posted August 16, 2013 01:26 AM            

We were best friends for 10+ years but now things changed , she said to me a month ago that we don't know where we're now ,things are not the same , I changed . I 'm also think she changed a lot lately to the point that I don't want to be near her anymore , I feel she restricts me in some way .

No surprise that she had her personal planets ie. sun venus mercury in my 7th , the worst part is her saturn exactly square my mars .
I think I'm totally loss my long relationship friend for good. And I feel sad because we're great together and later when we 're getting older we can't tolerate each other and I'm not trust her anymore. She didn't do anything bad but maybe it's a tension of ourselves inside that can't compatible.

Have you ever had friends that stimulating your 7th House? ( not the opposite sex, not a love with same sex)
How is this happen with you?

posted August 16, 2013 01:59 AM            

I have Saturn(mine) square my friends Sun; I think he depends on me a lot and sometimes I can feel burdened by that.

But we have such good synastry;

Asc trine Asc
Sun sextile Sun
Moon trine Moon
Mercury sextile Mercury
Venus square Venus
Mars trine Mars

I think its a good thing that you have "changed"(according to her) and that she has also "changed"- according to you.

This means that you've undergone growth and are now becoming the people you choose instead of being moulded by circumstances around you.

Personally, I've never kept childhood friends. I've always felt that that was kind of restrictive as they'll always expect you to stay the same and be the person that they are used to.

Once you start to sprout some wings and fly along a differing tangent to theirs, they can guilt you by saying stuff like "you've changed" or "I don't recognize the person you are anymore".Thereby labeling growth as "bad" and therefore you growing means that you are "losing your roots" or whatever. What bull**

I've always felt that the best friends come later in life- when you are your true self and not in early life- when you are still finding out who you are.

posted August 16, 2013 02:08 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyKitty:
Hi , I have seen it lately that a friends from my youth where have the planets loaded in my 7th yard , are now something opposite to me . It's not really and enemy but somethings that's not the same anymore

We were best friends for 10+ years but now things changed , she said to me a month ago that we don't know where we're now ,things are not the same , I changed . I 'm also think she changed a lot lately to the point that I don't want to be near her anymore , I feel she restricts me in some way .

No surprise that she had her personal planets ie. sun venus mercury in my 7th , the worst part is her saturn exactly square my mars .
I think I'm totally loss my long relationship friend for good. And I feel sad because we're great together and later when we 're getting older we can't tolerate each other and I'm not trust her anymore. She didn't do anything bad but maybe it's a tension of ourselves inside that can't compatible.

Have you ever had friends that stimulating your 7th House? ( not the opposite sex, not a love with same sex)
How is this happen with you?

Thnx

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posted August 16, 2013 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:

I think its a good thing that you have "changed"(according to her) and that she has also "changed"- according to you.

This means that you've undergone growth and are now becoming the people you choose instead of being moulded by circumstances around you.

Personally, I've never kept childhood friends. I've always felt that that was kind of restrictive as they'll always expect you to stay the same and be the person that they are used to.

Once you start to sprout some wings and fly along a differing tangent to theirs, they can guilt you by saying stuff like "you've changed" or "I don't recognize the person you are anymore".Thereby labeling growth as "bad" and therefore you growing means that you are "losing your roots" or whatever. What bull**

I've always felt that the best friends come later in life- when you are your true self and not in early life- when you are still finding out who you are.

Johnny Walker-"Keep walking"

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I 've read your comments over and over.I think it's so true to accept the uniqueness of each other and in my case to let each other growth is the best way .
Thank you for your insight .

posted August 16, 2013 03:43 AM            

Yes , when saturns make a hard aspect to your personal planets especially the luminaries , it 'd definitely a hard task to accomplish ...I've seen some girl has her saturn exactly on my AC and didn't like me at the first met .

Thnx for your reply

posted August 17, 2013 03:15 PM            

This is also true for kids and their young friends. As each child grows, their individual thought processes are in a constant state of flux. Over time the friends begin to either bond closer or begin to find fault and want to separate. It is human nature.

Astrologically speaking, we want to determine what the problem is. These are Synastry Astrology issues and not the natal issues. It is not so much the planet positions as it is the aspects. The influences that the aspects represent is where the juice to people with people problems lay.

Astrologically speaking, many people learn to live and work with people that have stressful aspects between them. Here is the thing though, the potential for disturbance and or separation is ever present where stressful aspects are concerned.

MR square SA in any direction in a Synastry Chart is always a strong indicator of slowing the relationship down to a stop. You might say this is a black aspect.

There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting