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Emme5
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posted August 18, 2013 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emme5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would a really bad (i.e., potentially abusive) synastry or composite chart make you change your mind about going forward and starting a relationship with someone? Would you even factor it in when you're undecided about someone?

Lately I've been really interested in looking up the synastry charts of murderers and their victims (who are also romantically involved) to see if there are aspects that would point to the tragic outcome between each couple. I just read about a guy who stabbed his girlfriend to death. And this is their synastry (the inside is the victim):

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Doux Rêve
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posted August 18, 2013 07:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars / Saturn, Uranus, Pluto / Venus.
Nessus could be square Pluto or Mars (can't see the orbs).
There are some indicators, for sure, but there are plenty of other people who have similar configurations in their charts and things aren't that drastic.

So my answer is no, I wouldn't change my mind if I really liked the person.
I'm not the kind of person to make decisions based on charts, although I would definitely be cautious and pay attention to any red flags.
And I'm not afraid of someone abusing me because I am positive I'll be able to get out before things get serious.

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posted August 18, 2013 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emme5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
although I would definitely be cautious and pay attention to any red flags.

I agree. I don't think charts can predict the future, but I believe they can give clues about how someone is. It's interesting that the murderer's NN is conjunct his Chaos, which are both conjunct the victim's Chiron. I'm just wondering if stuff like that are just coincidences.

BTW, the guy has a history of domestic violence. So, there WAS a huge red flag not related to astrology.

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Doux Rêve
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posted August 18, 2013 07:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Yes.
Asteroids can be quite revealing, but I don't pay much attention to them, to be honest.

And there are usually signs of abusive behaviour early on.

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Emme5
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posted August 18, 2013 09:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emme5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's even more interesting is that there are two famous people who were born on the same day as the murderer and, according to these sources, they both also have violent tendencies: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matt_Cooke http://forums.thefashionspot.com/f63/devon-sawa-arrested-35436.html http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001701/board/thread/216915049

Hmmm....this is making me take charts more seriously now.

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Doux Rêve
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posted August 18, 2013 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars conjunct Pluto in Libra for the violence, Venus in Scorpio for the intense feelings and Moon conjunct Uranus in Scorpio for erratic, intense and unpredictable emotional outbursts and occasional amorality.
Neptune square Sun for the addiction to alcohol / woe is me syndrome.

Makes sense but surely not everyone born on that day turned out to be an abusive person.
Hopefully.

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Emme5
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posted August 18, 2013 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emme5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Makes sense but surely not everyone born on that day turned out to be an abusive person.
Hopefully.

Yeah, let's hope not. Very informative - thanks for pointing out and describing those aspects!

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