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Topic: What aspects to the Moon are the ultimate deal breaker for you?
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KarkaQueen
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posted July 24, 2013 05:22 AM
  
And in general?Id say Uranus-Moon and Neptune-Moon aspects are the worse... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 24, 2013 05:57 AM
Do you mean in natal or in synastry?Natal - Moon afflicted by: Sun, Venus, Uranus and Neptune. In synastry, my Moon doesn't fear anything cause it's a survivor, so.. bring it on!
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KarkaQueen
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posted July 24, 2013 06:00 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Do you mean in natal or in synastry?Natal - Moon afflicted by: Sun, Venus, Uranus and Neptune. In synastry, my Moon doesn't fear anything cause it's a survivor, so.. bring it on!
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I'm so cappy
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posted July 24, 2013 06:35 AM
Like, you see some aspect in the chart and you automatically reject the person? That's ridiculous.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 24, 2013 06:40 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Like, you see some aspect in the chart and you automatically reject the person? That's ridiculous.
This.
I wouldn´t maybe call it ridiculous.
But there is no single aspect that could ever be a dealbreaker. And especially not in a general sense (valid for everyone).
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 24, 2013 06:50 AM
No of course not, but I'm wary of the ones I mentioned.Okay.. Moon / Venus in hard aspect in a man's chart is definitely a deal breaker for me, not gonna lie.
But that would have to be the only one, next to maybe Moon / Uranus. I know how these aspects work and, no thanks. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 24, 2013 06:57 AM
Yes, but I have Moon in aquarius - I LOVE Moon/Uranus-men  It`s the Moon/Venus-men that make me want to leave the country
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Ami Anne
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posted July 24, 2013 07:03 AM
I can tell you very specifically, Karka dear. My Moon is almost Unaspected. My Venus is Unaspected. It makes them more sensitive, I think. I cannot take a Saturn squaring either. I need warm aspects such as Moon or Jupiter trines to feel close to a person. Right away, I will feel bad aspects to my Moon or Venus in any relationship. ------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 24, 2013 07:03 AM
To each their own, Ceri!I have Moon sq Pluto-Mars and opp Saturn, can't deal with someone who's detached, superficial or too calm in their close relationships. Maybe I'll grow out of it.
Who knows.
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I'm so cappy
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posted July 24, 2013 07:04 AM
I have a Moon-Venus square. This is not nice  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
HannieBananie
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posted July 24, 2013 07:07 AM
Okay imma tell yall Pluto in the 3rd style(bluntly.)I hate men with Moon's bad aspects to their Venus & Uranus & Saturn, i want a nxgga with Moon-Pluto,Moon-Mercury,Moon-Venus good aspects or some shxt like that, ya feel me? To be honest i hate men who like skinny chicks like people with Moon/Venus Virgo/Capricorn/Aries/Gemini/possibly Scorpio Theyre bxtches with horrible taste in women. Theyre just shallow axxholes who shouldnt even date till they realize to stop being such shallow pricks and that not everywoman's gonna be a skinny bxtch or a perfectionist! What about if you get a chick preggo and she gets fat cuz shes having your crackhead azz baby? Shes not gonna be skinny after birth, Kate Middleton is an example. ------------------
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Leo moon ♥
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 24, 2013 07:09 AM
I'm so cappy,You're a girl at least.
Not saying it's easier for women but it plays out differently. My Moon is so afflicted that if someone who's into astrology ever wants to date me and looks at my chart, they'll probably change their mind, lol. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 24, 2013 07:10 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
To each their own, Ceri!
That is what I was saying. Well, I didn`t mean to criticize or invalidate your opinion or experience.
Just wanted to point out that it depends on the individual chart what may be a maybe-too-big challenge for us. Actually it is strange for me.
Moon in Aquarius - Venus in Cappy square Pluto. Try to combine that in a fulfilling relationship. 
In a way I need both - the space of Uranus and the intensity and bonding of Pluto. The thing I cannot do anything with is if someone is wishy-washy, superficial or too "smooth". IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 24, 2013 07:11 AM
^ Yes, exactly.IP: Logged |
HannieBananie
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posted July 24, 2013 07:12 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You're a girl at least.
Not saying it's easier for women but it plays out differently.My Moon is so afflicted that if someone who's into astrology ever wants to date me and looks at my chart, they'll probably change their mind, lol.
*hugs* mine is afflicted too.  My mom's crazy with all those Sun conjunctions from Virgo planets to her 0 degree Libra sun, plus she has an unaspected moon. We should make a group of afflicted moons here. ------------------
Pisces sun
Leo moon ♥
Aint nobody realer. :)
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 24, 2013 07:13 AM
Haha, yeah.Afflicted Moons, unite! We can throw a pity party together. I'm so cappy, are you in? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 24, 2013 07:15 AM
So I am going to be excluded again?Well, certainly my (except for an inconjunct to Saturn) unaspected Moon didn`t expect otherwise.
And since it is in Aquarius, it will just take it as another proof as just how SPECIAL and UNIQUE it is. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 24, 2013 07:27 AM
Ceri, you can join if you feel (or.. think) that you have a handicapped Moon. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted July 24, 2013 07:29 AM
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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 24, 2013 07:34 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ceri, you can join if you feel (or.. think) that you have a handicapped Moon.
What do you mean THINK?
I K N O W I have a handicapped Moon. Well, actually us Uranians are NEVER handicapped, we are just so much more unique than everyone else, so noone will ever understand. THAT is our tragedy. But we like to cultivate it.
But honestly? Definitely think it is a challenging Moon.
Nothing goes together.
Moon in Aquarius in the 2nd house, which is a Taurus house, and inconjunct Cancer SAturn in 8th house, which is retrograde, and the ONLY planet on the Western hemisphere (the one where you are reaching out to others).
Yes, I think I qualify.
Maybe differently than someone with a T-square to their Moon, more kind of that uneasy, uncomfortable feeling of something does`n`t sit right, but it has been nagging me all my life. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 24, 2013 07:34 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
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I'm so cappy
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posted July 24, 2013 07:36 AM
My Aqua Venus, Sun conjunct Uranus and ASC trine Uranus understand you *hug*  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
HannieBananie
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posted July 24, 2013 07:42 AM
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Pisces sun
Leo moon ♥
Aint nobody realer. :)
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 24, 2013 07:44 AM
Aw.
I have some friends with an Aqua Moon, for some reason they all seem to "struggle" in some way, emotionally.
I don't know if it's a coincidence or something else in their charts, but I've noticed there's often some.. uneasiness, yes, with that position.
The ones I've known can be pretty broody / moody actually, but in a sort of detached way.. not intense like a Scorpio Moon, but more self-denying.
I'm not sure I'm making any sense.Anyway, *hugs* to all my half-functioning ( ) Mooners! 
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Ceridwen
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posted July 24, 2013 07:47 AM
Yeah, makes sense.Oh btw did I mention that my Moon is parallel Uranus and contraparallel Pluto? I am a living contradiction. As a matter of fact this reflects my Scorpio Mother and my Aquarius father quite well. IP: Logged |
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