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posted August 23, 2013 10:56 PM            

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I’m at the beginning of phase with a cap man who is so silly and shy when we met. And he bought me a dinner, smiling everytime when we talked and held my hands when I needed. And then he hide himself after first date. But he text ed me all the way. I haven’t seen him for a week coz he took a business trip to NYC. After he came back, he text ed me and being very nice like a gentlemen to every text that I sent to him. The only bother me now is I am not sure whether he just wanna be my friend or something else. I am waiting for him to ask me out so that we can know each other more, but And how often should I text him ? I knew it will be long time to wait but I am very confused coz I am scorpio who really in need of patience… Need your great insight for cap man!!! Thank you@

p.s I never chase a guy before, it is so hard to guess and find out how does her feel...

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posted August 24, 2013 01:25 PM            

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posted August 24, 2013 02:08 PM            

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Capricorn is an earth sign, and the earth signs are (usually) practical and sensible. Depending on the rest of his birth chart, he may not be the most demonstrative or romantic person you've known. But he will probably be straightforward and honest.

If he's still contacting you and talking to you, then he is probably still interested. Being a gentleman is one way that a Capricorn guy will try to win someone over.

If you'd like him to invite you out for a date, but you want him to take the lead, you can give him some openings by mentioning your favorite places to go or things to do, and mention your schedule, so he knows when you're free.

Capricorn is kind of independent; he probably won't want a clingy partner. Dozens or hundreds of texts or emails every day is probably too much. Try sticking with the frequency of communication you are already using, or just talk a little more at a time -- if you have a few conversations every week, and you actually want to talk with him more, then try having one more conversation the next week.

Capricorn people are usually business-oriented. (You mentioned that he went on a business trip to New York.) If you want some conversation starters, he might enjoy talking about his business or his plans for the future.

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posted August 24, 2013 05:51 PM            

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Thank you for your details. In fact, I am really not good at initiating date with any guy. I am stubborn scorpio, you know. But I do like the guy and I feel we have feeling for each other. But he is just very concentrated on his career. Meanwhile, I feel that he will shy away if I am act like myself. Meanwhile, I will go to NYC for 3 months because of my job and he keep asking me coming back all the time. Is this signal that he likes me too? But why can't he ask me out directly to a date instead of coming back? I am deeply confused!!!! Thank you!

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posted August 24, 2013 08:36 PM            

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The truth is that I text him very randomly. There are very short and brief. I don't want to rush everything up but just be friends first and see how it goes. But he acted very wired coz we can meet each other sometimes even just friends. This is my first time that some guy make me feel like losing control.. at lease knowing whats going on!!!

P.s my dad is capricorn, who is my best friends 4ever!!! But I can't figure the guy!

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posted August 24, 2013 09:18 PM            

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Sigh, I do love Capricorn men. Too bad I don't realize they are being genuine until afterwards after I have burned them.

If he is responding to your texts, he's still interested. A Capricorn has absolutely no qualms about ignoring someone. They are mature, as in wise for their years, but don't see the point in niceties. If he's asking you to come back, he's still interested. Don't overanalyze Miss Scorpio! I know you feel intense and want the intensity, but you're built for a Capricorn's endurance in that you have the patience to wait, and his intensity will build to match yours over time. They are the "builders" per se of the zodiac.

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posted August 24, 2013 09:54 PM            

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Thank you! I know intensity is my problem, especially for capricorn. I am trying to control my emotion and intensity. They are like invisible ghost for me. Do you know how to let him express themselves more freely instead of I pushed him every time?

Thank you all info! I am in need of help!!!

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