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Topic: What makes a woman attract possessive men/or men be possessive in relationships?
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KarkaQueen
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posted August 22, 2013 07:22 PM
  
Seriously, what factors?I attract possessive and a bit obsessive men in my relationships and as romantic interests, I have Sun conjunct DSC, Neptune opposite DSC, Venus inconjunct Neptune.. ect IP: Logged |
Vradec
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posted August 22, 2013 07:52 PM
Possibly Mars Pluto contacts, especially the harsh ones.IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted August 22, 2013 07:56 PM
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Originally posted by Vradec:
Possibly Mars Pluto contacts, especially the harsh ones.
oh yes. I have Mars inconjunct Pluto, does that count? IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted August 22, 2013 08:00 PM
I can be pretty possessive. I like men that are possessive because my Taurus DC and they are possessive. I don't think my boyfriend is crazy possessive but that's also because I don't give him a reason to be. I wouldn't mind it if he was, though. For whatever reason, I like when guys get a little possessive. I have a strong enough personality that I'm going to do what I want no matter what - but I still think it's cute. :x PS I'm Leo/Taurus/Scorpio and he's Taurus/Taurus/Scorpio I know you have a Taurus moon, too.
I also have Mars inconjunct Pluto. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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posted August 22, 2013 08:32 PM
Definitely Mars and Pluto, with a mix of Moon. I have Pluto square Mars, and Moon square Pluto. I can be possesive at times. It doesnt bother me having alittle bit of jealousy, it shows you care IMO.IP: Logged |
Newrise
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From: Los angeles
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posted August 22, 2013 10:58 PM
That sucks. I have mars inconjunct Pluto too. And taurus dsc.I also think it's cute, but I also get put off as fast  IP: Logged |
Newrise
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posted August 22, 2013 11:00 PM
Shows you care, fine. But if you are like that with everyone you've been with then it's just a bad habit.IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti
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From: uranus
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 23, 2013 12:37 AM
i'd say pluto in the 5th or 7th houses/ scorpio on these cusps
in addition to mars pluto harsh aspects, sun square/opp. pluto also brings similar love natures
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Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 23, 2013 01:25 AM
I do vice versa. Definitely pluto.Im naturally like that though.
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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted August 23, 2013 01:36 AM
I have Pluto opposition Venus, and I am very possessive. My sun placement probably adds to that.I find that hard Pluto aspects make for possessive behaviors--to moon, Mars, Venus, Saturn (I think that my Pluto square Saturn has a lot to do with the need to control, which can manifest as possessiveness IMO). The most possessive people I've dated have been Taurus or Cancer suns (can't remember their other aspects). IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted August 23, 2013 01:40 AM
Pluto and mars maybe a bit of saturn in the mix.
Also mars in the 7th or pluto in the 8th vice versa.
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Violets
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posted August 23, 2013 01:49 AM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Also mars in the 7th or pluto in the 8th vice versa.
I can definitely agree with 7th/8th house placements, especially Mars or Pluto. The sun can do it too, if it's conjunct annoying asteroids that will exacerbate those tendencies. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 23, 2013 01:59 AM
What about what rules your 5th, 7th, 8th house?I'm definitely possessive / jealous. BUT I control it. Taurus moon opp. Pluto in the 5th, and Saturn in the 7th square my Sun, Merc, Venus. Plus Capricorn rules my 8th house. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted August 23, 2013 03:43 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What about what rules your 5th, 7th, 8th house?I'm definitely possessive / jealous. BUT I control it. Taurus moon opp. Pluto in the 5th, and Saturn in the 7th square my Sun, Merc, Venus. Plus Capricorn rules my 8th house.
gemini, cancer, and leo IP: Logged |
its_aqua
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posted August 23, 2013 03:55 AM
I have Moon quincunx Pluto and Venus square Pluto and I am extremely possesive. My ex who was very possesive too has a Sun,Mercury,Venus & Pluto stellium in Scorpio.I think Scorpio placements can be very possesive. One of my friends is extremely possesive too, and If I remember correctly she has a Cap Moon, Venus in Pisces. I've experienced possesiveness from Cap Moons. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted August 23, 2013 05:14 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What about what rules your 5th, 7th, 8th house?I'm definitely possessive / jealous. BUT I control it. Taurus moon opp. Pluto in the 5th, and Saturn in the 7th square my Sun, Merc, Venus. Plus Capricorn rules my 8th house.
Yes, I feel like I control mine too. Or I at least keep it close enough to the surface so I can laugh when I'm jealous over something ridiculous. Or call myself out when I'm being irrational. The urges are there, but there's growth. He's the same way though; I got him to admit he was jealous of my dog the other day. :-D
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Aquacheeka
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 23, 2013 11:38 AM
I like possessive men.I wonder why? Plutonian moon, perhaps? IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted August 23, 2013 06:44 PM
For me it is probably a number of things. Taurus DC, Venus in 8th house (Gemini, Taurus duad) --- my mom has Venus 1 degree from me in the same duad and my dad is a Taurus, and is definitely possessive. I also have Pluto (chart ruler) sq sun, opp moon, conj AC - just so much. I am a sucker for it when my man reminds me , "you're mine". So dreamy IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted August 23, 2013 06:59 PM
I hate overly possessive men. Give me clingy and demanding in that sense and I'll run a mile.I do however attract intense possessive (though a lot of them try to hide the possessive side) a lot. 'You're mine' is cute, but if they're over the top or have jealousy issues... I have Sun sextile Pluto by a degree
Pluto in 8th house
Sun conjunct mars
Aries rising IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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posted August 26, 2013 05:18 AM
Which house is your Moon in? And does your Moon conjunct other planets?IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
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posted August 26, 2013 12:28 PM
Scorpio and taurus placements as well.
Aries can be too.
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Garnet75
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posted August 26, 2013 12:36 PM
Definitely mars-pluto aspects depending on what sign these planets are placed in.IP: Logged |
BILL10
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posted August 26, 2013 04:40 PM
Harsh Mars and Pluto contacts and Pluto in the 1st house. IP: Logged |
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