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Gemmy
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posted July 28, 2013 11:31 PM
  
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Odette
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posted July 28, 2013 11:45 PM
If they are celebrities how do we know that she never got over her ex? Did she mention something in an interview?I don't think either of these charts look like the charts of men who this woman would not get over in 10 years. She has a sizeable Aries stellium which includes her Sun - so I don't see it. Aries people don't easily get hooked on someone for 10 years. It's a rare thing to happen and she has no Cancer placements.
Maybe if one of them had a Scorpio stellium ^^ (as well as the Sun in Scorpio).. or Leo....
But with these two... I doubt it! I think the relationship with the second guy would be a much better relationship overall... and I doubt they would ever break up on bad terms.. If they did break up - they would stay friends, so that can't be the guy she dated 10 yrs ago.
I will guess that the first guy is the one she dated years ago and I'll also guess that she is glad to be rid of him  IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted July 28, 2013 11:51 PM
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Jkitty
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posted July 29, 2013 12:24 AM
The second guy, definitely. Look at her angle rulers: Venus, Pluto (Mars), Moon and Saturn. Her Venus is on his Antivertex, her Pluto on his Jupiter, her Moon on his Mars, her Saturn is aspected by his Venus and Mercury. Also is Chiron is on her ASC. Maybe she saw him as someone who could bring her healing, but it hurt him too much to be around her?IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted July 29, 2013 12:42 AM
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What's so wrong with the 1st guy?
She would just get sick and tired of being dampened by all his water. He has too many Cancer placements squaring her Aries. The fact that Saturn is in his Cancer-mix makes things *much* worse.
She would feel worn down after some time and generally unhappy. If he is her current bf (which I doubt!)... they'll probably break up.
The thing is - with Uranus having transited over her Aries planets.. if this Cancer guy was in her life at present - she would've already dumped him.. So that's why I don't think he is. This is my opinion anyway - but I am partially biased since I'm an Aries myself and I don't do well with Cancer men I do see a strong connection with the Libra guy... but as I was saying, I think they would stay friends if they had broken up.
The way you explained it in the first post - it sounded like they broke up 10 yrs ago and did not stay "in touch"..
Can you give us a hint about that? Did they still stay friends after the break-up? IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted July 29, 2013 12:53 AM
Also..... The Libra guy has Mars conj Uranus on her Scorpio Moon. He will not let her get away that easily lolI strongly doubt these two people broke up and spent 10 yrs apart.
They just seem too close-knit for that to happen. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted July 29, 2013 01:23 AM
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SaturnineMoth
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posted July 29, 2013 01:25 AM
Before my tired mind frizzes out from looking back and forth tryin to guestimate degrees in the synastries... I believe the fated connection is with the 1st fella. Things may be rosier with the second, but that doesn't hold a candle to the experiences and struggles shared with the first. Chemistry and karma, I'm going to stick with that. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted July 29, 2013 01:53 AM
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LionFish
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posted July 29, 2013 02:06 AM
I would say the first guy is the guy she can't forget about. Especially if it was an unrequited type of love. Her sun trine his Neptune, her Venus opp his Uranus. Her saturn sextile his Sun..Venus opp her Moon/Neptune conjunction with Neptune almost exact. All very powerful and emotion producing aspects, but not very stable. His Venus trines Pluto, her DSC ruler..I kind of agree that a Cancer might end up irritating an Aries woman, but what about a Cancer with a Gemini Venus and Leo Mars? That may not be so bad. And if it was a short lived relationship and she's been loving him from afar, he may not have had the opportunity to annoy her  IP: Logged |
Lava Flower
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posted July 29, 2013 02:08 AM
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
Before my tired mind frizzes out from looking back and forth tryin to guestimate degrees in the synastries... I believe the fated connection is with the 1st fella. Things may be rosier with the second, but that doesn't hold a candle to the experiences and struggles shared with the first. Chemistry and karma, I'm going to stick with that.
My vote is for the 1st as well. So sad.. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted July 29, 2013 03:02 AM
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what about a Cancer with a Gemini Venus and Leo Mars? That may not be so bad.
It's still bad lol It was for me anyway... But in this case - it's extra bad because she is not just any Aries. She has a lot of Aries.. and he has a stellium in Cancer - and Saturn is involved.. so he would drag her energy levels waaay down. I hope he is the ex ^ because he does not seem good for her.
I was just wondering - why would she be into him at all if he was the ex?
I would think she'd be happy he is out of her life. But who knows? These are just charts. People have their individuals souls. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted July 29, 2013 03:20 AM
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Gemmy
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posted July 29, 2013 03:27 AM
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Lava Flower
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posted July 29, 2013 03:50 AM
Who are/were the celebrities involved? Especially wondering who the female is..IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted July 29, 2013 04:20 AM
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Odette
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posted July 29, 2013 04:57 AM
Oh Wow! That's interesting! I actually know literally nothing about Mariah's love life lol
Why are you saying this is sad?
I mean.. Did she say she was sad about this Derek guy? Which of her songs were about him? I hadn't heard of him prior to this thread. I live in Aussie, so I'm not familiar with all the US baseball players etc.
I looked him up just now and I don't see anything particularly appealing about him *shrug*... She has great synastry with her husband. There would be a lot of sexual attraction there as well as a great mental connection.
I would think she'd be happy.. Was there something about this in US media? Like reports saying Mariah is unhappy in her marriage? IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted July 29, 2013 05:13 AM
No,I'm not saying she's unhappy.I'm sure she is. I just can't imagine loving someone for that long,without them loving me back.I'm in this situation now,and it's only been 1 year.So it must've been difficult.
I just started this thread cause I've been curious about this for a while and started questioning the validity of synastry/composite.So no breaking news,just curious. 
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