posted August 06, 2013 05:31 PM            

When I read about Gemini men and the classic complaints that they are unstable or changeable etc Its funny.. because those are things I like about them. It doesn't bother me at all that they are 'unstable'. I just think they're fun to be around. They're often naturally hilarious as well - so they crack me up.
I have Mercury sq Uranus in my chart so there is something about people that are high-strung and mentally hyper - that I really like. It just puts me in a good mood. It might seem annoying to some.. I don't know.. But I like it.

posted August 07, 2013 03:13 AM            

One of which is what are the major differences from a Lunar Gemini Man vs a Sun Gemini Man?
I'm Leo Sun, and Libra Rising, with Virgo Mer-Mars-Venus.
I've often been accused of playing games which, looking back I suppose I may have. At the time, I had no conscious effort to do so. I had no specific evil I was planning and plotting out. I find with my Gemini Moon my mind is SOOOOOOO restless! I need continuous stimulation, especially learning which can be just watching forensic shows while I type this. LOL I don't know if it's the Leo, or Gemini or what.... but many times when getting more serious with a woman I will go hot and cold. Again, I don't think about it like, "Next week I won't talk to her". Some of it is unconsciously "testing" her to see how serious she is for something more to make sure I'M not getting played. Stupid I know, I admit. Also, my mind is just so friggin bouncy I never know where it's going to rest at. I may think something totally different tomorrow than I do today. Once I've settled though, that's it. I'm hers and only hers and I don't go back and forth.(LEO?)I personally don't lie or cheat or any of that. But my honesty can be too much if my opinion is asked.
One thing though, and this is nothing to be proud of. If I've decided that someone has become expendable to me which is easy if it's a newer friendship (1-3 years or so) I can just turn outright evil. Having an intuition, and instinct of what words hurt a particular person. Sometimes, with romantic relationships I may do it as a way of making it black or white instead of trying to backtrack to friendship because I'm incapable of that for quite a while. It's nothing to be proud of by any means and I don't think it out, it just happens.

I'm still friends with a few even after having said some pretty rotten things. Except one woman at work. I think she wishes death on me on a nightly basis.

So I personally don't have an issue with hating on them. I can put myself in the other shoes but I just wanted to point out that it may or may not be deliberate. We just might be natural A-holes. LOL!

posted August 07, 2013 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Lianee:
Let's go back to basics!
I've searched the forum and only found really old post (like from 2011), so guys, it would be awesome if you shared Your stories and expierences with them! Try to include their mars/venus signs!

Personally I dated tons of them (not my fault, they just always get into my way), but my brand new gem that I laid my eye on is different! He's got CANCER in moon, venus and mars, pretty crazy, right? I never met a gemini with such a strong cancer influence in the chart, so I'm pretty curious to getting to know every single piece about this cookie BUT I bet, he's gonna be anything but loyal for long-term, and You know my triple taurus and scorpio rising won't stand it

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posted August 07, 2013 03:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Lianee:
Oh hun, don't loose hope, honestly! There are amazing guys out there (gemini included ;p). In my expierence gem suns with taurus venus are totally great. Look out for that. But overall, in my opinion, it's not that they are liars or cheaters. It's just that if they're not handled properly (by You), they show off that fickle/****** side of them. But overall, let's hope that he was just having some crazy impulse goin' on tonight. It's always worth to wait till the morning after and see what's the best thing to do next. Ok, sorry, I just can't say too much of bad stuff about them, too many memories with solar geminis

EDIT: That was about sun, but when it comes to moon I HATE THOSE WITH THE MOST PASSIONATE HATRED THAT EXISTS IN THIS WORLD. wow, that was intense haha

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posted August 07, 2013 04:11 AM            

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We just might be natural A-holes. LOL!

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No way!!!!!! I love Leos and Lunar Geminis and coincidentally, many Lunar Gemini Leos.

If you want to see a real a-hole - go to a Pisces lol

posted August 07, 2013 04:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:

All I can say is that I had the absolute biggest crush on one. He told me he felt the same way. We both were in relationships but couldn't stay away from each other I guess. All though I'm not very proud nor do I like to brag about but we slept together and had been a few times over the past 3 almost 4 years. He would get in really weird moods and would stop talking to me for a year and come back. Now he's stopped talking to me all together is ignoring and showing me nothing but his true colors. I never ever want anything else to do with a gemini man ever again. From what I've learned from a few they like to play game and no matter what always seem to snake their way back into your life if you let them. They never know what they want

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posted August 07, 2013 04:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Zander916:
I'm a Lunar Gemini man and I'm all good with you ladies (assuming you're all ladies. HA)hating on us. LOL
Everyone is different and has a different chart of course but I'd like to share a few things with you.
I'm also far from any Astrological expert so I may have a few questions also.

One of which is what are the major differences from a Lunar Gemini Man vs a Sun Gemini Man?
I'm Leo Sun, and Libra Rising, with Virgo Mer-Mars-Venus.
I've often been accused of playing games which, looking back I suppose I may have. At the time, I had no conscious effort to do so. I had no specific evil I was planning and plotting out. I find with my Gemini Moon my mind is SOOOOOOO restless! I need continuous stimulation, especially learning which can be just watching forensic shows while I type this. LOL I don't know if it's the Leo, or Gemini or what.... but many times when getting more serious with a woman I will go hot and cold. Again, I don't think about it like, "Next week I won't talk to her". Some of it is unconsciously "testing" her to see how serious she is for something more to make sure I'M not getting played. Stupid I know, I admit. Also, my mind is just so friggin bouncy I never know where it's going to rest at. I may think something totally different tomorrow than I do today. Once I've settled though, that's it. I'm hers and only hers and I don't go back and forth.(LEO?)I personally don't lie or cheat or any of that. But my honesty can be too much if my opinion is asked.
One thing though, and this is nothing to be proud of. If I've decided that someone has become expendable to me which is easy if it's a newer friendship (1-3 years or so) I can just turn outright evil. Having an intuition, and instinct of what words hurt a particular person. Sometimes, with romantic relationships I may do it as a way of making it black or white instead of trying to backtrack to friendship because I'm incapable of that for quite a while. It's nothing to be proud of by any means and I don't think it out, it just happens.

I'm still friends with a few even after having said some pretty rotten things. Except one woman at work. I think she wishes death on me on a nightly basis.

So I personally don't have an issue with hating on them. I can put myself in the other shoes but I just wanted to point out that it may or may not be deliberate. We just might be natural A-holes. LOL!

EDIT: The woman who most likely wishes death on me. It was a complicated friendship/relationship. So complicated that I don't know which it was. LOL! What happened is, I began to feel played and used to feed her low self-esteem, rather than appreciated for who I am. Looking back, I think I was wrong, but at the time and believing that, I just went from nice to pure evil just like a switch. Which, it took me contemplating for 3 months about what was really going on, but of course she didn't know that. To her, it was just nice guy... evil guy. To me, there was several weeks of analyzing behind it.

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posted August 07, 2013 12:30 PM            

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Originally posted by geea:
@lianee, i hate no one and i dont intend to.
Sorry for my rant, no one here has to take my own experiences personally.

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posted August 07, 2013 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Lianee:
I ain't master either. But overall, I think in any sign, moon is way stronger than sun, esp. when dating/in relationship. I can't tell for myself, because I got sun+moon in taurus (yep, both haha). Again, I think it just depends on the person. Astro gives a good insight, but still it's not like 100% true in my opinion at least ;p

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Ah yeah. That makes sense. I used to say that I couldn't see the Leo in me, but I do.

I've never really known a Taurus that I'm aware of.
OH! I take that back! There's a woman at work who is Taurus and we get along great! I could see it going downhill fast in a dating situation but neither of us has that intention.
Interesting note: I get along EXCELLENT with Gemini Sun Women, but not Gemini Sun Men. My best friend however, is also a Lunar Gemini.

posted August 07, 2013 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Lianee:
hun, I don't think I even written that You do ;p I'm the one that hates lunar geminis haha. Sorry for misunderstanding, and this is the perfect thread to write everything connected with geminis, I only wanted to cheer You up a bit

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posted August 07, 2013 09:06 PM            

Him: "you're too serious and sober minded, you need to lighten up. I don't understand the way you relate"

Me: "and you're too lighthearted, impulsive and all over the place. I don't understand you either!"

posted August 08, 2013 02:08 AM            

@Barbiegirl19
Well... I can't just speak for him or anyone and he's sun, I'm lunar. But, I'm willing to bet he's just as confused and miserable about it. It's not fun! Sometimes I'd gladly pay someone a few hundred bucks if they could just make my mind turn off for a week and give me a break! We have multitasking minds and therefore, it's simply impossible to do ANYTHING distracting enough to blur out those issues that bother us. It's there, always, no matter what else we're doing. I'm sure he doesn't want to hurt her when TECHNICALLY she didn't deserve it. (I'm assuming). But he wants you. I had a similar kind of problem last year with a married woman, but I was single. I ignored her for a while because my feelings were getting out of control, yet didn't want to tell her and make things weird. It all failed and things blew up in the end. Oh well... I could go on forever but I'll shut up.

Ok guys, peep this. LOL I'm a dork.
I come up with some strange things but let me sort of sum up a Gemini man a little bit at least. Just follow me here.

posted August 08, 2013 02:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Zander916:
We're just chillin' like a villian.

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lol i just bought a t shirt with that on it!! i'm gemini sun too!

posted August 08, 2013 09:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Zander916:

Gemini man, is a squirrel. We're just chillin' like a villian. Gettin' some nuts, burying them. Climbing wires, flapping our tails and barking at people. Then, we look across the street and think, "HEY! There's some trees over there and I bet there's nuts too! There's different people to bark at and OH OH! There's a cat. I can mess him too!"
So we start hopping across the street, "Oh yeah. Giggity giggity." Singin' a song, "I'm gonna get some nuuuuts. Get some nuts todaaaay"
All of sudden, there's a car coming right for us! (complicated emotional situation). We don't know what the eff to do! We get in a panic and start darting back and forth in the street. Then squish! We get clobbered by the car anyway. When in truth if we had just picked either side of the street and went we would have been fine.
But there you have it friends, the Gemini man. Just a squirrel tying to play with his nuts.

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