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Topic: Playboy Crap in the chart :D
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5838 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 19, 2013 09:18 PM
^ Yes, possibly.Generally what happens with Moon in hard aspect to Venus is that the person cannot feel fulfilled in a relationship for X, Y, Z reason. Their partner doesn't meet some of their needs or desires and that makes them frustrated / annoyed / bored and they can look elsewhere for comfort / excitement. IP: Logged |
Azurenite Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 19, 2013 09:49 PM
I have a packed 5th house Scorpio/Sag. I've never cheated. All opposed by Saturn in Taurus though.IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 2751 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 19, 2013 09:54 PM
Half my chart is in 5H Sag and I'm not a cheater. However, I believe I'd fit in comfortably with a polyamorous relationship, but I've never had the opportunity. I have a casual attitude toward sex (though I can take it or leave it) but I'm still very loyal and if I'm with someone on monogamous terms then I'll be faithfully so. Offhand I recall being tempted twice but I rejected it out of hand because even getting away with it (as I almost certainly would've) would have haunted me all the same. I may be casual about sex, but I take commitment very seriously. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2430 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 19, 2013 10:02 PM
quote: Playboy Crap in the chart 
Water sign men.. because they are not very confident people, often suffer low-self esteem and other problems.. and they are not secure in their masculinity. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2430 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 19, 2013 10:08 PM
Zander - That's so strange to hear that from a Leo.. because usually they are more confident. I mean I wouldn't play this game - try to catch them and then dump them because I am basically 99% that I would catch anyone, so what's the point? It seems so redundant. But I have high self-esteem with exalted Sun&Mars, so I don't feel 'insecure' about catching someone. Do you feel like it was partially low self-esteem - as in - you were not sure of yourself.. and you didn't know whether or not these girls would like you - so you wanted to find out? I've only had this kind of experience with men I see as very young or insecure - so usually they were watery (wimpy!). I have never been in this kind of situation with a Leo.. I'm actually kind of disappointed and very surprised that you behaved this way being a Leo - although I don't know you lol I shouldn't place so much on the Astrology side of things. IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 926 From: an oasis in the desert Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 19, 2013 11:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by its_aqua: Hehe maybe we should put up Hugh Heffner's chart! 
He's got Jupiter conjunct Mars in the 5th. Figures, huh?! IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 951 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 20, 2013 02:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by LiesLilithsaidtouranus: I personally think people with stelliums in the fire and air houses (1,5,9,3,7,11) are more liekly too be players. But the other houses, if their rulers are afflicted this could also apply.
I have a stellium in 11H and have done more "playing" than I care to think about...also have moon in 5H. I found myself being super loyal to friends but not so much to lovers..trying hard to change however!
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its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 20, 2013 03:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: He's got Jupiter conjunct Mars in the 5th. Figures, huh?!
I love him I mean he is a genius IMO IP: Logged |
Lianee Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 20, 2013 03:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Water sign men.. because they are not very confident people, often suffer low-self esteem and other problems.. and they are not secure in their masculinity.
that ain't true at all ;p You just had some bad apples prob, or maybe their chart was like 90% water, then yeah, it's true, I know one gal, she has like everything personal in pisces pretty much and the word confidence just doesn't exist for her, and she just tries to get into every guys' pants 'cause that kind of boosts her ego, eh, people are sad sometimes  and btw, I need to share, 'cause I'm wondering how come a LEO MOON guy I knew was such a freking huge player, he was so fcked up (he had sag sun - ok, I know, but there are a couple a sag sun guys that are really loyal to their girls). As far as I know they're meant to be very very loyal(?) I was dating him for 2 WEEKS, that was probably his fcking record, and he was such a ***** , because he admitted that he was dating 3 OTHER GIRLS at the same freakin time, I mean, my jaw just dropped... yeah, sorry, i'm not the one to put out personal crap but I just don;t understand how come a leo moon is like that (and as far as I know moon is way more important than sun? I cant tell myself because i got both in the same sign). IP: Logged |
Brendan34 Newflake Posts: 11 From: Albany, NY, USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 06:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Water sign men.. because they are not very confident people, often suffer low-self esteem and other problems.. and they are not secure in their masculinity.
This is a huge generalization. Granted, some water sign people suffer from low self-esteem because of being overwhelmed with emotions at times, but this does not necessarily make one more prone to cheat. You could list those same things you said as reasons people stay in relationships also. Being secure in one's gender is very individual. There are many water sign men that set themselves apart because they are not embarrassed by displaying emotions/ sensitivity. Male and female gender roles are often imposed by society and people's preconceptions. I think you make some vast, uninformed generalizations by saying a whole element of astrology is more likely to cheat. IP: Logged |