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Topic: Do you Love Bad Boys or Girls ?
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beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 144
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 12, 2013 08:58 AM
  
You know when what you really want to do is to slap them in the face and leave them but then you just can't because they say something so nice that you fall in love with them all over again..What aspect would cause this AND if this ever happened to you what was the chart of the person like ?  How do you think some people have this charm ? IP: Logged |
lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 09:25 AM
 #leomoonFTW IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 12, 2013 11:07 AM
People with Neptune aspecting personal planets in their charts are susceptible. If they get too bad, don't put up with it your self esteem will thank you later. Protect yourself, number one priority.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 12, 2013 02:41 PM
^ Agreed. I have Sun, Mercury, and Venus square Neptune and Moon trine Neptune. I gravitate towards bad boys, but am changing that. IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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From: USA
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 12, 2013 05:37 PM
I like guys who are confident and have a wicked sense of humor, guys that have charisma and charm... But not 'bad' guys.As in, I wouldn't go for someone who was involved in amoral, illegal activities, or someone who was mean and abusive to other people. A guy that disses women is especially unattractive. A guy that’s too promiscuous would make me uncomfortable. No playahs thank you! But yes yes yes to humor, charm, confidence, and charisma. Sometimes I think the difference between being 'bad' and just having an appealing personality can be confused. Most women like it when a guy has the nerve to stand up for himself and for loved ones, and they look for that quality in a man. I think some women do confuse a guy that's careless and somewhat mean, for a guy that's brave enough to take care of business. But a guy dosen't have to be an a$$hole, to be courageous. I like when a guy is protective and brave, but kind to others most of the time. Yeah, that's the end of my rant.
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starrystratosphere
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Registered: May 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 05:41 PM
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
I like when a guy is protective and brave, but kind to others most of the time.
men and women both. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 4108
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 12, 2013 05:49 PM
Hmm.. I wouldn't love someone who lacks character, and is possibly dangerous. I can find them entertaining if the mood strikes me especially if I'm feeling adventurous and reckless. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 2215
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 12, 2013 06:10 PM
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lulz: #leomoonFTW
 Also I hope u aren't comparing Gatsby to a Leo Moon. Dude was the most pathetic person in existence! IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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From: USA
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 12, 2013 06:16 PM
Sorry, I can only speak from my perspective as a women.For men I can only speculate... Hmmmm, well a lot of guys are pulled in by a women who they think is a challenge, or who will give them a bit of a chase. If a girl is 'bad' in the sense that she's difficult, or rude and disrespectful, there are some guys who might actually interpret that as exciting because they'd like to be the one to 'win her over' so to speak. On the other hand, there is a certain type of 'bad girl' that can be perceived as 'easy'... So men who are only after one thing my flock to this type of 'bad girl'. I guess that's my 2 cents on the matter.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 4108
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 12, 2013 06:25 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Also I hope u aren't comparing Gatsby to a Leo Moon. Dude was the most pathetic person in existence!
I never bothered to see that version, especially since I read the book and saw the version with Robert Redford who is like 100 times better looking.
Was it good, was it any different? In the book I kinda felt bad for him... LMFAO that picture. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 2215
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 12, 2013 06:42 PM
^Well, I just in general don't like Gatsby. He obsessed over and idealised this woman who couldn't even come to his funeral. He got what he deserved for such terrible self-delusion. :'/It is a little bit different I guess, they mostly made Daisy seem like she genuinely loved him, adding narrative to the scene where she cried into his shirts. In the books, my prof at the time said a line the was edited out of the final draft was, "Your shirts are more beautiful than my husband's," while in the movie, the added narrative was "years of unsaid words overwhelmed her and all she could do was cry and say, what beautiful shirts." Honestly they made it seem more justified for Gatsby to love her (ergo that she was a good person and loved him back), which wasn't the case book-wise. IP: Logged |
lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 09:38 PM
what is a bad girl?IP: Logged |
lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 09:40 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Also I hope u aren't comparing Gatsby to a Leo Moon. Dude was the most pathetic person in existence!
oh hush there are worse characters than he. he is a classic criminal though. they have his blind optimism. jupiter/ neptune. IP: Logged |
lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 09:59 PM
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Originally posted by starrystratosphere:
men and women both.
that's leo. protective to the less fortunate. coz he thinks it's his royal duty.  you like someone like your dad sheesh!  IP: Logged |
lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 10:04 PM
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Hmmmm, well a lot of guys are pulled in by a women who they think is a challenge, or who will give them a bit of a chase. If a girl is 'bad' in the sense that she's difficult, or rude and disrespectful, there are some guys who might actually interpret that as exciting because they'd like to be the one to 'win her over' so to speak.
le sigh... IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 2215
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 12, 2013 10:10 PM
Did you just say for me to "oh hush"... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 44852
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 12, 2013 10:11 PM
Asteroid wise, if someone's Nessus and deja touch your personal planets/angles, I have seen people go goofy. I have felt it myself. Of all chart aspects which could be called nuclear, this would be it imo------------------
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lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 10:26 PM
leos should go goofy for me. my nessu deja conj in leo in the 10th. sometimes they do i suppose. they tell you anyway. they might square my venus. IP: Logged |
starrystratosphere
Knowflake Posts: 212
From:
Registered: May 2013
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posted August 13, 2013 01:01 AM
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Originally posted by lulz:
that's leo. protective to the less fortunate. coz he thinks it's his royal duty. you like someone like your dad sheesh!
is it....hmm...something to think about. IP: Logged |
lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 13, 2013 01:32 AM
i think most women like someone like their dad. same with men and their moms kinda. my mom is cancer dominant. mars cancer.  IP: Logged |
lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 13, 2013 01:50 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
People with Neptune aspecting personal planets in their charts are susceptible. If they get too bad, don't put up with it your self esteem will thank you later. Protect yourself, number one priority.
oh yah here ett iz! YOU'RE SMART!  IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2325
From:
Registered: May 2012
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posted August 13, 2013 04:09 AM
I think anyone who feels like their life is boring would like a bad boy or girl... because they want more drama in their lives (so they must not have enough of it).Also - those who had a very sheltered, calm. happy childhood -- because again, they never had problems - so they are not put off by problematic people, and they can even be attracted.
I've had a lot of problems in my life - so if someone seems like they create more drama for me - I don't feel interested. I was trying to imagine a situation in which I could be interested in a bad boy. I would have to be holidaying on a fun island somewhere.. with so much peace and happiness and money and food and drink and music around me and no responsibilities and no problems and no people asking me for stuff or telling me about *their* problems or expecting me to fix their problems.....and I would have to feel like I can completely unwind, no stress... and be that way for quite some time - maybe like six months or more... and then eventually I might get bored of all that pleasurable, hedonistic lifestyle - and I would then want a bad boy to spice things up. Am I the only one who feels like they are a huge problem/nuisance simply adding on to other problems in daily life? IP: Logged |
lulz
Knowflake Posts: 606
From: sand
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 13, 2013 04:15 AM
^relationship in general are a nuisance to daily life. they drive me cray. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 4108
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 13, 2013 04:21 AM
No I understand where Odette is coming from.
You probably feel bad for them and their stupid antics. Which is understandable, people like that are damaged.
You should be more guarded if you're too compassionate. Personally I feel people like that are just flavors of the hour, I'm bored what can this person do to entertain me?
Yeah I do like a little drama time to time..
Some chaos to shake things up.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 3298
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 13, 2013 04:21 AM
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Originally posted by lulz:
^relationship in general are a nuisance to daily life. they drive me cray.
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my 2nd house is very unstable. it's in sag. uranus is there. no aspects save a minor to venus.
You fear what tests your sense of self worth and dislike surprises so you might shun relationships because of the unknown element they present.IP: Logged |
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