posted July 23, 2013 04:15 PM            

Since that time he would give me little smirks in the hall way and eventually we started saying hi to each other but still did not know each others names. Finally one day I sat down to have lunch with my coworkers and lo and behold, there he was. After getting introduced we immediately began teasing each other and would do so every time we saw each other though it would be during the brief passing moments. Finally my co worker told me he had a girlfriend so I started trying to keep the flirting turned off just saying hello in the hallways.

We eventually wound up in a meeting together and began talking. We hit it off immediately and are into all the same shows, movies etc. We were quoting all the same things and laughing the entire time. He is very flirty all the time. The next week I was having a rough Saturday night and he invited me over for a beer at a party at his house. We were having a great time and ended up at a bar with his friends and everything was great.

We went back to his place and he made food for us and we went to his room and were laying on his bed sharing songs and beat boxing together and just talking and laughing and around 4 am I said "I should probably go home" to which he replied "No you shouldn't walk" so I just kind of layed there and accepted that since I was quite drunk at the time. He gave me a separate blanket and I rolled over. The next thing I know he put his arm around me and pulled me in closer and it felt wonderful! I snuggled up to him and we fell asleep. I woke up at 7 am and was mortified at what I had done and left pretty quickly even though he said he wished I would stay.

Nothing happened besides cuddling but I still feel badly about what happened. He texted me and invited me out for breakfast with his friends the next day to which I declined. Then he texted me and told me he was sorry for the cuddling and that it was wrong of him but not to worry too much and I told him that it was alright and that I wasn't trying to cause any trouble for him and I wouldn't let it happen again. I saw him at work on the Monday and things were normal and friendly and we ended up having lunch together and the following day which is today. He texts me often and will say things like "I can't stop thinking about" and mention something we did when we were together.

posted July 23, 2013 04:36 PM            

Even if you do steal him, who's to say he won't meet another girl and hit it off with her? He has a pretty faulty moral character.

He should just break up with his gf if he's looking else where. Personally I think it was inappropriate of him to invite you like that.
I don't think his girlfriend would appreciate that.

You just have to decide what you're going to do.

Are you going to ask him to leave his gf for you?

Be the other woman?