posted August 04, 2013 04:16 PM            

A little background, I met this Gemini man back in April. We only chit chatted here and there but not much. Then some time in May things started to really ramp up. He was calling me and texting me and we established that we liked each other. BUT, instead of rushing into things as he says he'd normally do he said he wanted to try something different and take it slow. One particular reason was because he had just obtained full custody of his baby boy sometime last year and he said he wanted his focus to be on his boy, but that he liked me a lot and just take things slow.

I didn't have a problem with this at all as I respect him for stepping up and raising his son on his own. But then after we had a really nice time hanging out one Friday night, that's when things started to wane. But after a very heart felt talk I understood that sometimes he just gets kind of down and wants to be alone, but that he still likes me. This was back in June.

Well fast forward to now and most of the initiating of conversations I have to start. I don't hear from him at all. Most of the time when I text him I get no reply. He told me that he'll read his messages and just won't. The last time we talked on the phone (for like 4 hrs) I asked him if he wants me to just leave him alone..and he says no. But that was like a month ago. Now I'm feeling a little different like he doesn't want to be bothered with me or that he's lost interest. If you haven't noticed I'm one that likes to be reassured (not constantly though).

I do tend to have a habit of imagining the feelings of others towards me (which are usually negative) and this may be the case. I really don't want to keep asking if he still has feelings for me (and I don't) because I don't want to get on his nerves. I've met his mom, step-dad, and grandma and they all say they've heard great things about me. He's told me that I'm the women he's been seeking for a long time, because I'm responsible, I'm nice and he knows I wouldn't treat him like any of his exes did. But despite all of that, I get the feeling that he doesn't like me anymore or that I should just leave him alone. Last week I didn't contact him at all (which was really hard) and nothing from him. I've heard that if you don't hear from a Gemini for a week, then he's probably not interested anymore because they love to talk. He's told me though that sometimes he'd often ignore his mom and his friends as well. But for all I know he could be lying and just telling me that.

I know he must respect me on some level to tell me that if we jumped into something now, it wouldn't last and he wouldn't be a loving boyfriend. But at the same time, he's also making it very difficult to just be a friend to him.

I've been wondering if I should just give up on it and just move on. But when I try to I'll be good for about a week and then I'll send him a little message on fb...he replies..and then I'm right back where I started over analyzing everything and obsessing about it (privately of course). Do you know he even told me once not to over analyze our situation...but I do it any. I'm going to post our charts as I'm hoping someone could please give me some insight into this so I can have some sort of closure if needed.

Thank you.

Mine