posted August 04, 2013 08:41 PM            

What do you find to be romantic? What does your partner do to make you feel appreciated?

A clean home? A cooked meal when you get home from work?

posted August 04, 2013 08:49 PM            

Oh wait, I'm not a guy. Dang it.

Umm.. Well, honestly, it's different for men and women and there are so many things to take into account - where's his Venus? Aspects to Moon & Venus?

Virgo Moons usually like practicality, actions, the tangible. We're physical creatures (Earth sign) and like sensuality, but aren't too fond of crazy verbal or public displays of affection.
Doing chores and all that jazz is definitely a plus, though!

posted August 04, 2013 09:38 PM            

*checks NM's chart*

Oh.. :shocked:

Well, she's got a Sag Sun.. and God knows Sags are full of crazy.
Aaand looks like her Moon squares Neptune - talk about a delusional "artist" (oopsie, sorry if I inadvertently offended you).

posted August 04, 2013 09:56 PM            

big smooches ..*here* ..and.. *here*

posted August 04, 2013 11:03 PM            

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Doux Rêve: Well, she's got a Sag Sun.. and God knows Sags are full of crazy.

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posted August 04, 2013 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
She's got a whopping five planets in Sagittarius...that's 5 times the "full of crazy"!

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*snicker*
My husband's Sag rising is quite enough, ha.

Well...I am a chick after all, but I do have a Virgo moon.

Honestly, what makes me the happiest is a really stimulating conversation about something that I like...lots of analysis, someone who is clever and witty.

Affection has to be forthcoming physically, but not overbearing. More like what you think of as the definition of "affection". Not groping or fawning, just...almost Venus/Libra in essence (and I have very little of that in my chart).

All very difficult for my husband to grasp with the Leo sun/Sag rising/afflicted Gemini Saturn, but we have a lot of karmic stuff in our chart and the Venus trine Sun thing, so it works.

posted August 05, 2013 01:09 AM            

For example, one virgo moon may be very particular about the way that they like their tea to be served, and although their loved one had made them some tea to be nice, they made a number of missteps, like not putting it in the cup they usually use, putting too much sugar, etc, its these small things that begin to irritate them. For fear of sounding naggy virgo moons might not vocalize what irritates them which can make it hard when trying to appease them.

posted August 05, 2013 01:29 AM            

God yes, let us help with something, and give you advice!

And I can absolutely identify with the little things, like too much sugar in the coffee (even when someone is trying to be kind), and similar idiosyncrasies.

posted August 05, 2013 03:29 AM            

Well words don't really mean too much to me, because I see it as being a little superficial; Actions are required!

Having a clean home and being made a meal is nice, but for me, that wouldn't always work.

From my experience, I would like someone who can communicate but not dominate; and maybe your partner is the same, LionFish!

Just make sure you give him attention, if he's lacking it; make him feel reassured, give him a big hug.
I also agree, buy him small gifts, they don't have to be expensive gifts, but need to be useful to him in someway, not just anything

posted August 05, 2013 06:44 AM            

I actually didn't include the need for great conversation because I thought it was my Gemini ASC, but come to think of it, Virgo is ruled by Mercury, so communication is a must.
I don't know about others but if my partner doesn't talk to me much, I tend to feel ignored and not important to them.
Talking and sharing ideas is vital.
Talking about trivial stuff won't do it. I need something stimulating that requires some analysing and probing (though that could be the Mercury in Scorpio).

Oh, yes, check his Mercury sign! That's his Moon's dispositor, so it will give a clearer picture of what he's like and what he needs to feel cared for.

Also, if you remember the *details* about something I said or did, or how my personality works, that's +100 pts for you.
Good memory always impresses me in people.

And like the others said, little things that make me feel special to you and not just a random someone; actions > words!
Little gifts are great but if it's too much I'll become suspicious, lol.

posted August 05, 2013 08:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Here I am! I'm your savior!

Oh wait, I'm not a guy. Dang it.

Umm.. Well, honestly, it's different for men and women and there are so many things to take into account - where's his Venus? Aspects to Moon & Venus?

Virgo Moons usually like practicality, actions, the tangible. We're physical creatures (Earth sign) and like sensuality, but aren't too fond of crazy verbal or public displays of affection.
Doing chores and all that jazz is definitely a plus, though!

Where are your Moon & Venus?

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Haha thanks for coming to my rescue Doux!!

His Venus is @ 10'53 of Aquarius in his 8H. It's conjunct his Sun/Merc, trine chiron, sextile Saturn, square Pluto, and qunincunx his Moon.

His Moon is @ 13'47 of Virgo in his 3H. Boy does he love to talk. I don't have a cell phone at the moment and it drives him absolutely crazy not being able to talk to me all day But I diverge.. I'm good at that lol Aspects to his Moon:
biquintile Sun, square Uranus and in a t-square with Saturn/Chiron..and again, that quincunx from Venus.

My Venus is @ 8'23" of Aries in my 9H and my Moon is @ 24'39" of Taurus in my 10H.

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
...a clean home and dinner ready is pretty nice, but also leaving them little gifts too! Send them a flower at work for example!

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being just forward and grabby enough will fluster them! In a good way. But too often will make them nervous around you.

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Do things for them or that they wanted done before they have to ask you to.

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@Orange and Doux, you guys crack me up

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Originally posted by Violets:
Honestly, what makes me the happiest is a really stimulating conversation about something that I like...lots of analysis, someone who is clever and witty.

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My fiance is a chatterbox and loves being talked WITH not to. If that makes any sense. Like, we don't "take turns" in conversation. Usually he can't hold back what it is he has to say long enough for me to finish my sentence. But he loves to talk about anything either of us might have read or watched. Especially if it has to do with history or comedy. I feel like I'm on my toes all the time with him, but it's a good thing.

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Affection has to be forthcoming physically, but not overbearing. More like what you think of as the definition of "affection". Not groping or fawning, just...almost Venus/Libra in essence (and I have very little of that in my chart).

All very difficult for my husband to grasp with the Leo sun/Sag rising/afflicted Gemini Saturn

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Bahaha I understand your husband's side..

I'm a Leo Rising/Pisces Sun with a Sag Mars in my 5th house and an Aries Venus in my 9th.. did I mention I love attention?

posted August 05, 2013 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
For example, one virgo moon may be very particular about the way that they like their tea to be served, and although their loved one had made them some tea to be nice, they made a number of missteps, like not putting it in the cup they usually use, putting too much sugar, etc, its these small things that begin to irritate them.

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Orignially posted by anonymidarkness:
I usually let them help me. That seems to make them happy. They don't really ask for anything even when they want it so I think giving things they want as gifts would make them happy.

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The letting them help you thing seems to ring very true for him. If I ever make him feel like I don't need his help or his input it sort of...deflates him. I do my absolute best not to do this to him. If I ask for his help and figure out the problem while he's helping me, I still let him assist me because I know it would kill him inside if I was like "hey I need you!...Oh, never mind."

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Originally posted by Sven555:
Well words don't really mean too much to me, because I see it as being a little superficial; Actions are required!

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From my experience, I would like someone who can communicate but not dominate; and maybe your partner is the same, LionFish!

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Just make sure you give him attention, if he's lacking it; make him feel reassured, give him a big hug.
I also agree, buy him small gifts, they don't have to be expensive gifts, but need to be useful to him in someway, not just anything

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He's definitely not lacking in physical attention. I don't constantly grope him (although I would if I were allowed ) but I do touch him when I walk by, or kiss his cheek/neck for no reason other than I can't resist. I've had to learn to control myself and not be over the top with my physical affections. For the first 5 months we were dating I was sitting in his lap, I've since realized, he needs a bit more space than that lol

posted August 05, 2013 08:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Okay so he needs a lot of attention / reassurance, for sure.
And it comes as no surprise that he's so into communication with a 3rd house Moon and a stellium in Aquarius (they loooove talking).

Your Moon in Taurus is a good match for the Virgo even though they're not trine by orb.
You both share a practical side and a love of physicality, although he may be more aloof with the Aqua + Uranus square - maybe he lives a bit too much in his own head, a bit detached for an Earth Moon because of the Air influence.
That could frustrate your more sensual Taurus Moon & passionate Aries Venus..
But hey you have Venus sextile Venus, even though they're not exactly compatible, it's still a flowing aspect so I'm sure you can understand each other with some efforts.

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