posted August 14, 2013 12:41 AM            

Does Virgo want to be seduced? Specifically, Virgo in Venus or Mars, but I guess this could apply to Virgo Suns, Moons and maybe Risings/Ascendants.

It's a mutable sign, so it's not a natural leader. Not the type to take charge in love. Does that make it a follower? Wanting and waiting for someone else to take the lead?

It's an earth sign, so it's less focused on "romance", on words and ideas and gestures, and more on practical things (like helping to fix stuff) and sensual things (I think -- like holding hands, making out, massages, etc).

Being a natural critic, it's easy for Virgo to say what it doesn't want -- separating the wheat from the chaff. But what *does* it want?

How does Virgo fit into the "dating game"?

posted August 14, 2013 01:51 AM            

That's difficult for me to say. I can't separate the Virgo from the rest of me sometimes! lol
I'm sure someone will have a technical answer but as for me.
It depends on my mood, my partner, and their mood.
Sometimes I like to be the seducer, and sometimes I would prefer to be seduced. I think my Sun in Leo plays a pretty large role in that. My Mars is also in Virgo though and it's associated with sex I hear.
As for the beginning of a relationship before anything has happened before. Well... I CAN'T be seduced if I feel it's too early for me and it just goes with that to say that I won't be seducing. When the time comes though, I kind of play a little game in my head to get them excited enough to seduce me. Subtle gestures and follow intuition.

posted August 14, 2013 02:21 AM            

I can totally relate to what you are saying. I, like most others, like the flattery of being seduced, but I am insanely awkward at accepting it.

Likewise, even if I am desperate for intimacy I can't initiate. I will think about it, but never say anything no matter how much I want to.

I think it confuses people sometimes with dating, we tend to give all the sensual vibes, but none of the actions. It is a tricky one.

I don't know if my virgo is dominating here, but I really feel like it is. Sexual but very restrained.

posted August 14, 2013 07:58 AM              

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Originally posted by Blackbird:
There weren't enough threads about Virgo, so I'm spinning up another one.

Does Virgo want to be seduced? Specifically, Virgo in Venus or Mars, but I guess this could apply to Virgo Suns, Moons and maybe Risings/Ascendants.

It's a mutable sign, so it's not a natural leader. Not the type to take charge in love. Does that make it a follower? Wanting and waiting for someone else to take the lead?

It's an earth sign, so it's less focused on "romance", on words and ideas and gestures, and more on practical things (like helping to fix stuff) and sensual things (I think -- like holding hands, making out, massages, etc).

Being a natural critic, it's easy for Virgo to say what it doesn't want -- separating the wheat from the chaff. But what *does* it want?

How does Virgo fit into the "dating game"?

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posted August 14, 2013 08:07 AM            

I am thinking of a male Virgo Sun I know. He is not on here. He expresses the desire that he wishes women would seduce him.

I tell him that that is not the way of the world for most women. Women with Venus in Aries may be the exception as they like to seduce.

That is my 2 cents.

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posted August 14, 2013 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Virgo is one of the most introverted signs for men. I find that women have to come to them.

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Interesting. Would you put it Sun and ASC? Moon, too?

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