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Topic: Pisces man, Venus in Aries, w/ Sun square Saturn
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BabyStef
Newflake Posts: 1
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 08, 2013 11:11 PM
  
I've been in a tumultuous relationship with a Pisces man for almost 3 years now. He's definitely the martyr fish that people talk about; insecure, passive aggressive, likes his alcohol, has the tendency to lie and manipulate certain situations, often thought to be bipolar, avoids problems and conflict for weeks at a time, and even though we have put each other through hell, we keep coming back to each other. I definitely fit the mold of the strong, confident, feisty, stubborn, optimistic, and independent woman. I'm on the virgo/libra cusp, leo in venus and mars, with a lot of masculine fire signs in my other planets. My strengths compliment his weaknesses and vice versa. I care about and believe in this man, but a part of me feels that I will always be held back with him, unable to achieve whatever goals and dreams he sets for himself or our relationship. He has Venus in Aries, which I think causes a lot of the tension and roller coaster feel of our relationship. If things ever become the slightest bit stable or boring, I always know a fight is being conjured up right around the corner. We have (my) Sun square (his) Saturn in our synastry, which I've read causes things to be difficult, yet binding at the same time. Why this would make for a long term relationship, I still have no idea. So I've heard the negative stories with Pisces men, where most advise to run away and never look back. As tempting as that is sometimes, I can't help but feel as though we have so much we can learn from each other and opportunity to grow in our relationship. I guess I'm just thinking out loud, wanting to discuss and hear other opinions and perspectives. IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
Moderator Posts: 563
From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 09, 2013 02:07 AM
You posted at 11:11There has been a lot going on with the Cardinal sign axis lately so if your sun is at the last degrees of Virgo or early Libra you've probably had to deal with some challenging energy lately. This year has also been a "water year" since the slow moving Saturn is in Scorpio/water and slow moving outer sign Neptune is in his/her home sign of Pisces/water. This means your water sign man is getting an extra water charge and is even more Neptunian than ever? I would give your decision time and just keep loving him and most importantly YOURSELF to the best of your ability and the answer will eventually become clear for you. (and I know you probably know that Scorp and Pisces are water, but not everyone reading does know that, so that is the reason for my specificity)  IP: Logged |
jjj
Knowflake Posts: 138
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 10, 2013 10:49 AM
This Pisces guy with Aries venus I like is very cautious and also prone to mind games and passive-aggressive, but I think it stems from his vulnerability and insecurity. He looks aloof and funny, but is very very sensitive deep down.
It s really weird between us because he continues avoiding me stubbornly. He cant do this forever, we will meet sooner or later due to external circumstances.
I think that his marriage is on the rocks and that might be the reason of his avoidance as well. I cherish him in spite of the no contact. IP: Logged | |
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