posted July 31, 2013 12:07 PM            

I was reading an article on Astrolada.com about being a late bloomer in love and her technique to check how, when and where love will strike you. Now... if you look at my personal chart I am a late bloomer. First off I'm a Cappy Sun/Neptune conjunct my ASC at 29 degrees Sag and a empty 7th house in Gemini. And her technique was this; look at the ruler of you 7th house which in my case (technically) is Mercury, (but as I am the 29 degree, I'm very close to Cancer too.); and look at how the planet ruler is aspected in your chart. How it connects with the planets around it will tell you what the best time is to open yourself up to having a great relationship is (I especially checked mars, as I am a woman). My Mercury is in my 12th house, and just for the sake of it, (I took a look at cancer, my moon is in my 10th).

The relationship I'm in now feels very much like the Mercury relationship I am supposed to have according to my DC, BUT!!! I feel like all of the good relationships, I've (almost) had in my life have always slipped through my fingers, and they have a very Moon/Cancer like feel, full of comfort. Not to say that my relationship now isn't good, it's just a totally different expression. My Mercury has a lot of aspects to it, including my Saturn conjunct 10 degrees away, my Uranus conjunct 1 degree away, and a Jupiter/Mars conjunction in Pisces square my Sag Mercury. There's a lot going on! My moon on the other hand has all sextiles and trines. So my question is this... Am I locked into to this 29th degree of longing to be a Cancer but I'll never quite be able to escape the Gemini? Or am I a mixture of the two because I am on the cusp? Are the gentle Moon like relationships I crave always going to be just out of reach? Or am I capable of activating both?

And since my Mercury is in my 12th does that mean A) Marriage isn't going to happen, (I'm engaged now but I feel like we are never actually going to get married) or B) I will have that relationship later in my life. And astrologer once told me not to get married till I was 35 and it felt like she wanted to say, WAIT LONGER, lol, but she was trying not to make me too unhappy. Lol.

But here is what is also true, when I am truly happy and in love with someone, it is a career driven relationship, (I'm Moon in the 10th in Scorpio) and I feel sooo, emotionally fulfilled.

What do you think? The relationship I have now is almost at an end, (I can just feel it, but it's a good thing). Anybody else out there have any 29th degree vibes going on?

posted July 31, 2013 01:19 PM            

I also have Neptune oppos Sun

posted July 31, 2013 02:19 PM            

You do have a similar feeling to your chart, but do you feel that your DC is more Cancer like in it qualities or more Leo? Do you wish you could express those Leo tendencies more in your love life? And also where does you sun fall in your chart vs. your moon? Is one more afflicted than the other? Do you feel like you have relationships that are more reflected by the sun or the moon in feelings? I know a lot of questions. Sorry, please oblige me with whatever information you are comfortable with.

I just so curious about cusps and how they play out when it's angles and not planets. planets I understand, it's easier to say your can express both qualities, angles is a bit trickier to me.

I fall for Cancer moons so quickly...

Baaa`

posted July 31, 2013 02:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
Hi KarkaQueen,

You do have a similar feeling to your chart, but do you feel that your DC is more Cancer like in it qualities or more Leo? Do you wish you could express those Leo tendencies more in your love life? And also where does you sun fall in your chart vs. your moon? Is one more afflicted than the other? Do you feel like you have relationships that are more reflected by the sun or the moon in feelings? I know a lot of questions. Sorry, please oblige me with whatever information you are comfortable with.

I just so curious about cusps and how they play out when it's angles and not planets. planets I understand, it's easier to say your can express both qualities, angles is a bit trickier to me.

I fall for Cancer moons so quickly...

Baaa`

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Nope, I attract Cancerian men easily for romantic relationships. I don't like Leo too much to be honest for romantic partnering. Pisces Moon men are my favorite however.
My Moon is in Taurus conjunct IC and my Sun is conjunct the DSC, it sounds signifcant but I dont know what it could mean

posted July 31, 2013 06:04 PM            

Anyways ...I'm kind of obsessed right now trying to understand cusp angles. All my boyfriends angles are in 29 degree's (mutuable signs), even his vertex is conj his DC in 28 pisces.

Which means His AC is 29 Virgo and he has all opposite houses. all his ex's have been fire signs which would suit his 7th house placements. But I'm a pisces like his 7th house ruler. His DC also inconjuncts his sun exact.

He has Neptune at 27 degrees sag in third house, conj his IC by 2 deg, and square his DC. his Venus/mars fall in 12th as well. Any ideas what this means for him?