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Topic: Getting back to together with old lovers?
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 3935
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 08, 2013 11:42 PM
  
What transits or synastry suggests that..?I've been talking to someone I use to date 4 years back.
We admitted our love for each other, followed by crying and apologizing... I was pretty much devastated for 4 years, until now.
This sounds very unfair but everyone I've been with in between was just to fill the void inside. I feel like this person is my soulmate. This is like opening a can of worms, and it's really scary feeling or maybe a rush of adrenaline/joy and immense fear at the same time.
I knew this was going to eventually happen because were so inseparable.
I'll literally want to die if this does not work out... so I'm scared...
I want this to last forever. This is the synastry I can think of; it seems pretty intense. SN conjunct my sun/moon/mercury/venus/asc (sn conjunct my venus exact) NN on my DSC exact Vertex conjunct my pluto Anti vertex conjunct my eros Pluto Opp my Eros Venus conjunct my Mars. Psyche conjunct my pluto Psyche opp my Eros Mars conjunct my SN Juno conjunct my SN Composite wise;
NN conjunct dsc
Venus conjunct antivertex/opp vertex
Eros opp jupiter
Venus opp pluto
mars opp pluto
What was your synastry like with old lovers or greatest loves.
I feel kind of crazy...
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Lyrica
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From: USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 12:02 AM
Great subject and I am curious as well. Kerosene I know the feeling well-I have been involved off and on with this man for 30 years and trying to understand-I just end up giving myself headaches lol. Forgive me as I am a newb and trying to learn so I may have posted too many aspects from our synasty. Any comments appreciated. Neptune Conjunction AS Orb 0°36'
Pluto Conjunction Uranus Orb 0°36'
Mercury Conjunction Venus Orb 0°45'
Uranus Conjunction MC Orb 1°04'
Chiron Conjunction Mercury Orb 3°30'
Mars Conjunction Moon Orb 4°59'
AS Conjunction Moon Orb 6°05'
Pluto Conjunction Pluto Orb 7°19'
Uranus Conjunction Mars Orb 7°42'
Neptune Conjunction Neptune Orb 8°41'
Sun Conjunction Saturn Orb 8°46'
MC Conjunction Venus Orb 8°49'
Venus Conjunction Mercury Orb 9°04'
Sun Conjunction Mercury Orb 9°38'
Venus Conjunction Saturn Orb 9°56
AS Trine Venus Orb 0°13'
Saturn Trine Uranus Orb 0°24'
Mars Trine Venus Orb 1°20'
Node Trine Saturn Orb 1°31'
Moon Trine Venus Orb 2°06'
Node Trine Mercury Orb 2°23'
Neptune Trine Sun Orb 2°56'
Node Sextile MC Orb 0°19'
Jupiter Sextile Venus Orb 2°15'
Mars Sextile Jupiter Orb 3°02'
Pluto Sextile AS Orb 3°57'
Neptune Sextile Uranus Orb 3°57'
Neptune Sextile Pluto Orb 3°58'
AS Sextile Jupiter Orb 4°09'
Sun Inconjunction Pluto Orb 2°49' ------------------
Sun Pisces
Scorpio Rising
Taurus Moon
Venus in Capricorn
Mars In Leo "Can't run from myself-there's nowhere to hide"
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Jkitty
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From: an oasis in the desert
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 12:11 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
What transits or synastry suggests that..?I've been talking to someone I use to date 4 years back, we admitted our love each other, followed by crying and apologizing... I was pretty much devastated for 4 years, until now.
This sounds very unfair but everyone I've been with in between was just to fill the void inside. I feel like this person is my soulmate. This is like opening a can of worms, and it's really scary feeling or maybe a rush of adrenaline/joy and immense fear at the same time.
I knew this was going to eventually happen because were so inseparable.
I'll literally want to die if this does not work out... so I'm scared...
I want this to last forever. This is the synastry I can think of; it seems pretty intense. SN conjunct my sun/moon/mercury/venus/asc (sn conjunct my venus exact) NN on my DSC exact Vertex conjunct my pluto Anti vertex conjunct my eros Pluto Opp my Eros Venus conjunct my Mars. Psyche conjunct my pluto Psyche opp my Eros Mars conjunct my SN Juno conjunct my SN Composite wise;
NN conjunct dsc
Venus conjunct antivertex/opp vertex
Eros opp jupiter
Venus opp pluto
mars opp pluto
What was your synastry like with old lovers or greatest" loves.
I feel kind of crazy...
Awww, Kero! I've nothing to contribute to your thread but want to wish you well. You always seem so lighthearted, that I was taken completely by surprise with this -- like a laughing, bubbling brook suddenly revealing a raging river! All the best to you and I hope it all works out happily for you this time around. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 12:16 AM
Jesus 30 years.......?!!!!!?!?!?!?!
Wow!
venus conjunct saturn can bind people together.
What does you composite look like?
Also check the vertex!@jkitty, aww thank you!
Sorry, I was always get really emotional when I have to to talk about that stuff.. I'm sleep and forgot to disguise it with humor lmfao...  IP: Logged |
Lyrica
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From: USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 12:23 AM
Yes 30 years and this go round caught me totally by surprise and now it's very bittersweet. We met for coffee and to chat and when we left the coffeeshop we hugged, I looked up at him and we kissed-the attraction is as strong as ever even after all this time. He's an Aquarius with Venus in Aquarius and did he ever drive me crazy when we were younger-I think time and maturity have helped me understand him better. Here's the composite and sorry again if I post too much info. upiter Conjunction Saturn Orb 0°21'
Neptune Conjunction MC Orb 1°26'
Mercury Conjunction Venus Orb 4°18'
Venus Conjunction AS Orb 5°26'
Sun Conjunction AS Orb 7°06'
Mercury Conjunction AS Orb 9°45'
Moon Trine Neptune Orb 5°34'
Moon Trine MC Orb 7°00'
Sun Trine Mars Orb 7°29'
Pluto Sextile MC Orb 2°35'
Neptune Sextile Pluto Orb 4°01'
Moon Inconjunction AS Orb 0°29'
Mercury Inconjunction Pluto Orb 0°38'
Saturn Inconjunction Uranus Orb 0°51'
Jupiter Inconjunction Uranus Orb 1°12 ------------------
Sun Pisces
Scorpio Rising
Taurus Moon
Venus in Capricorn
Mars In Leo "Can't run from myself-there's nowhere to hide"
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 12:33 AM
Aqua huh?
I feel you..
Interesting enough this person is a Pisces.Air and Water people are in completely different realms.... Your composite looks nice, sun conjunct venus on the asc.
Also moon conjunct venus. I believe that's a full fledge love stellium. I assume you two are still madly in love?
Or maybe you've become numb to the feeling. IP: Logged |
Lyrica
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From: USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 12:55 AM
No the love is still there we have found out. We still enjoy being with each other and have wonderful conversations. This is the 4th time in 30 years we have come together and no numbness at all. I have read some astrology articles about the "otherworldly realm" the Pisces/Aquar union can achieve and we certainly reach it. I have been married twice (not to him) and have had lovers and while some have been handsomer, some more physical  etc no man has ever touched my heart and soul the way he has. I simply lose myself in him and have never been able to do this with anyone else. ------------------
Sun Pisces
Scorpio Rising
Taurus Moon
Venus in Capricorn
Mars In Leo "Can't run from myself-there's nowhere to hide"
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 01:10 AM
That sounds lovely!
There seems to be a lot of ease and comfort between you two.
I noticed people with planets in each other 4 house/IC share those qualities.
This this apply to you?
I notice these couples usually end up together later in life after they step back from their ambitions and worldly desires. maybe you two will grow old together!  IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
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From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 09, 2013 01:52 AM
I know Mercury Rx brings old lovers back into your life for a guest appearance at the very least but to actually "get together" must be the same as the start of any relationship? Like both of your Progressed Sun/Venus/or Mars strongly aspecting (by conjunction is best, I hear) your natal Sun/Venus/or Mars and the other person's Sun/Venus/or Mars. IP: Logged |
its_aqua
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From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 02:11 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
What transits or synastry suggests that..?I've been talking to someone I use to date 4 years back.
We admitted our love for each other, followed by crying and apologizing... I was pretty much devastated for 4 years, until now.
This sounds very unfair but everyone I've been with in between was just to fill the void inside. I feel like this person is my soulmate. This is like opening a can of worms, and it's really scary feeling or maybe a rush of adrenaline/joy and immense fear at the same time.
I knew this was going to eventually happen because were so inseparable.
I'll literally want to die if this does not work out... so I'm scared...
I want this to last forever. This is the synastry I can think of; it seems pretty intense. SN conjunct my sun/moon/mercury/venus/asc (sn conjunct my venus exact) NN on my DSC exact Vertex conjunct my pluto Anti vertex conjunct my eros Pluto Opp my Eros Venus conjunct my Mars. Psyche conjunct my pluto Psyche opp my Eros Mars conjunct my SN Juno conjunct my SN Composite wise;
NN conjunct dsc
Venus conjunct antivertex/opp vertex
Eros opp jupiter
Venus opp pluto
mars opp pluto
What was your synastry like with old lovers or greatest loves.
I feel kind of crazy...
Its the SN- Sun conjunction!! May I ask how you experience all this and what are your feelings towards the girl since you are the Sun person? Im really interested as Im the SN most times.
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
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posted August 09, 2013 02:52 AM
Yeah SN is a tough one...
NN is more easy because it relates more to this lifetime and your worldly desires.
It's an energy you can easily understand.
However people may not believe in past lives so it feels wrong or natural.
ThIs why SN is difficult and overwhelming.
I'm sure those men have been really attached to you... Maybe obsessive?I can't describe my feeling about this in words however I can give you a short background.. I assume we were lovers in our past lives, because the first time I laid eyes on him was like a barrage of various emotions. This probably his SN on my stellium. Unfortunately we have the same gender so it's complicated for him.
Which I assume is our lesson together?
I was not really aware of my sexuality before I met him.
So it was a struggle however I was always very flexible. He seemed to be struggling with his sexuality the most because of his beliefs and background.
I was more than patient with him. We've known each other for like 5 years before he left me...
We were good friends for 2 years until he fell in love with me... and I was always secretly loved him. I definitely feel more attached to him.
I assume he got scared from all the intensity. However I always knew deep down he would come back when he's explored his sexuality or what not. Cancer dominant guys always come back to the person that makes them the most happy... IP: Logged |
its_aqua
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From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2013 03:10 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Yeah SN is a tough one...
NN is more easy because it relates more to this lifetime and your worldly desires.
It's an energy you can easily understand.
However people may not believe in past lives so it feels wrong or natural.
ThIs why SN is difficult and overwhelming.
I'm sure those men have been really attached to you... Maybe obsessive?I can't describe my feeling about this in words however I can give you a short background.. I assume we were lovers in our past lives, because the first time I laid eyes on him was like a barrage of various emotions. This probably his SN on my stellium. Unfortunately we have the same gender so it's complicated for him.
Which I assume is our lesson together?
I was not really aware of my sexuality before I met him.
So it was a struggle however I was always very flexible. He seemed to be struggling with his sexuality the most because of his beliefs and background.
I was more than patient with him. We've known each other for like 5 years before he left me...
We were good friends for 2 years until he fell in love with me... and I was always secretly loved him. I definitely feel more attached to him.
I assume he got scared from all the intensity. However I always knew deep down he would come back when he's explored his sexuality or what not. Cancer dominant guys always come back to the person that makes them the most happy...
Thanks so much for sharing your experience with me, I hope it works out for the best!
You say you think you are more attached to him, this surprises me as most people on here say that the SN person is the one who clings more on the planet person. I cant describe my feelings for him easily, even our first meeting was like.. Boom! But Ive known him for a year and we never had a proper relationship, it was mostly casual sex for 3 months and then i would see him daily at work an it was all weird, I mean it is obvious that he likes me as a woman for my looks but I wonder if he ever thinks about me like I do about him. He was the guy I told you in a previous thread that has the Gemini Venus and Aries Mars like you..
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Brontex
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posted August 09, 2013 03:24 AM
Weird. I got an unexpected call from my ex a couple days ago. We lived together for six plus years. Things didn't end well at all and we've barely spoken for the past year or so. It's been a little intense to say the least. Also Air (Libra) and Water (Cancer). Good Luck. Lemme know if you pin down a transit or something that explains this one. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted August 09, 2013 03:38 AM
Some people say that there is no "one" person for anyone of us, but many. I however, believe that there is ONLY one person and the rest are plain "fillers". Good luck!! IP: Logged |
slowpoke
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posted August 09, 2013 10:27 AM
It is good that you plan to reunite. But, something may have caused the breakup. It may be a good idea to reexamine your Synastry Aspect chart to better understand the influences that may suggest distress in the union. Only by understanding the risk better, will you insure that your future together is on a more secure ground. http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43
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anonymidarkness
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posted August 09, 2013 10:35 AM
Is there something in the air ? a girl from the past has kept appearing in my dream for last 3-4 days, we got married in the last dream, next dream should be fun  . It’s weird because I don’t love her, she was a good friend though.IP: Logged |
Lunae
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posted August 09, 2013 10:37 AM
Do you, Kero and Brontex have something in common that transits might be hitting? Your Gemini moon, perhaps?IP: Logged |
cfall614
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posted August 09, 2013 01:51 PM
I would think it has alot to do with transits, though I'm too much of a newbie in that department to know which ones...As for synastry, we have Moon-NN conj, Moon-Saturn conj, and vertex stuff, so Nodes, Saturn and vertex could be a factor.Something does seem to be in the air, because an ex just contacted me to ask when I'm coming back to my hometown (where he is). He's still my "one" after 2 years of not seeing him, but I'm scared to open up a can of worms too. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 09, 2013 01:55 PM
SN is super powerful. I don't agree when people indicate SN is bad or less than. I think comfort is important and this shows pure comfort with each other.------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted August 09, 2013 02:03 PM
^ It depends on the overall synastry.I had SN / Sun conjunction with my ex - I cut him off completely. Nothing there except an unpleasant memory. Yeah, ex lovers coming back is usually bad news.
There's a reason people break up. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted August 09, 2013 03:12 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ It depends on the overall synastry.I had SN / Sun conjunction with my ex - I cut him off completely. Nothing there except an unpleasant memory. Yeah, ex lovers coming back is usually bad news.
There's a reason people break up.
This. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted August 09, 2013 03:22 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ It depends on the overall synastry.I had SN / Sun conjunction with my ex - I cut him off completely. Nothing there except an unpleasant memory. Yeah, ex lovers coming back is usually bad news.
There's a reason people break up.
Agreed! I dated 2 Sags born like a few hours of each other. Both had Sun on my SN and both unpleasant memories that I do NOT want back. Were you also the SN, Doux? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 09, 2013 03:24 PM
Oh, really?
Hmm. I was the Sun, and it seems that the planet person usually wants out.
But eh, I guess it's a two-way street, as usual. Can go both ways.IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted August 09, 2013 03:32 PM
Ha, in all my experiences with Node synastry, the SN person wants out lol. Or maybe I always want out, idk lol. I am mostly the SN because I have natally DC ruler conj SN and there have been DC ruler contacts in my strongest relationships, usually. But like I said, might just be my commitment-phobia talking. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 09, 2013 03:40 PM
^ Yeah, makes sense!
Go for NN synastry next time. IP: Logged |
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