posted July 27, 2013 06:41 AM            

So, usually - the planet person feels comfortable with the 1st house person.
Though it can of course go both ways.

posted July 27, 2013 07:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Someone once put their Mars in my 1st and it made no aspects to my planets but I could feel it nonetheless, [b]although it wasn't as strongly felt as one might expect with such a configuration (like I wasn't crazily attracted to them or anything, just thought they were quite sexy).

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posted July 27, 2013 07:54 AM            

Sun in my first - I’ve never had any bad experience with these people. I’ve never met a bad Scorpio Sun. I admire these guys especially the late Scorpios and early Sags probably because I have NN in late Scorpio. My role models, lol.

Moon in my first - I can read them like a book and Scorpio Moons don’t like it, Sag Moons don’t really mind. All that tough exterior covers their vulnerable side. It feels like I make them insecure. Sometimes I get jealous of these people.

Mercury in my first - I’m a quiet person but these people can really make me talk. They know my secrets. I’ve had a very good experience with them.

Venus in my first - My favourite people. I’ve never been in relationship with anyone except them, enough said.

Mars in my first - I clash with them. They bring out my competitive side. Lot of power plays involved.

posted July 27, 2013 08:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ceri,

Did you try to communicate or was that a glitch?

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Itried to, yes, just wanting to emphasize what you wrote, how the placement itself made itself felt a little less strongly than expected.

posted July 27, 2013 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
First house (5 degree in Scorpio - 5 degree in Sag). I have Pluto, Jupiter and NN in Scorpio so when their planets conjunct my planets in 1st, situation changes according to the planets involved.

Sun in my first - I’ve never had any bad experience with these people. I’ve never met a bad Scorpio Sun. I admire these guys especially the late Scorpios and early Sags probably because I have NN in late Scorpio. My role models, lol.

Moon in my first - I can read them like a book and Scorpio Moons don’t like it, Sag Moons don’t really mind. All that tough exterior covers their vulnerable side. It feels like I make them insecure. Sometimes I get jealous of these people.

Mercury in my first - I’m a quiet person but these people can really make me talk. They know my secrets. I’ve had a very good experience with them.

Venus in my first - My favourite people. I’ve never been in relationship with anyone except them, enough said.

Mars in my first - I clash with them. They bring out my competitive side. Lot of power plays involved.

I have not really noticed the effects of outer planets in first. I only know few Saturn in Scorpios and they usually act like they are my teachers.

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There is someone who puts his Sun and Moon and MC in my 1st house and his Mercury, too.

His Sun and Moon and MC conjunct my Sun and Mercury, and his Mercury conjuncts my Mars, ASC, Neptune and NN.

He pushes quite a lot of buttons, and oftentimes puts me under considerable stress (good stress ), cause it feels like I can`t hide, like I can`t become invisible at will as I am used to (Neptune!).

posted July 27, 2013 08:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
We had a thread about Sun in the 1st in synastry and a lot of people agreed that the planet person feels at ease with the house person but not necessarily vice versa.

So, usually - the planet person feels comfortable with the 1st house person.
Though it can of course go both ways.

There could be attraction also, because the 1st house (ASC especially) represents our physical body and mannerisms, so it's quite easy to identify with someone whose ASC is in the same sign as one of your personal planets, especially if there's an actual conjunction.

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posted July 27, 2013 08:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Someone once put their Mars in my 1st and it made no aspects to my planets but I could feel it nonetheless, although it wasn't as strongly felt as one might expect with such a configuration (like I wasn't crazily attracted to them or anything, just thought they were quite sexy).

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Hey there Doux!

I was wondering, I have a synastry chart with someone where my Mars is in his first house. My Mars rules my 8th/1st House and it sextiles his 8th House ruler Sun (0° orb). His Sun overlays into my 8th House and his Moon overlays into my 1st.

My question is, how strongly are sextiles felt in synastry, in your experience?

Some people say "you won't feel that at all" and others say the opposite. I know that it depends on people's charts and what aspects they really feel but in general, is a sextile very weak beneficent energy in your experience? If it is, do you think it's strengthened in this case because both planets involved rule our 8th house cusps and are impacting each other's 1st/8th houses?

posted July 28, 2013 10:26 AM            

Looks like there are some interesting connections there in your synastry.

I think sextiles are basically a supportive influence but they're not very strongly felt *by themselves*.

In your case though, I do think it's stregthened because it's between two masculine planets and they both rule the 8th house natally - the energy created is more intense than if it were between rulers of more impersonal houses.

The fact that your Mars falls in that person's 1st house could mean that one or both of you find each other attractive on a basic, primitive level (not taking into account the aesthetics or personality traits).

Moon in 1st is almost always beneficial, especially when the man's Moon falls in the woman's 1st house, the closer the Moon is to the ASC, the stronger the emotional attraction.
Of course aspects to that Moon natally and in synastry are very important because they point to possible areas of emotional issues between the two people.

Sun in the 8th - you as the house person would experience them through the lens of the 8th, their Sun "lights up" that area for you, which becomes an area of focus (attraction / repulsion, deep emotions, healing, sexuality, secrets, taboos, and so on).
The planet person may be aware of their effect on you and react in consequence - either they'll be interested too, or kinda creeped out, haha.

I'm pretty sure you knew all that already, but oh well.

posted July 29, 2013 01:06 AM            

Thank you so much for explaining that! I swear, my mind turns to jelly sometimes (or often)!

It is definitely a pretty interesting synastry. We have both our Moons in the other's 1st and my Mars in his 1st with his Mars in my 7th. Also a whole bunch of other stuff like my Sun/Jupiter conjunct his Moon and IC.

posted July 29, 2013 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
I thought the 1st house was supposed to be quite good for romance and attraction, especially if the moon or venus of a partner falls there. I'm rather surprised to hear the house person feels discomfort.

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posted July 29, 2013 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
How about Jupiter falling in the first house?

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posted July 30, 2013 05:39 AM            

Moon 15 aries
DC 15 aries
Sun 16 aries
venus 16 aries
Mercury 17 aries

posted July 30, 2013 07:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ Bahaha, yep, that could be a side-effect.

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My Jupiter trines my ASC actually.

We have Jupiter conjunct Jupiter. His is in his 1st house,mine falls in his 1st house too. His Jupiter falls in my 4th house.