posted August 01, 2013 06:34 AM            

What happens in Scorpions ? What form this energy helping /pleasing takes place? I am talking about frustration you feel when you can not help.

Most of the time I as Scorpio would help other people I can but I also have Virgo and Libra planets. I would like to know other Scorpions what do you experience? Do you struggle with same guilt as somebody who has Virgo or Libra?

OR Is your attitude more of being self assured and knowing you are fair giver and somehow do you justify in your head?

posted August 01, 2013 07:54 AM            

But it depends on how much I care about the person and the type of help needed.

I get frustrated if I can't help a friend, especially if it's about something practical (I guess that's the Virgo) like with money or a particular situation that's "physical".

When it comes to emotional problems, I used to be very involved in people's emotional lives, to the point of exhausting myself trying to be everyone's shrink.
I don't really do that anymore, and I don't feel bad about it.

I do give advice, but I'm more direct in my approach, because I know I can't help someone if they're unwilling to help themselves.

So I give my opinion on something - I usually don't sugarcoat things and tell it like I see it, and then leave it at that.

I've changed a lot and I guess that's a normal process, there comes a time when you get quite tired of people's problems, so you just stop paying much attention to them.

posted August 01, 2013 10:16 AM            

In my ideal world, people would use their brains and noone would complain about nothing-including myself

posted August 01, 2013 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I don't really think a Scorpio would be frustrated when the person cannot help/please others unless they have many planets in Libra. I don't think they care much about being liked, Libra relies upon other people(relationships, pleasing people) to remain happy whereas in Scorpio's case they are happy when they can meet their expectations, their happiness depends upon their own self. I don't think Virgo really likes to please people, they are happy when they can provide service for others but it is about being useful rather than pleasing others. With Scorpio the process is usually internal.

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