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Topic: Attracting lots of jealousy ?
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lovehate122
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posted August 10, 2013 03:46 PM
  
What placements in a natal chart would make someone subject to lots of jealousy from other women/men.Not to toot my own horn but i feel like i have always been someone other girls just love to hate , Im a very touchy subject for alot of people most of them don't even know me . I feel like i attract alot of jealousy from people and i always have . I was thinking scorpio prominent but i don't have that . Im sometimes called a "dirty girl" people make up mean rumours about me guys have lied that they slept with me and "honest" friends of mine have of told me its beacuse i look like that and its how i look i look like a "b$tch" i don't think this is fair at all which makes me dig in my heels more and REFUSE to be like everyone else . But anyway if anyone can relate please share your aspects so i can get to the bottom of this . The only Scorpio i have is moon sextile Pluto and my Pluto in my 11th house from the 10th house which is scorpio . IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted August 10, 2013 03:53 PM
Yeah I know what you mean. Nearly everyone has this happen to them from time to time. Hard aspects in a chart can indicate situations you find yourself in, or patterns in your life that can attract negativity. Mercury is in charge of the rumor department. The moon, emotional abuse. Venus and Mars, physical. The outer planets can indicate large amounts of people disliking someone for whatever reason - a bad reputation, basically. A lot of times there's reasons why this occurs and self reflection followed by resolution can alter the negative patterns. IP: Logged |
orocairion
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posted August 10, 2013 04:12 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
What placements in a natal chart would make someone subject to lots of jealousy from other women/men.Not to toot my own horn but i feel like i have always been someone other girls just love to hate , Im a very touchy subject for alot of people most of them don't even know me . I feel like i attract alot of jealousy from people and i always have . I was thinking scorpio prominent but i don't have that . Im sometimes called a "dirty girl" people make up mean rumours about me guys have lied that they slept with me and "honest" friends of mine have of told me its beacuse i look like that and its how i look i look like a "b$tch" i don't think this is fair at all which makes me dig in my heels more and REFUSE to be like everyone else . But anyway if anyone can relate please share your aspects so i can get to the bottom of this . The only Scorpio i have is moon sextile Pluto and my Pluto in my 11th house from the 10th house which is scorpio .
Aquarius maybe? IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted August 10, 2013 04:15 PM
Im an Aquarius rising ! Uranus in my 1st house i don't see how that would attract jealousy tho ??IP: Logged |
orocairion
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posted August 10, 2013 04:23 PM
Aquariuses sometimes come off to people who don't interect often with them as cold and full of themselves even if they are not like that at all.I have an Aquarius coworker, and every female in the office hates her, they think of her as a b*tch with a big ego and whatnot; to the point they started rumours about her. Thing is, most of those people barely talk to her or know her at all. IP: Logged |
Zander916
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posted August 10, 2013 04:48 PM
Would these be similar to attracting jealousy from a partner/spouse? IP: Logged |
Zander916
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posted August 10, 2013 04:48 PM
Would these be similar to attracting jealousy from a partner/spouse? Edit.: oh sorry. Not likely (public vs private) IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted August 10, 2013 04:49 PM
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Originally posted by orocairion:
Aquariuses sometimes come off to people who don't interect often with them as cold and full of themselves even if they are not like that at all.I have an Aquarius coworker, and every female in the office hates her, they think of her as a b*tch with a big ego and whatnot; to the point they started rumours about her. Thing is, most of those people barely talk to her or know her at all.
That's why they do it. They need to get know her better. They feel like they can't get closer so they compensate by making up stuff and being difficult. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted August 10, 2013 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by orocairion:
Aquariuses sometimes come off to people who don't interect often with them as cold and full of themselves even if they are not like that at all.I have an Aquarius coworker, and every female in the office hates her, they think of her as a b*tch with a big ego and whatnot; to the point they started rumours about her. Thing is, most of those people barely talk to her or know her at all.
you just described my life
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meyray
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posted August 10, 2013 05:11 PM
Planets in the 8H have this subtle but also in-your-face energy that can rub people the wrong way. I've found this especially true with Venus because it creates this sexually explicit atmosphere that often creates aversion in people.The 6H is often called the house of enemies and obstacles. People with a strong 6H tend to deal with a lot of opposition in their life. Afflicted MC may cause a disrupted public image. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon
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From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States
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posted August 10, 2013 05:12 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
That's why they do it. They need to get know her better. They feel like they can't get closer so they compensate by making up stuff and being difficult.
This often times happens to me. Because I'm really quiet, and because some people have no idea how to approach me for whatever reason(i certainly don't look intimidating), someone make things up about me in hopes that I'll blurt out the truth in order to defend myself from scrutiny from others. Just saying. As for attracting jealously, I was thinking fire signs can be quite jealous. Maybe Pluto or mars in hard aspect to the planets could also attract some jealously? IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted August 10, 2013 05:29 PM
My mars is in my 8th house it trines my venus , i often find that the reason another girl would be jealous usually has to do with guys or a guys , Im not being cocky (probably will sound cocky) but i get alot of male attention very creepy male attention when im a group of girls and guys starts hollering at me it can make them very uncomfortable . I tend to have very jealous friends they always try to bring me down .IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 10, 2013 05:35 PM
Dignified placements (e.g. Sun in Leo, Venus in Libra) attract the most jealousy.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 10, 2013 05:38 PM
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Im sometimes called a "dirty girl" people make up mean rumours about me guys have lied that they slept with me and "honest" friends of mine have of told me its beacuse i look like that and its how i look i look like a "b$tch" i don't think this is fair at all which makes me dig in my heels more and REFUSE to be like everyone else
This kind of thing can happen a lot in HS - rumours etc I can't remember how old you are. If you're in your teens this will all blow over. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted August 10, 2013 05:39 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
This kind of thing can happen a lot in HS - rumours etc I can't remember how old you are. If you're in your teens this will all blow over.
Thank you and i am in my teens your right , i wish it would end sooner  IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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From: Ireland
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posted August 10, 2013 05:42 PM
Im sorry this is sooooo Off topic but would moon conjunct neptune attract people who are involved with drugs or drink alot ? I have this its in my 1st house and neptune aspects my sun and mercury too and all the guys i have been involved with smoke alot or drink alot . All my close friends too. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 10, 2013 05:48 PM
Unless it feels like you are actually being bullied.. try to ignore the behaviour. I've had guys say a lot of these things in HS - that they dated me and what not. One brought a porn mag to school and said I was on the cover although it was impossible to tell since her face was not in the pic. *facepalm* I have to laugh about it now because it was so silly.I just thought it was kind of typical of boys being boys so I didn't give them much attention for it. It might also be my Venus/Pluto opp though. Anyhoo - spend more time with the people you do like - and take this skits with a grain of salt. If you do feel like they have really crossed the line and their behaviour is abusive - you should talk to your parents about it or someone else you trust - a school counsellor? IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 10, 2013 05:50 PM
I just saw your second post. Yes Moon conj Neptune can attract people with problems because you are very open to helping them. You need to have a wall because you can't help everyone. Eventually it can get draining. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted August 10, 2013 07:12 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
What placements in a natal chart would make someone subject to lots of jealousy from other women/men.
Yes I have always attracting jealousy people (most women) but I do not care. Im really good to see straight through people so sometimes I tease the person but not always because there are people who feels better to avoid and leave.
Ive venus conj mars
AC exactly conj Sun in LEO
conflicted moon IP: Logged |
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