the energy of the relationship (or stabilized, depends on the person). IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 875 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 23, 2013 12:23 PM
I have a Composite Saturn in Cancer conj my Cancer Sun, Venus, Mercury, Ceres and at times I feel suffocated by my fiancée.
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sillyme Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 23, 2013 01:04 PM
Thanks guys!@Charlie .... how close is the orb to your planets? IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 23, 2013 01:15 PM
And, what happens when YOUR Saturn touches a planet/point of the Composite chart?IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 875 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 23, 2013 01:15 PM
It's quite wide actually; 3-8 degree depending on my personal planet, but I can feel it. Either way, issues have started to pop up and I never thought I'd meet someone who's 99.9 % air and that I would out-air that person with my air singleton! He's rather clingy and insecure...I'm not. IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 23, 2013 01:20 PM
wow that's crazy lol...I wouldn't expect that from air either.... Which planet of yours is the closest in orb to Saturn?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4960 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 23, 2013 01:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by sillyme: And, what happens when YOUR Saturn touches a planet/point of the Composite chart?
I guess your sense of responsibility is heigthened when it comes to the relationship. You probaly don't take it casually (especially if said planet / angle conjuncts your Saturn). IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 875 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 23, 2013 01:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by sillyme: wow that's crazy lol...I wouldn't expect that from air either.... Which planet of yours is the closest in orb to Saturn?
Mercury and Sun. IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 23, 2013 02:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I guess your sense of responsibility is heigthened when it comes to the relationship. You probaly don't take it casually (especially if said planet / angle conjuncts your Saturn).
Okay....Some help here pls Consider a marriage where the Composite Saturn conjuncts the guy's venus and Composite Uranus opposes his moon....But the composite DSC conjuncts his Saturn/Jupiter.....How would he feel? Would he feel suffocated within the relationship yet the need to be responsible as a husband? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4960 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 23, 2013 04:12 PM
No actually I think he'd feel secure and responsible in that relationship, and any kind of change or unexpected event (Uranus) would greatly upset him and his emotional balance (opp Moon).IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 24, 2013 12:38 AM
That's great!  IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 4315 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted July 24, 2013 01:58 AM
What if the aspect is seen in both birth charts?Would the couple even feel it? I have Sun opposite Saturn in a synastry, however we both have Sun-Saturn aspects in our charts (he has the opposition, while I have the square). I haven't interacted with him for too long, but online and off it's just the norm. for me -shrugs IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 4960 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 24, 2013 03:38 AM
In synastry, yes, you'd feel it too. Even if you have the aspect natally.At least that's been my experience. Also, note that Saturn aspects tend to come out when the relationship is "solid", not just when it's blossoming, although that's also possible. IP: Logged |