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Topic: Signs that value and attracted to honesty?
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 21, 2013 04:55 PM
  
eh I wouldn't be dumb enough to date a liar if i knew before hand.Librans lie to keep peace, and hide things. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted August 21, 2013 05:05 PM
Yes I've told a few lies here and there.But I try not to do things I have to lie about.I hate lying and I hate liars.
Maybe heavy Saturn in the natal appreciates honesty.I do agree with Neptunians being more forgiving.I'm surrounded by Neptunians. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 328
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 05:16 PM
@Lunae
@catmote
I'm leo sun AND Pluto conjunct asc. I really struggle to lie. I can sometimes. 
Arguments have been started from me being honest. LOL I'm like, "well, doesn't everyone want the truth? They say they do so there it is." IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 2771
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 21, 2013 05:29 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What sign wouldn't mind / is attracted to an aggressive, opinionated and blunt person?
I'm of the "wouldn't mind" department...save the aggressive, it depends exactly what you mean on that (and depending on how it's meant I can find it amusing, exasperating, infuriating and/or frightening). Define aggressive. Oh, and btw, I don't think of someone blunt and opinionated as necessarily honest, nor anyone who is honest as blunt and opinionated (though they can be). IP: Logged |
Dark_Sun9
Newflake Posts: 22
From: Exeter, United Kingdom
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 05:35 PM
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hannaramaa
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posted August 21, 2013 07:08 PM
quote:
Originally posted by PixieJane:
I'm of the "wouldn't mind" department...save the aggressive, it depends exactly what you mean on that (and depending on how it's meant I can find it amusing, exasperating, infuriating and/or frightening). Define aggressive. Oh, and btw, I don't think of someone blunt and opinionated as necessarily honest, nor anyone who is honest as blunt and opinionated (though they can be).
Aggressive as in has very strong beliefs. I don't mean physical aggression or some form of abuse. Just simply stronger than average form of expression. When I say honest I mean someone who speaks from the heart even if it may hurt the other person's feelings or offend them, not necessarily lacking a filter but who doesn't withhold their feelings about anything.
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Orange
Knowflake Posts: 980
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 21, 2013 07:14 PM
the masochists!To quote my man, Oscar, the truth is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal. IP: Logged |
T
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 21, 2013 08:29 PM
The earth signs value honesty most. They can be blunt, but not in an aggressive hurtful way.IP: Logged |
Jkitty
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From: an oasis in the desert
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 22, 2013 12:10 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[BWhen I say honest I mean someone who speaks from the heart even if it may hurt the other person's feelings or offend them, not necessarily lacking a filter but who doesn't withhold their feelings about anything.[/B]
Well, if this is your definition of "honest" then I'd have to say that I'm "dishonest" because my motto is "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all!" I don't NORMALLY consider that "dishonest". I consider it KIND. I also ascribe to the motto, "If you don't want to hear the truth, don't ask me." By THAT definition, I qualify as honest. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 328
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 22, 2013 12:13 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Jkitty:
Well, if this is your definition of "honest" then I'd have to say that I'm "dishonest" because my motto is "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all!" I don't NORMALLY consider that "dishonest". I consider it KIND. I also ascribe to the motto, "If you don't want to hear the truth, don't ask me." By THAT definition, I qualify as honest.
Yeah I'll go with that. Sounds like me also. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 3581
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 22, 2013 12:15 AM
Some people say they appreciate "brutal honesty" because they are that way and they don't want to change. I find these people are the first ones to whine and cry when the tables are turned and someone is ragging all over them. So much for their praise of such tactics. Maybe they are a bit dishonest without realizing it?It's, ironically, much more honest to admit to not liking it because I haven't come across one person who really does. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 22, 2013 01:00 AM
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Originally posted by T:
The earth signs value honesty most. They can be blunt, but not in an aggressive hurtful way.
There you are T, being my favorite again. I read JKitty's reply and was going to clarify those are things I qualify as "honest" because that type of honesty gives me security and makes me feel comfortable. I'm very earth laden with Moon in Taurus, trine Saturn in Capricorn, Sun, Mercury, and Venus square Saturn as well. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 3689
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 22, 2013 09:09 AM
Brutally honest is being mean,insensitive and a jerk. I don't value that. Who values being mean and insensitive.I'm blunt and honest,am not insensitive! Let's see, some guy asks me out and I'm not into him. Guy: Are you free tomorrow night?
Me : No. ( me being blunt, I won't give explanation or excuses) V/S being brutally honest/mean/insensitive/a B Guy: Are you free tomorrow night?
Me : Yes, why?
Poor guy gets right into the trap : We could go out.
Me: HAHAAaaaaaa, what gave you the idea, I will EVER go out on a date with you? *laughs out loud* me being blunt BUT NICE. A guy am relatively friendly with asks me out. Guy: are you free tomorrow night?
Me : Yes, why?
Guy : we could go out.
Me : nah, not feeling it. me being brutally honest/ all of the above Guy: are you free tomorrow night?
Me:yes,why do you ask?
Guy:we could go out.
me:sorry, I can't imagine ever having to kiss you,so no. IP: Logged |
Faith
Moderator Posts: 5463
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 22, 2013 11:27 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
I think neptunians would be able to excuse white lies, and would probably be most likely to forgive a liar.
Also, they are easier to talk to...usually, you can tell them uncomfortable truths without fearing a backlash. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted August 22, 2013 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Capricorns
^ Guilty. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 1028
From: past, present, and future
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 22, 2013 12:43 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What sign wouldn't mind / is attracted to an aggressive, opinionated and blunt person?
Its funny but when I was younger I didnt really care for someone being blunt honest with me, in a way I use to see this as a person being ”rude”. As I got older I eventually got tired of not knowing where I stood with others, especially with guys I had dated. Now I do appreciate blunt honesty more than ever, and makes for no misunderstandings. Life is too short to be spent on guessing whats going on with others or how they really feel. Would rather know now the whole truth and nothing but the truth, even if its harsh...blame it on my Pluto placements lol. Would say that people with heavy Pluto in their charts like to dig and seek out the truth, just knowing whether its bad or good seems to bring peace of mind IMO. IP: Logged |
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