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Topic: Help Me Understand This Dynamic...
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starmoon
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 25, 2013 02:00 PM
  
I have a stellium in Libra of 5 planets and the planets conjunct 2 more in late degree Virgo, so basically 7 planets clustered together. I always end up with men who have a virgo pluto/uranus that conjunct my venus and it's hard for me, because I really fall for them and end up hurt. I tend to date 10 years older maximum, but have also found that even men within 4 years of me conjunct my venus. What age group would I need to be looking in to avoid this venus-pluto-uranus conjunction all the time?? I don't want this dynamic anymore and need the right age range to avoid it? I suppose it has something to do with how long pluto/uranus were in Virgo?? My current bf and I have it exact and it's very painful for me to experience. Thank you!IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 5023
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 25, 2013 02:15 PM
Why is it painful, starmoon?Have you tried dating younger men? IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 668
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posted July 25, 2013 07:39 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Why is it painful, starmoon?Have you tried dating younger men?
is that what i have to do? date younger to avoid this? it's just that regardless of what anyone says, the venus in this conjunction feels everything, i would swear by it, and when the end comes... it's heartbreaking each time because i 'feel' like i've loved them way more than they ever loved me. would like to avoid this in the future... IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted July 25, 2013 07:46 PM
yeah younger men might work for ya. how important is venus in your chart?
what aspects does it make? i have generational afflictions to personal planets in my chart i feel numb to in relationships. i wonder what causes you to be so affected like this.
(none of the aspects i have are conjunctions though) IP: Logged |
Jkitty
Knowflake Posts: 558
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted July 25, 2013 11:32 PM
Try going to http://planetwatcher.com/ and see when those planets are NOT close enough to conjunct your Venus. See what happens when you date someone without those energy triggers to your chart.IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 668
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 26, 2013 01:14 AM
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Originally posted by Jkitty:
Try going to http://planetwatcher.com/ and see when those planets are NOT close enough to conjunct your Venus. See what happens when you date someone without those energy triggers to your chart.
exactly what I was looking for!!! thank you. IP: Logged |
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