posted August 23, 2013 12:44 AM            

You can make the intensity a part of you, or you can get rid of it, depending on your preferences in life. It's a choice. Not an easy breezy one because you'll have to get rid of underlying reasons.

posted August 23, 2013 12:48 AM            

Nobody ever argues with me when I'm mad, but I know I'm not always right. They usually disappear for months and come back later.

Otherwise, people respond positively but I can tell they are a little uncomfortable which in turn makes me uncomfortable. I've tried not giving such long winded answers, changing my tone, etc. to see if this helps. Sometimes it does but not consistently enough that I would say either of those factors make a difference.

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Short run down -

Aries stellium in the 11H. I figure this would cool down my aggressiveness. Apparently not! Aries stellium semi squares Jupiter. squares Saturn and Neptune too.

Taurus moon, aspects Saturn, Uranus, Neptune by trines, and opposes Pluto. Moon is in the 11th, SUN in the 7th, and Pluto in the 5.

Mars and Jupiter in the 12th house. Jupiter doesn't really do anything, Mars is sextile my Aries stellium, and conjunct my ASC (in Gemini.) also inconjunct Pluto.

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I know Mars conj. ASC may be the culprit, but I mean it's just so much. I mean, I walk around the house being angry. At nothing. Like a crazy person...

posted August 23, 2013 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Newrise:
Hanna, I can actually relate to your situation. I used to be super headstrong, and felt strongly about everything and took everything very personal.

I think what has changed is erm everything. It's still there but the perspective of experiencing life has so much changed that I don't care about 90% of the things I used to care about. I know it may sound bad to you but it feels much more chillaxed this way -and more importantly you start to focus on things that really really matter.

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