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Topic: Libra man is too nice
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Liliya
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posted July 31, 2013 10:51 PM
  
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starrystratosphere
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posted July 31, 2013 11:03 PM
Hes a libra sun annd cancer moon?forget it, he will never talk about anyone he considers a friend or good person with disrespect! Does not matter if shes his ex. You should not let that bother you. It does not change what you have between each other. He's prob just a respectful person and you should admire that instead of being insecure. If you keep giving him signs of this insecurity that may result in trust issues. -im libra rising and cancer moon. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted July 31, 2013 11:06 PM
My brother does this. His ex girlfriend and him broke up and got back together many times. Although he's completely moved on now, if you bring his ex up, he'll jump to her defense. I can understand how it would annoy you but it's not such a bad thing to see the best in others. It's only really bad when you see the best and ignore their worst. Libra is all about the light side, the surface, things that you can see and balancing those things. That is why Scorpio picks up where Libra leaves off and delves into the darkness, bringing up everything that isn't on the surface. If I was in your situation, I would first ask myself if he does this about everyone or just his ex. I would really try to find out if I'm just paying attention to the times when his ex comes up and not all the other times he becomes the "knight in shining armour." If it's only about his ex, I would be a little more concerned and would probably discuss the issue with him. If this is something that really bothers you, go ahead and bring it up, it's your right to do so! Don't hide your frustration because that might lead to a bigger issue later. Be open and respectful, I'm sure his Libran way will appreciate that! IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted July 31, 2013 11:09 PM
Well, Libras are the people pleasers of the zodiac and I think it will be hard to pin down a libra with Sag venus. That Cancer moon may make him nostalgic every time someone mentions her and Sag venus may make him proud about how he conquered her hence the knight in the shining armour behaviour and he has got Leo Mars to shine more, I can imagine the scene, lol. But you’ve got Sag Moon which could make you understand his Sag in Venus tendencies. I think it could either be his Cancer moon trying to be sympathetic towards his ex or his Libra Sun + Sag Venus + Leo Mars trying to conquer her again.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted July 31, 2013 11:21 PM
Hello Liliya! Welcome to LL  ------------------
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 31, 2013 11:33 PM
Hi Liliya,I will give you some friendly advice. QUIT MENTIONING HER!
Please! You are just trying to get a reaction from him. Forget about her, focus on the two of you! IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted August 01, 2013 12:13 PM
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Kerosene
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posted August 01, 2013 12:25 PM
Hmmmmmmmm I agree with what others have mentioned!I'd like to point out my dad has a leo sun, venus in virgo, and leo mars too.
He loves all the attention  He gets annoyed when people are surrounding my mother who is a gemini sun, aries venus, and leo mars. I have a sneaking suspicion you want all attention and are a bit jealous! People are drawn to air signs because of their sociable and amiable nature. IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted August 01, 2013 01:01 PM
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 01, 2013 01:07 PM
Liliya,
It sounds like you are trying to get him to say something negative about the girl and he clearly doesn't want to, then you get offended and say he is 'too nice.' Maybe he is just more evolved, has better things to do than just sit there thinking of insults?
You should reconsider your motivations but I understand you were in a Mars/Pluto mode when you posted.
You said you don't feel insecure about your relationship but if that were completely true, you wouldn't care if he defended her.IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted August 01, 2013 01:07 PM
You should find it admirable that he doesn't talk badly about her. You should always try to notice these things when you're dating someone. I agree also with the other poster, just stop bringing her up. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 01, 2013 01:18 PM
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Liliya
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posted August 01, 2013 01:45 PM
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Liliya
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posted August 01, 2013 01:46 PM
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 01, 2013 01:57 PM
The situation is kinda complex, in that case. It's not a matter of what he is saying as much as you just don't want to have anything to do with her. You just wish to move on with your lives, forget about her, and just focus on what is happening now. He won't let that happen. Maybe he likes drama?IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted August 01, 2013 02:32 PM
I think I may have over-blown the whole situation. He's very nice and kind to everyone. I am a bit independent, so ,m aybe sometimes it is his way to bring out my reaction.
We never fight or argue. In 2 years we had just 1 fight, because I forgot him at a party and left with our friends. I thought he was following us, while he was waiting there... Big misunderstanding. Other than that it's all light hearted. Except for me, trying to analyse too much, while I should just relax and go with the flow  Venus sq Uranus in my Natal is being stimulated this way, probably haha After all, this is my longest relationship o.O I'm still learning. That's why I am so happy, that I posted. I feel a lot better. Thanks everyone who replied. PS. I love Libras!!!! Wish I could write a poem or a song, or something creative for you, lovely people haha IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 01, 2013 02:42 PM
Sorry if I overreacted I just don't believe people can ever be too nice, probably because I have Libra rising lol. I wish everyone were always nice all the time It's like when people only respond to others when they are being jerks, ignore them when they are being nice and then they say, "you have to be a jerk or no one likes you." I've heard people say this. IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted August 01, 2013 02:56 PM
Haha, totally understand you. It is nice to be nice.
I hate drama, confrontation, and always escape when the situation heats up in the company I am in. I'm like a sponge - I absorb situations, moods. I love easy-going and open people without drama, stress, secrets, negativity. Libras are great. Obviously, there are bad situations in everybody's life, but Libras don't blame their failures on everyone else. I wish I had Libra Asc or Venus, or both IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 01, 2013 06:20 PM
^^I know, I feel the same about the Pisces!IP: Logged |
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