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Topic: Saturn Square Moon Transit oh god ive had enough already
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m.blade
Knowflake Posts: 166
From: I don't know myself yet
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 04:04 PM
  
I'VE HAD ENOUGH OF IT!! AND IT'S ONLY APPROACHING!!! AND ITS IN MY 12TH HOUSE OH LORD HAVE MERCY IVE BEEN DEALING WITH THIS SINCE JANUARY 1STI feel so god damn lonely! And it's not something that can be fixed easily with friends! I just feel so psychologically lonely like I can't explain it to others because it wont help a thing! Saturn knows how to damper things doesn't he? You'll have this happy thought and BAM he'll tell you it is irreal or illogical or something that cold guy does. You should visit his house  Saturn is so slow ughh. Does this aspect improve in anyway? And by the time I start school in september will things get better  ooh andd im starting to work with my english teacher on getting started in acting so i was wondering if any aspects might suggest things going well and stuff! thanks (but no thanks because saturn tells me your all out for me )  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 12, 2013 07:36 PM
It will definitely get better!Just hang in there, we all experience that one at some point ~ IP: Logged |
m.blade
Knowflake Posts: 166
From: I don't know myself yet
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 07:54 PM
But in the 12th? God all merciful IP: Logged |
Jkitty
Knowflake Posts: 810
From: an oasis in the desert
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 09:25 PM
I know Saturn has a bad rap, so I'm going to try and give you a bit of perspective that might help. You're only 14. Being a teenager is tough. I wouldn't want to go back to being a teen. But you're going to get through this and the attitude you take can make it better or make it harder.Saturn has a "job" to do. Saturn is the big astrological time keeper. It's job is to help us grow up. It's job is to teach us how to handle the aspects in our chart. By the time you're 28 or 29 it will have made every possible aspect to every other planet and point in your chart. Each time it touches something, it's an OPPORTUNITY to learn how to work with that energy pattern and integrate it into who you are. I won't lie to you and tell you that it will be easy. But I also will tell you that it won't be that bad and the world is full of people who have been through this and DO understand what it's like to have it sitting on Mars or squaring Neptune or opposing Jupiter. Some of them my even have had it do it all at the same time like with what you're going through. Sometimes it helps to know that you're not alone, even though it may feel like that at the time. IP: Logged |
Jkitty
Knowflake Posts: 810
From: an oasis in the desert
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 12, 2013 09:39 PM
I didn't want to do a super long post all at once.So you're in a point in your life where you're probably trying to decide what you want to do with your life. What do you really want? Then old man Saturn comes along (and he may look an awful lot like your high school guidance counselor) and throws some cold water on your dreams (squares your Neptune). Does that mean you give up your dream? Or does it mean you choose to work harder to make your dream a reality? This is where choices come in. It's also sitting on your Mars. I don't think I'd want to be a teenage boy with Saturn sitting on my Mars! (Having it sit on my Venus was worse since I'm a girl.) You probably feel limited in your opportunities to express your maleness right now, but remember that it's temporary! Instead ask yourself what kind of a man you want to be? What kind of man do you NEED to be in order to look back on your life and respect the choices you made in how you've incorporated that Mars drive in your chart? Because you have a lot of fixed positions in your chart, your teenage years may not be easy, but consider what it would be like if you were going through all this at, say, 25 without any family and with the need to support yourself financially, maybe even support a family and kids? Could be rougher, huh? So try and take stock. Find a few grown ups you can trust and (this is important) who you RESPECT in the way they're living their lives. Develop a support structure (support and structure are actually two more "Saturn" words) that can help you through this time, who can offer a listen ear and help YOU evaluate your dreams and desires without throwing any cold water on them. Try and use this time to set yourself up for the kind of life you want to have in another 14 years from now. USE your Saturn energy wisely so you can have a good life and become the kind of man you want to become. Sorry if that sounds preachy. I mean it as a pep talk. I want you to feel better and more positive about this so that you don't waste any opportunities to build a good life for yourself.  IP: Logged |
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